On 6/23/05, Mary Bull <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > But it was really strange for me to see you stating: "No, no!
> > Uncouth is good!" and then rambling on about how you only object to
> > words ... which really don't bother me at all. ...

Come on, Mary... now you are using an ellipsis to avoid writing the
words "hell" and "damn"... after you, yourself, opened a thread and
included those words in your initial posting? Look, there is no
dictionary that I know of that describes the word "hell" as any kind
of obscenity or swear word in the context that we are using it.
Similar is the case with the word "damn" - in this context. They are
just words with a range of meanings - many of them quite acceptable in
polite (couth) discourse.

> "Uncouth" was in the specific context of Tony's implying that I would
> object to a phrase like "sweating like a pig." He has from time to
> time carried on about my sensibilities ever since I asked him to
> please not write a couple of words which are considered swear words
> here in the Deep South of the U.S., at least among people of my
> generation.

Excuse me, Mary, but I think you are overstating your case. I am a
native son of Dallas, and your generation is not so far removed from
mine. Okay, Texas is not "Deep South", but it is definitely Dixie and
a neighboring state. I have also traveled a lot - not just in the U.S.
but throughout the world. You - and Mr. Pearlstone, for some
mysterious reason - are taking prudery to an absurd and dogmatic
level.

> Well, we're talking about polite discourse on TB! mailing lists, here.
> And Tony was indeed trying to maintain the forms of polite discourse.

And so am I. I am also talking about polite discourse on TB mailing
lists. And I am also trying to maintain the forms of polite discourse.
And that is why I found it odd that you seemed to be encouraging
uncouth language, as long as it did not fall within the narrow range
of the religion-oriented terms that you, but not your religion, object
to.

Take, for example, the following quote from 2 Peter (presumably
authored by the same apostle with whom all Roman Catholic Popes claim
a connection):
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2:1 But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there
shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable
heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon
themselves swift destruction.

2:2 And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the
way of truth shall be evil spoken of.

2:3 And through covetousness shall they with feigned words make
merchandise of you: whose judgment now of a long time lingereth not,
and their damnation slumbereth not.

2:4 For if God spared not the angels that sinned, but cast them down
to hell, and delivered them into chains of darkness, to be reserved
unto judgment;   The "angels that sinned" are the sons of God that had
sex with human females to produce a race of giants.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Will you - or Mr. Pearlstone - insist that I have now been cursing or
swearing or using impolite language here on the tbbeta forum because I
quoted from the New Testament? Look at it: I wrote "damnable",
"damnation", "hell",  and "had sex with human females" - all in a
short space and without enclosing any of those words or phrases in
quotation marks.

It's all about context, isn't it? And in the context that I was
writing before, there was no swearing or impoliteness or even bad
language (though I do not necessarily make the same claim for the New
Testament). Discussing linguistics and referencing specific words does
not constitute use of bad language. Objecting to such a thing is
tantamount to the type of conduct we have seen throughout history in
the form of inquisitions, pogroms, witchhunts, and holocausts. I most
strenuously object to such a dangerous and dogmatic attitude.

> As we all should; and, it being an international list, with people
> from all walks of life on it, circumspect is always the more prudent
> course.

I agree. And maybe I was wrong about what I inferred from your message
to the entire tbbeta forum. But then again, maybe if you only intended
to say something personal to Tony and you did not want everyone on the
forum to read it, including people who might not have known your
history with Tony, then I respectfully submit that you should have
sent your message to Tony by PM and not started a new topic on this
forum.

-- 
Avi Yashar
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