CULTURAL QA04-2021-06

Being  a compilation there may  be errors 

Q1         I have moved to my husband's native city Due to Work fromHome. But 
My load of work has increased as My MILdoes nothing. I am stressed & my health 
is degrading. How should I ask myhusband to move back to city where we work?

A1          Ratnamala Kamath 7-4-2021M'com from Karnatak University, Dharwad 
(Graduated 1988)

Since both of you are employed you can afford to employ  a maid for some work 
or a cook for cooking

If your mother in law is against employing a maid, you can purchasegadgets like 
washing machine, dish washer and vacuum cleaner to reduce yourwork load. 
Gadgets can be bought under instalment scheme if you can't afford tobuy them by 
paying upfront.

If your family is not amenablefor both of the above, talk directly to your 
husband about your difficulties. You can tell him you are moving back to the 
citywhere you work, with or without him if no solution is found to your problem 
athis native place.

You can indirectly tell yourmother in law, that sitting all day long without 
doingany activity will lead to health problems bygiving some example of some 
person you know. There is a chance that this couldmotivate her to help you 
around the house.

These are some suggestions/ideas that I could think of.

Q2         Why do Indian railways use 'rusty rail line' in newprojects? Why 
isn’t stainless steel used for rail lines?

A2          Mangesh Tapare UpdatedJuly 18, 2020 NIT Surat | IIT Bombay

Rust is not much of a issue inthe rails compared to the steel structures 
usually seen.

At the thinnest point a steel beam used in conventional steel structuremight 
have a thickness as low as 6mm. The same on a steel rail section would be about 
15mm.

Under normal conditions the rate of corrosion is approximately0.05mm/year. This 
means for 1mm of steel to be corroded it will take 20 yearsi.e 2mm of steel 
will be corroded considering two faces, which is likeone-third of a beam but 
only 13%for a rail section. That too in 20 years.

Usually the rails would bereplaced in 20 years (frequency would depend on 
various factors).

Therefore, use of stainlesssteel in rail sections will become cost prohibitive.

Another reason is that the main problem in track operation is not the rust. It 
iswear due to friction and cracking due to fatigue which are taken due care 
byregular maintenance. Therust we see on top of a new railway track will be 
weared off after one or twooperations and that on sides will fall off due to 
vibrations.

This is a new track just after being laid. This is during its 
operationperiod.Notice that it is shining in the second image rather than the 
first.

Q3         Sri Krishna was younger than Balarama, then why according toHindu 
customs, Krishna became the king of Mathura and Dwarika and not Balarama?

A3          Bhanu Kiran 5-4-2021 Exploringancient texts of Sanatana Dharma

Question is wrong. Both Krishna and Balarama were never the kings ofDwarka. It 
was Ugrasenawho was ruling Dwarka all the time. Even during the collapse 
ofDwarka, Ugrasena was still ruling it. Ugrasena was the maternal grandfather 
ofKrishna. Here is aquote from Mausala Parva of Mahabharat where Ugrasena was 
taking a decisionabout what to do with the curse given to the Yadavas.

The fact was duly reported to the king. In great distress of mind, theking 
(Ugrasena) caused that iron bolt to be reduced into fine powder. Men 
wereemployed, O king, to cast that powder into the sea. At the command of 
Ahuka, ofJanarddana, of Rama, and of the high-souled Vabhru, it was, again, 
proclaimedthroughout the city that from that day, among all the Vrishnis and 
the Andhakasno one should manufacture wines and intoxicating spirits of any 
kind, and thatwhoever would secretly manufacture wines and spirits should be 
impaled alivewith all his kinsmen. Through fear of the king, and knowing that 
it was thecommand of Rama also of unimpeachable deeds, all the citizens bound 
themselvesby a rule and abstained from manufacturing wines and spirits.[1]

After Dwarka was submerged in sea, citizens were transferred toIndraprasta and 
greatgrandson of Krishna named Vajra was named as the king. Krishna is called 
asDwarkadhish since he established this city to safeguard people fromthe 
attacks of Jarasandha. In Gujarat, there is a temple called “ShreeDwarkadhish 
Temple” which is dedicated to Krishna. 

My note- What I have studied wasKrishna after killing Kamsa became king of 
Mathura and Later shifted hiscapital to Dwaraka. I request learntreaders to 
comment on this answer

Q4         What was your biggest culture shock when visiting SouthIndia?

A4          Akanksha Singh 3-4-2021Growth& Partnerships at Medtronic 
Diabetes-North Indian: 

I have lived and seen may states of North India-Jammu and kashmir, 
Punjab,Delhi, Haryana, Uttar Pradesh, Bihar, West Bengal and many more.

To me living in the south of thecountry was something which took me by 
surprise. i lived in Hyderabad between2014–2016.

These were some things that I found different from North India

Weather - 365 days you havemore or less the same weather. Itis hot and humid 
throughout the year. It is pleasant to stay in Monsoon butotherwise it is 
really boring. Not that I am a huge fan of winter but itseasonal changes keeps 
life interesting :)

Food - Apart from the famousHyderabadi Biryani, Haleem,sambar , idli, wada etc 
there was so many more things to the food in South.

Rice : South Indians do lovetheir Rice. I used to usuallybring chappatis in my 
lunch and all my colleagues from my seniors to staff werevery much amused by it 
,to the extent that they felt I am not properly fed oron a diet. Curd Rice , 
thelove for curd rice in South India is more than the live for Rajma Chawal 
inNorth India. Even big chains like Barbecue Nation and other restaurents    
serves Curd rice in their buffet in Hyderabad.South India introduced meto - 
Tomato Rice,Tamrind rice,lemon rice ,sambhar rice and so many more

Chutney : Women in south makechutneys from all kind ofvegetables other than 
dhaniya,pudina, tomato etc they make chutneys of laukikaddu karela etc and they 
tasted so damn yummy.

Idli-wada : Idli wada isavailable at rates of Rs 20–40 aplate with good hygiene 
and taste. After that I dont feel like eating theoverpriced small portions of 
Idli and wada I get in restaurants back in North.

Culture- I feel people in SouthIndia are more rooted and closerto their 
culture. I love the rangolis in southern india.

But nonetheless it is India, and I feel lucky to be a part of such avibrant 
country

Q5         What's the difference between atoms, molecules, andcompounds?

A5          Arsh Pandey, studiesNtse Scholar,class 10th 100 in 3 (2026) 8-4-2021

Atoms are the tiniest part ofan element which can take partin a chemical 
reaction.

Molecules are the smallest part of matter to exist independently. In general 2 
or more atoms ofsame or diff elements combine to form molecules.

Compounds : large numbermolecules together are calledcompounds .

Q6         What are some interesting social norms of your country?

A6          Okafor Josephine August1, 2020 Lives in Port Harcourt, Nigeria 
(2002–present)

In Nigeria, we have someinteresting social norms.

1.We take off our shoes at the door. Most Nigerians walk barefooted intheir 
homes but few Nigerians wear indoor Slippers at home.

2.Pregnant women pin theirdresses with a safety pin when going out. It is 
believed that the safety pin wards evil spirit away and protects the mother 
andchild.

3. We don't whistle at night.Whistling at night calls evil spirits. Also, most 
Nigerians don't sweep atnight.

4. In Yoruba culture, eatingclose to the door is prohibited. They say you can 
never getsatisfied when eating at the door because spirits will eat with you.

5. Greeting is very important inNigeria. It's compulsory andnecessary to greet 
your elders. An elderly person can even stop you and caution you if you don't 
greetthem. Some cultures even prostrate to greet elders. Greeting is muchvalued 
in Nigeria.

6. Helping elders is verycommon too. We help elders whenwe see them with heavy 
load especially when returning from the market. Mosttimes, my nanny gets help 
when returning from the market. 

Q7         What are some of the greatest examples of presence of mind?

A7          Alok Kumar UpdatedOctober 15, 2019-Studied at Shiv Nadar University 
(Graduated 2018)

My cousin and I were riding on our bike. Father had sent us to get someofficial 
documents from a man who was to meet us at a particular square.

The place was hardly a kilometrefrom home and hence we didn't bother carrying 
our helmet.

When we were about to reach the square, we noticed traffic cops and police 
officials carrying outextensive checks.

No helmet. No driving licence. No registration certificate. We wereanxious.

Somehow we managed to cross the square to get on the opposite road.Escaped 
merely.

We waited for the man to come with the documents.

All this while we were planning on how to escape from this 
predicamentunscathed. We hardly hadany extra money with us.

The man came, verified us, handed the documents and left.

Now was the real battle of crossing the square unharmed. There was noother way 
around. We hadno option but to take the same road.

Both of us thought of something and tried giving it a shot. Probably thatwas 
the only option.

My cousin switched off theengine. We both got down off the bike and began 
dragging it until we reachedthe square where two traffic cops (TC) stopped us.

TC 1 (chewing tobacco): What happened?

Cousin (seriously): Nothing. We ran out of fuel. 

TC 2 (spitting tobacco): There's a petrol pump. You can go there.

Cousin (calmly): We don't have money.Silence for few seconds.

By now we had started dragging our bike from the place. Both of us tryingto 
control our smiles.

TC 1 to TC 2: They are makinga fool of us. This is now a new technique that I 
am witnessing.

We turned back to look at the cops who were wickedly smiling at us. Wecouldn't 
control our laughter.

We kept dragging the bikeuntil we were out of their sight. We escaped 
unscathed. We had successfullyfooled them.

Edit: Many people have upvoted this but what makes me more interested arethe 
comments where people are talking about the foolishness on our part to notwear 
the helmet. Almost all comments cover the same.

Yes, that was a foolish act. I do agree. My parents agreed. My brotheragreed. 
My younger sister agreed. None of them saw any sort of humor in this.

Always be well equipped while riding your vehicle. Don't let the need ofsuch 
‘presence of mind' arise. 

Q8                    When doesdirt become sand?

A8          1ST ANSWER- KennethGreenfield, former Resident Engineer at 
Management Consultants (1974-2019)4-2-2021

When it isn’t earth. You’re talking about general terms. The specifictype of 
soil is based upon its size. There are three basic types of soil. 1) 
Granular(rocks, ston, cobbles, gravel and sand. Then slits and then clays. 
Granularmaterials are larger than a No 200 sieve >75 mm, silts are< 75 mm 
andgreater than 5mm in size. 

Finally you have clays whichare finer than 5 mm. Granularmaterials can be seen 
with the unaided eye and are subject to physical laws. Silts require a 
magnifyingglass to be viewed and are subject to physical laws, but do use the 
lawof capillary attraction. Clays are microscopic in size and use laws 
ofchemistry and electronics. Meaningthey can combine on the electrical level 
with molecules such as water. 

2ND ANSWER TrishBurford, former Self Taught Reader and Learner 6-4-2021

You’re thinking in reverse. Sandbecomes dirt or soil. Sand tendsto be a first 
stage when rocks erode. Sand is made of little bits of inorganicmaterial like 
silicon dioxide, calcium carbonate, etc. A mix of minerals. Itgets washed down 
rivets or blown away to collect elsewhere. It is colonized byhardy plants that 
might be found at a shore, in a dry climate, or some kind ofdepression. As the 
firstplants go through their life cycles, they begin to leaves behind more 
complexorganic materials. The plants also attract animals native to 
suchsystems, which also leave behind more organic material. Decay breaks them 
down with the help of bacteria andother natural processes, and all of this 
mixes with the sand into a layer oftopsoil. In this way, sand gradually can 
become dirt or soil.

3RDANSWER - Ryan Charlton Answered 3-4-21 

Dirt is organic soil and willnever be sand . Sand is washed groundstones 
gradually back and forth from the sea. Just imagine all those miles of 
Sandybeaches we have and how tiny the sand is in e.g. Florida that gets 
intoyour suitcase noticed when you get back home. Now sand can become mixed 
with soil and becomes dirt andyou can grow things in it quite well. Over in 
Prince Edward Island Soiland sand from the sea are mixed together to provide 
all those great PotatoesMcDonalds buys for 99% of their restaurants. :) 

Q9         Who was Sita in previous birth?

A9          3 Answers Vardha Amonker, I've researchedand read lot regarding 
Indian epics. Answered August 27, 2020

Sita was Vedavati within herprevious life. Vedavati was thedaughter of 
Brahmarishi Kushadhvaja who was the son of Brihaspati. He calledher Vedavati. 
It was because she was born as the result of his penance (tapasya).Her father 
wanted her to marryLord Vishnu. He rejected all the suitors who desired her. 
One of hersuitors called Shambhu murdered her parents one night. She stayed 
within herparent's hut and meditated to please Lord Vishnu.

One day Ravana saw her and was captivated by her beauty. He asked her tomarry 
him and become his queen. She rejected him and said that she would beLord 
Vishnu’s wife…

2nd answer- GobiSubramaniam, Bachelor Honours NCC Diploma, Malaysia (2017) 
Answered September9, 2018

She didn’t have a former life.

When Maha Vishnu takes birth as an Avatar, His consort - Maha Lakshmiwill 
choose to take a birth as well and Devi Sita was one such Avatar. Her role 
inRamayana was as a “helpless damsel”, captive of Ravana.

Previously, Maha Lakshmiusually stays at Vaikuntha and see how Her Lord 
performs on this World since all the other Avatars was a simple or short 
ones.But in Ramayana and Mahabratha Epic, the time span Maha Vishnu had to take 
onthe World had increase, and She joined Him on Earth. 

Q10       What is the information you want to share?

A10        A few days ago, during oneof our regular morning road trips, one of 
our friends badly needed a toilet(perks of waking up tooearly, you know). He 
immediately started looking into Google Maps for a publictoilet nearby. This is 
when I realised, that most people are unaware of thisfact.

It is mandatory for all thefuel pumps to maintain a Proper Toilet and Drinking 
Water for the generalpublic.

Every time you buy diesel or petrol, you pay 6 paise and 4 paise perlitre 
respectively as 'Toilet Maintenance Cost'.

So if you are ever in an urgenthunt for a toilet (like my friend), look for 
petrol pumps nearby. This mightsave you (your pants specifically) someday. 

You may also report any fuelpump in case of non-maintenance of a toilet or 
non-availability of drinkingwater using the Indian Government’s Swachhta App 
and also to the districtadministration.

That you pay for toilet and drinking water facilities at petrol pumpsevery time 
you buy a litre of petrol/diesel.

All the above QA are based onQuora on 08-04 - 2021. Quora answers need not be 
100% correct answers 

Compiled and posted by R. Gopala krishnan on 08-4- 2021 

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