Once a woman embraces a man to dance with, she is not helpless to just "obey" -- unless a leader is so bad to be totally insensitive, in which case she would likely never again dance with him. With a little effort she can let the leader know what she (dis)likes in a dance, starting with an embrace to musicality to embellishments, etc. On the other hand, there is a variety of reasons why we dance that are all individual and hardly debatable. So, what constitutes a good dance varies from situation to situation. What is most important is that there is a good communication between the partners so that they can adjust to each other's desires. ...dubravko =================================== seek, appreciate, and create beauty this life is not a rehearsal ich bin der Schmied meines eigenen Glücks =================================== http://okvarbud.blogspot.com/ http://dbtango.blogspot.com/ http://dbpolitics.blogspot.com/
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