> But that was not what I was talking about. There were people here saying that if a woman says no (for any reason, in any way), then they blacklist her.
It's not a question of blacklisting, but of taking no for an answer. If a woman didn't want to dance with me 10 minutes ago, or last week, or in November 1962, I assume she doesn't want to dance with me now. If she has changed her mind, she can ask me - and I *never* turn any woman down. As for the other topic, of whether to ask someone else after having been turned down: I never do. After all, I am saying: "My first choice didn't want me, so I suppose I will have to make do with you." Instead I would make for the bar as if that was where I was intending to go anyway. The only time I break this rule is when I am in a place where the dancing is on two floors, such as the old Cafe de Paris in London or the Galax in Turku. Then I would go to the other floor, where my rejection was not seen. John Ward Bristol, UK Value your online security: Get 50% off Norton Security 2009 - http://www.tiscali.co.uk/securepc _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list [email protected] http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l
