PRANAM Alzheimer's or another form of dementia, you may be wondering how to cope with *swearing and other bad or foul language; words that can be shocking when they come from the mouth *of a family member or friend who has never spoken like that. *Let's take a look at why some* people with dementia swear, the possible triggers for foul language, and what you can do to cope. Cognitive changes such as memory loss <https://www.verywellhealth.com/types-of-memory-explained-98552> are a hallmark of dementia, but challenging behaviors <https://www.verywellhealth.com/the-complete-guide-to-challenging-behaviors-in-dementia-97607> such as foul language can also develop. (Alzheimers Association. Memory Loss & Confusion <https://www.alz.org/help-support/caregiving/stages-behaviors/memory-loss-confusion> .). Foul language may stream out of the person's mouth at times, even if they've *never* uttered a swear word before in their life. Understandably, this can be hurtful and embarrassing to this person's family or friends. effect of dementia can be the loss of a filter of which words are spoken. Words that otherwise would be caught before they were spoken now may be uttered freely due to the loss of inhibitions and personality changes <https://www.verywellhealth.com/personality-changes-in-alzheimers-97989> that sometimes develop as dementia progresses. A person who would never want to hurt others before developing dementia might call someone hurtful, offensive names now. (*Cognitive and Behavioral Neurology*. ) Dementia also can trigger frustration about the many cognitive losses and the need for dependence on others for help, and that frustration can all come flowing out—sometimes through swearing and name-calling. Most important, however, is to recognize that you *do* have options, including taking a break if you need . Psychological (cognitive) triggers may also lead to foul language. Some of these potential triggers may include delusions and paranoia. If you find yourself the target of hurtful behavior, it is important to remind yourself that your loved one's reality is not your reality. Try not to take it too personally. Let compassion direct your actions. It's not about being a martyr; it's about framing foul language as a symptom of dementia so that you can retain your objectivity and still appreciate the person you've always loved. kr irs 19421
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