Pranam
Q1   It is not only for srardham which is later samskara; next to the sound
AUM, the second word uttered was from Veda as rig vedam sounded AGNI.
Everything in our custom only goes by the agni. This kind of question leads
one to think differently also.
Q2   Do not make the women ashamed; soucham is for all; and for srardham
men must be pure by observing fasting in the previous night; and the
vadhyars must also be very strict which is flouted in these days; they
feast in the previous night; go to hotel for breakfast; and attend a death
ritual; and attend your srardham also without taking oil bath at your
place wearing the new dress. So impurity is on men; women are fire and
hence allowed to play with the fire in the kitchen. So do not be exclusive
like your Guru; Good women I am talking about.
Q3    Can you site where it is said (other than INDIAN MIRROR WEBSITE) IT
IS STATED 3 pindams of which one should be eaten by spouse?. I have heard
soma pitruman, agni pitruman but not barya pitruman sir : The srardha rules
abso;utely correct is as under and please stop writing about it again and
again  as if your imposition:
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Sradha Vidhi (Rules of Sradha)
Sradha Vidhi  (Rules governing annual death ceremony) Compiled by  P.R.
Ramachander
Sradha (that which is done with attention and sincerity) is the term used
by Brahmins for the annual death ceremony. I am summarizing here the rules
regarding Sradha as given by Anna in a book called Pithru Pooja and another
book called Pithru yagnam which is compiled by Sri.V.Srinivasan. Both books
are in Tamil. Reading through it , you would soon come to the conclusion
that Sradha according to rules is extremely difficult to perform, due to
our pre occupation with modern life.
Sradha comes from the word Sradha(Trust/loyalty) and indicates the annual
ritual performed to offer food to three generations of our ancestors. It is
believed that when our manes reach the land of the manes(Pithru Loka) , our
one year is one day for them. We are only attempting to offer food and
water to them every day. Normally every one performs Sradha only to his
parents but it should be offered by us to all those to whom we have
performed death ceremony, Real parents in case we are adopted, Grandparents
, if they die after the death of all their sons and brother of father if he
does not have a son , brother if he does not have a son .

1.Some definitions

Kartha- The one who does Sradha
Boktha-He who participates in Sradha representing the manes(Pithrus.)

1.Time for doing Sradha

1.1. Sradha should be performed in the souramana month* , on the phase of
the moon and on the thidhi when the person dies , annually. The thidhi is
that which occurs in the Kudaba kala in Aparahna i.e after 18
Nazhigai(approximately 8 hours after sun rise) . Sradha is to be performed
in the Kudaba Kala of Aparahna only. During the Paksha of Sradha at least
for three one days one should follow all rituals and observe all rules.
1.2. If the thidhi is spread over two days, Sradha should be performed on
that day when Thidhi is there in the afternoon. If both days it is spread
on the afternoon , then it should be performed on the day when it is spread
more in the afternoon. If it is spread equally then it should be done on
the first day.
1.3. If during a month two thithis come , then Sradha should be performed
on the second Thidhi. If one of them happens to be the day when month
starts(Sankramana) , it should be done on the other day.. If both are
having Sankramana , it should be done on the first day.
1.4. If there is no thidhi in a particular month, it should be done on the
thidhi of the previous chandramana month without Sankramana. If it is not
there in the Chandramana month , it should be done in the next souramana
month.
(*There are two system of month in India. Souramana month is the period
when Sun stays in the rasi of the month . Chandramana is always from
Prathama for thirty days. Chandramana year will have 360 days. After every
five years, there would be an Athi masa(Extra month))

2.Tripurusha Udesa and yeka purusha Udesa

2.1 When we do Sradha to father, mother , grandfather , grandmother , great
grandfather , great grandmother , maternal grandfather, maternal
grandmother, wife, brother of father, brother, biological father ,
biological mother, we should do Sradha aimed at three generations(Tri
Purusha udhesa) . For all others only his generation would be
addressed(Yeka Purusha udesa). The Sradha where three generations are
addressed is called Parvana Vidhana and where only one generation is
addressed it is called Yekodhishta.

2.2. In Sradha being done by ladies in case of Father in law, mother in
law, father, mother, husband, Grandfather , and grandmother, three
generations are addressed. All other cases only one generation are
addressed.

2.3. If Sradha is performed by someone representing a lady or child by
taking authorization in the form of Durba grass,, he does not have
Apavasya.(Sacred thread need not be worn on the right shoulder).

3.Homa for whom and when

3.1 When Sradha is performed for father, mother , grandfather , grandmother
, great grandfather , great grandmother , maternal grandfather, maternal
grandmother, wife, brother of father, brother, biological father ,
biological mother, then only Homa is performed . For others Homa is not
there.

3.2 For all sradhas performed by women there is no Homa.

3.3. Homa cannot be performed without the presence of the wife. That is an
unmarried person/widower or one whose wife is absent due to some reason is
not authorized to perform Homa.

4. Procedure when more than one Sradha has to be performed on the same day.

4.1.If the Sradha of father and mother come on the same day or comes on a
day when the family taint goes away, then the Sradha of father has to be
done first and later Sradha to the mother has to be done.

4.2. If Sradha of father and step mother comes on the same day , after
performing father’s Sradha, cooking has to be done gain , and the Sradha of
step mother has to be performed.

4.3 If the annual Sradha(Apthikam) and Masika(Monthly sradham performed for
one year after death) comes together , then the Aapthika should be done
first and then the Masika.

4.4. If Sradha addressed to three generations(Parvana) and Ekodhishta(One
addressed to one generation) comes on the same day , first Parvana has to
be performed and then Ehkodhista with new cooking.

4.5. The Sradha of father or mother which was not performed due to it
occurring in the middle of after death ceremonies of father or mother
should be performed after Sapindikarana day. But if the Sradha is of
anybody else except the parents then it should be done only after the first
death anniversary Sradha.

4.6.Before the Sapindikarana of mother or father , we should not perform
the Sradha of anybody else. But the Sradha of mother or father should be
done before the sapindikarana of others. If for some reason the
sapindikarana of mother or father is delayed, the Sradha of any of the
others can be performed after 12th day.

4.7. On the same day two sradhas should not be performed addressing the
same manes That is Sradha or mane worship coming on fixed days and Sradha
on special occasions come (like that during eclipse) then performing that
of the special occasions would give the effect of the one which comes on
fixed days.

4.8 In case of Sradha being performed by ladies is stopped by their getting
periods , they should do it after the time when they take purificatory bath.

4.9 If Sradha is stopped due to birth or death taint, then it should be
performed after the taint goes away. If Sradha is not performed due to
forgetfulness or due to some other reason(Being in a foreign country/priest
not available etc) , then it should be done on the Ekadasi of Krishna
Paksha or Amavasya day.

4.10. If we happen to perform death ceremonies to mother or father in law
during the first year of death of our parents, then their Sapindikaranam
should be performed after the annual ceremony of the parents only.

5.Materials for Sradha(Sradha dravya)

5.1.If for some reason it is not possible to present Vasthram ( Cloth) to
the Brahmins during Sradha , at least , they should be given a sacred
thread(Yagnopavita).

5.2. The food for Sradha should be cooked in ghee. Some people believe that
, since Gingelly is used during the Sradha , Gingelly oil could also be
used.

5.3.Millets , cowpea seeds , horse gram , Drum stick, Ash gourd, Bottle
gourd , , asafetida and all western vegetables should not be used for
Sradha. ( In some families in Kerala, Snake gourd is specially used.)

5.3.1 Black gram, black Gingelly , wheat, cowpea, bitter gourd, jack fruit
, mango , Pomegranate, Curry leaf, lemon, Banana fruit, Ilanthai fruit,
gooseberry , grapes, pepper, snake gourd, Kandan Kathiru, honey , ghee,
Kandasari sugar, Jaggery , sea salt, Cow milk, Yam , colacasia, Jeera ,
Cardamom, Lablab beans Thoothuvalai, Pirandai, Curd prepared out of cow’s
milk and Banana pseudo stem can be used for cooking in Sradham.

5.3.2. Some people use Coconut , mustard , Bengal gram , ash gourd, wood
apple and Chillies. Follow the customs of your house.
5.4. Fruits, sweet preparations , milk, curd and Ghee there is no taint due
to sesha. That is even if they are offered to the manes, the remaining
material can be used by all others.

6,Sradha devatha(Gods of Sradha)

6.1 Viswe devas
The Viswe devas are addresses as Puroorava-ardhrava during the Sradha of
householders and as Sadhu-Guru in case of Sanyasins.

6.2 Pithru devas
Father is addressed as Vasu , Grandfather as Rudra and great grandfather as
Adithya. In case of Sradha of father’s brothers and elder brother, they and
their two previous generations should be addressed as Vasu-Rudra-Adithya.

3.Maha Vishnu
Instead of calling a Brahmin and making him Maha Vishnu , in many case Maha
Vishnu is simply assumed to be present and no one represents him.

7.The effect /results of Sradha

The performance of Sradha makes devas happy by the Homa, the people in
heaven by food offering to Brahmins , The people in Yama’s world by Pinda
dhana(offering of rice balls), The human beings by good food , the devils
and ghosts by what is left over , the people in hell by the cooked rice
which is sprinkled (Vikira annam) and the people unknown by the food
offered to the crows.

8.The type of Sradhas

8.1 Anna Sradha which is done using cooked rice
8.2 Aama Sradha which is done using uncooked food
8.3 Hiranya Sradha which is done using money only
8.4. He who has a living father does not have the right to do rituals of
Pithrus. But he should do Brahma Yagna (without the Pithru part), Nandi
sradham and Theertha sradham. For him the gods addressed are same as that
done by his father. He cannot do Gaya Sradha.


8.Some rules of Sradha

8.1 Both Kartha and Boktha should not eat anything after eating the ritual
Bhojanam after the Sradha.
8.2.We can do Koosmanda Homam for removing our sins before Sradha.
8.3. We should start doing Oupasana at least four days before Sradha. The
fire of Sradha is lit from the Oupasa agni.
8.4.For performing Sradha Kudhabha time , Douhithra (daughter’s son) and
black Gingelly are very important.
8.5 . It is believed that black Gingelly was got after Varaha Avathara and
prevents evil spirits from entering our house.
8.6.We should not ask our Brother to participate in the Sradha as a
Boktha(representative of our manes
8.7. Sick person or one who do not know Vedas cannot be a Boktha.
8.8.He who has married a girl who is not A kanya cannot be a Boktha.
8.9. During the monthly periods of a lady, her husband cannot be a Boktha
8.10. People who do not have a wife and a son cannot be a Boktha.
8.11He who has participated in a Sradha as Boktha cannot be a Boktha for
another three days.
8,12. The one wants and requests to be made as a Boktha is ineligible.
8.13.Yogi, Jnani , Sama Vedi and Douhithran (daughter’s son) are preferred
to be Bhokthas.
8.14 . He whose wife is more than 3 months pregnant cannot be a Boktha.
8.15He who has shaved in that Morning cannot be a Boktha
8.!6 He who is suffering from leprosy , infected nail or teeth cannot be a
Boktha
8.17 . He who has to perform first death ceremony of his father cannot be a
Boktha
8.18.When two Brahmins come , the younger one should represent the Pithrus
and the elder one the Viswedevas.
8.19. People who can afford should give silk Dhoti(5 years) and Uthareeyam
(3 yards) to the Bokthas
8.20 At least we should present the same quality of Dhoti which we normally
wear.
8.21. People who cannot afford should at least give a Sacred
thread(Yagnopavitha)
8.22. The Kartha should start the Sradha only after wearing a new
Yagnopavitha.
8.23. The Kartha should never get angry on the Sradha day.
8.24 He should not take food in somebody else’s house at least for a month
before the Sradha. This could be at least 3 days when it is not possible to
do otherwise.(Food from teacher, sister, uncle and father in law can be
taken)

8.25 Oil bath should not be taken within the seven day period preceding the
Sradha

8.26.He should not lie on a cotton bed or make love in those seven days
8.27 We should not wash the feet of the Brahmin with Pavithram. It should
be removed and tucked in the ear.
8.28 For Viswedevas it is Chathurasram and for Pithrus it is circle below
the Plate on which feet are washed.
8.30. The water used for washing the feet of Viswedevas is holy and should
not mix with water used to wash the feet of Pithrus.
8.40 The remaining ghee which is used for Homa should not be consumed
8.41 Cooking should be done in Ghee. It could be done in coconut oil or
Gingelly oil as per the custom of our forefathers
8.42.Seasoning with mustard is not done by some and some others do it. This
is determined by the practice of our forefathers.
8.43 . The Kartha and his wife should wear cloths washed and dried on the
same day.
8.44.All food articles should be washed before cooking.
8.45 Relation or servant should not be employed for cooking
8.46 A lady who is nearing time for periods or one who has just taken the
purificatory bath cannot cook.
8.$7 Cooking should not be done with wert cloth
8.58 You can shake the wet cloth seven times and then wear it and cook
8.59 If we happen to go to toilet during the time of cooking, we should
take bath and restart the cooking
8.60 A pregnant lady or a sick lady should not cook
8.61.A widow who has not shaved her head should not cook
8.62. While cooking, we should not keep on talking
8.63 People who have drunk coffee should not cook
8.64 The Sradha should be performed in our own house. If not possible , we
can give rent and then perform it.
8.65 Food for Sradha should not be cooked in steel vessels
8.66 Thilaka and sound of bell should not be there during Sradha time
8.67 The hair should be tied
8.68 The rice should be prepared last
8.69 when we serve rice on the leaf steam should come out of it.

8.70 The leaf used for taking food of the Brahmins should be buried in the
soil. Some people put it in an unused well, In towns some people give it to
the cows. This is not correct. But if there is no other go do it.

8.71.,Theleaves should be removed before the final blessings.

8.72 The Kartha should not clean his teeth with brush or stick on the day
of Sradha and on the day before

8.73 The Bokthas should not touch each other They should not talk during
meals but show their requirements by pointing them out with their fingers
8.74 They should not keep Payasam and ghee remaining on the leaf after they
eat. They should keep a small quantity of every other thing
8.75 They should eat slowly and take sufficient food so that they do not
feel hungry at night.
8.76 Vasu, Rudra and Adithya are Sradha devathas
8.77Byjoing these devas along with them , our pithrus would only be happy.
8.78 All rituals addressed to devas should be done with Yagnopavita on the
left shoulder. The water offering(Tharpana) should be offered to them
straight. They should be worshipped by rice
8.79 All rituals addressed to the Pithrus should be done with Yagnopavita
on the right shoulder. Water offering should be through the space between
thumb and the next finger to the sides. They should be worshipped by
Gingelly.
8.80 When the Brahmins are taking food Abisravana mantras should be chanted
so that Rakshasa are kept away. If we do not know these mantras , Brahmins
who know them should be employed to chant them. They should be given fees
for doing so.
8.81 In case of Yekodishtam, Sapindikaranam , Masikam , Anumasikam, Nandi
Sradham Abisravana Mantras should not be chanted.
8.82 . If some eaten food from one Brahmin falls on another Brahmins leaf.
The leaves should be removed and they should be again served food in the
new leaf. They should not get up.
8.83 Till the Brahmins finish their food , the fire of Homa should be
maintained. If it goes out, the Sradha has to be redone.
8.84 The pinda meant for crow(Vayasa Pinda) should be protected till it is
eaten by a crow.
8.85 Though all serving and other rituals are done first to the Brahmin
representing the devas. Getting up after finishing the food should be done
first by Brahmin representing the Pithrus.
8.86 After Pindas are offered put little of the rice in the mouth. In some
families they only smell it.
8.87 Pindas can be put in water or fire. If the Sradha is performed in
sacred waters , it should be put in the river
8.88 Till the Sradha is over , Pundra and Rudraksha should not be worn.
8.89 The Kartha and Boktha should not drink anything except water. Boktha
can put Thamboola.
He should not do any other ritual that day. He can do Sandhya Vandana only
after Chanting Gayathri ten times. If he is ding Oupasana ,m it should be
got done by somebody else. He should not accept any Dhana(charity) that day.
8.90 If crow takes Pinda from east , you will get wealth. If it takes from
south, you will get disease, If it takes from west, you would go on a tour.
If it takes from north, your longevity would get reduced.
8.91. If it is Ekadasi , the Kartha can and should take the food offered to
the manes.
8.92 Since the dead people become devas, Sradha Pithru sesham of people
younger to you and of your wife can be taken.
8.93 Even if they are married ladies can eat Pithru sesham of mother,
father and brother
8.94But if they become widow they are not supposed to eat it.
8,95 There is no pithrusesham in case of father in law and uncle.
8.96The para heni Tharpanam should be performed next day to sradham. It
should be done next day early morning at 4 AM. After doing it a bath has to
be taken, If father is alive there is no Paraheni Tharpana in the Sradha of
mother. There is no Paraheni Tharpana in case of Sapindikaranam, Anumasikam
, Nandi and Apthikam.

8.97 Brothers who have divided their property should do Sradha separately.
8.98 If they live in separate houses, they should do it separately. Joining
only on Sradha day and the eldest one only doing is not correct. If mother
is alive all brothers should do it together.
8.99 Gingelly should not be taken by thumb and the next finger.
8.1000Sradha should be performed during Mahalaya P, Bharani Ashtami and
Vyadheepada are special

8.101 Nandi Sradha is an auspicious function.
Sradha should be done first according to rules Some people use grass
instead of Dharbha and Barley instead of Gingelly. The Pariseshachanam
round is not done in anti clock wise directions. Swadha(food of Manes) is
not offered. It should be done during Garbha danam , Pumsavanam,
Seemantham, Jathakarmam, Nama Karnam, Annaprasanam, Choulam , Upanayanam,
Graha pravesam etc.People who cannot afford can perform Nandi as Aama
Sradha or Hiranya Sradha.
In Nandi Two Brahmins representing Viswa deva, two Brahmins for grandfather
and two for father should be represented
Q4   Srardham is not a concept to adopt or leave; if you do it as a
remembrance to that body which cherished you always; that body is inside
the earth all the time in some form or even enters your body as food for
the generations to come out. Only the soul and the mind abstracts and
unconnected to the body wears another body who belongs to someone else;
rebirth is not for the original body; but the rebirth of the soul in
another format and name for another body; we are broadminded enough to say
let all live happily and so 40 samskaras. If one is doing it with the
shaddai .
 KR IRS   19222


On Fri, 18 Feb 2022 at 19:45, 'gopala krishnan' via iyer123 <
[email protected]> wrote:

> QUES ANSW DIVINE 2-2022-18
>
> Dear friends,
>
> These are information compiled as QA by me in 1998’s-2004’s and stored in
> my computer. They are posted by *learnt members*.  Some QA are based on
> concepts. *These concepts vary between people.*
>
> *BEING COMPILATION THERE MAY BE  ERRORS.*
>
> Sincerely,
>
> *R. Gopalakrishnan, 78, dated 18-02-2022*
>
> Q1 Why a portion of the offerings first made to Agni during sraadha?
>
> A1 If a portion of the offerings be first made to the deity of fire at a
> sraddha, Rakshasas of regenerate origin cannot then do any injury to such
> a sraddha. Beholding the deity of fire at a Sraddha Rakshasas fly away
> from it.
>
> Q2 What are the regulations regarding women who can  be associated with
> sraadha?
>
> A2 A woman who has become impure in consequence of the advent of her
> season, or *one whose ears have been cut off, *should not be allowed to
> remain where a Sraddha is being performed.
>
> Nor should a woman (for cooking the rice to be offered in the Sraddha) *be
> brought from a Gotra other than that of the person who is performing the
> Sraddha.*
>
> My note- Nowadays same gothra principle is not followed  by many.
>
> Q3 Why are three rice-balls offered separately at a Shraddha? Unto whom
> should the first of those rice-balls be offered? Unto whom should the
> second one be offered? And whose has it been said is the third or remaining
> one?
>
> A3 The first rice-ball should be considered  as thrown into the waters.
> The second ball should be given to one of the wives to eat. The third ball
> should be cast into the blazing fire.
>
> Having heard from the holy Vyasa what the end is of the three rice-balls
> offered at the Shraddha, as explained by the Pitris themselves in reply to
> the question of the celestial messenger, *I shall explain the same to
> thee. *
>
> Do thou hear, O monarch, what the conclusions are with respect to the
> ordinances about the Shraddha. Listen with rapt attention, O Bharata, to me
> as I explain what the end is of the three rice-balls.
>
> That rice-ball which goes into water is regarded as gratifying the deity
> of the moon. *That deity, thus gratified, O thou of great intelligence,
> gratifies in return the other deities and the Pitris also with them.*
>
> It has been laid down that the second rice-ball should be eaten by the
> spouse (of the man that performs the Shraddha). *The Pitris who are very
> desirous of progeny, confer children on the woman of the house*. Listen
> now to me as I tell thee what becomes of the rice-ball that is cast into
> the blazing fire.
>
> With that ball put in fire the *Pitris are gratified and **as the result
> thereof they grant the fruition of all wishes unto the person offering it.*
>
>  I have thus told thee everything about the end of the three rice-balls
> offered at the Shraddha and consigned to the three (viz., water, the
> spouse, and the fire).
>
> Q4 When the Jiva undergoes transmigration and takes another birth after
> leaving this physical body, is it necessary that we should perform Sraaddha
> ceremony for him? He is no more in the heavens. To whom will the oblations
> reach?” ?
>
> A4 Some people entertain this  doubt, In the ninth chapter of the Gita,
> Lord Krishna has made it very clear that those virtuous persons who perform
> sacrifices for the attainment of heaven attain to those worlds of
> enjoyments. “They having enjoyed that spacious world of Svargas, their
> merit (Punya) exhausted, enter the world of the mortals; thus following the
> Dharma of the triad, desiring objects of desires, they attain to the state
> of going and returning.” This establishes the theory of attainment of
> heaven after death, and rebirth in the mortal world after the exhaustion
> of virtuous acts. The enjoyments in heaven and peace of the soul are
> enhanced by the performance of Sraaddha ceremony.
>
>  *The suffering in worlds other than heaven according to the merits of
> one’s own actions is mitigated by the performance of Sraaddha ceremony by
> his sons*. So in both cases the performance of Sraaddha is a great help.
> The Pitris remain in heaven (Pitriloka, Chandraloka) for a very long
> period.
>
> *According to the theory of transmigration, even if the individual is to
> take another birth immediately after his death, the performance of Sraaddha
> adds to his happiness in his new birth.*
>
> So it is the imperative duty of everybody to perform Sraaddha ceremony for
> his parents and forefathers. Sraaddha ceremony should be performed with
> great Sraddha (faith) as long as you live. Faith is the main support for
> religion.
>
> “Sraddhavan labhate jnanam...the man of faith attains knowledge and
> thereby immortality and eternal peace” is the declaration of the Gita.
>
> *My note- I have included this QA, since many* Brahmins go by this
> principle. But it is  an individual opinion and srardha itself is a
> concept.
>
> There are Brahmins who discontinue srardha  after Gaya srardha telling it
> is a phase. Their ground is a soul  in Devaloka or heaven  does not feel
> hunger. Srardha to a person who is in Devaloka is not clear in this
> answer.
>
> Q5 Do People who die without a son will suffer in the other worlds?
>
> A5 People who die without a son may suffer in the other worlds.But it is
> not a general rule. That is the reason why people *adopt a son before
> their death for the due performance of Sraaddha ceremonies after their
> death*. The Gita also supports this view. “Patanti pitaro hyesham
> luptapindodakakriyah”: their forefathers fall (down to hell) deprived of
> the offerings of Pinda (rice-ball) and water.
>
> But, if a man is religious-minded and if he has discrimination and
> dispassion, belief in the Sastras and the Vedas, if he has led a virtuous
> life till the end of his life, if he has devoted his last days in
> devotional practices, Japa, meditation, study, etc., (even if he has no
> son) he will not have a fall.
>
> Q6 Do luxury in sraadha is good?
>
> A6 No. People of some communities in India spend money enormously and
> indiscriminately on Sraaddha ceremony for show. This is mere wastage.
> Money should not be spent on luxury. It is a delusion to think that the 
> *Pitris
> will get more peace by spending more money.* Money does not count for the
> ease of the Pitris, but the intensity of Bhava, with which the Sraaddha
> is performed, counts.
>
> On such occasions the poor and deserving persons are to be fed
> sumptuously. Their necessities of life should be attended to. Study of
> scriptures should be done on such days. The performer of the Sraaddha
> ceremony should observe spiritual discipline like Japa, meditation, Mouna,
> etc.
>
> He should maintain strict Brahmacharya. He should not spend his time in
> idle pursuits. He should pray to God for the whole day. Recitation of
> appropriate Vedic hymns should be done. The story of Nachiketas of the
> Upanishads should be studied. The performer attains immortality.
>
> My note- It is a fact like day light bhokthas and sasthrikals are interested
> in Luxury srardha. A sasthrikal will attend himself for such a srardha
> and sent his 3rd assistant for srardha in a normal brahmins’s home.
>
> Q7 What are some regulations  about funeral?
>
> A7 As the second half of the month is preferable to the first half, even
> so the afternoon is better for the performance of a funeral sacrifice than
> the forenoon.
>
> Let him not perform a funeral sacrifice at night, because the night is
> declared to belong to the Rakshasas, nor in the twilight, nor when the sun
> has just risen.
>
> At all rites in honour of the manes the word SWADHA is the highest
> benison. [Note: During Agni-Hotra or Havan ceremony, oblations are offered
> to the gods with the word SWAHA but to the manes during funeral
> sacrifice, the word SWADHA must be used.]
>
> The manes are always pleased with offerings made in open, naturally pure
> places, on the banks of rivers, and in secluded spots.
>
> *My note- If death occurs in a home  near to temple such restriction is
> not seen. My father’s funeral was at 9PM  being very close to temple. *
>
> *Q8 What are the two classes of pitries?Do* prajapathies too are pitries?
>
> A8 There are two classes of Pitris, viz., the *Celestial Pitris* who are
> the lords of the Pitri Loka, and the Human Pitris who go there after
> death.
>
> *Kasyapa and the other Prajapatis are also Pitris, as they are the
> original progenitors**.* Pitri Loka or the Abode of the Pitris is also
> called by the name Bhuvar Loka.
>
> Q9 What is the importance of Mahalaya paksha Sraadha?
>
> A9 All those who had failed to do deeds of charity and Anna-Dana (gift of
> food) and were thus denied these comforts in the Pitri Loka, benefited by
> these malayapaksha ceremonies.
>
> Those deceased whose date of death is not known and whose annual Sraddha
> cannot be done, they also get these oblations of Pitri Paksha.
>
> Souls whose life was cut off by violent accidental or unnatural death and
> to whom, therefore, offerings cannot reach in the ordinary course, to them,
> too, the Ptripaksha offerings reach directly.
>
> All these the boon of Lord Yama made possible from the time the great
> Karna performed the Asvayuja-Paksha rites.
>
> The Hindu Itihasas (histories) say, that on the Mahalaya Amavasya, there
> is a conjunction of the sun and the moon and that the sun enters the sign
> Virgo (Kanya). On this day, the departed manes, i.e., our ancestors, leave
> their abode in the world of Yama and come down to the world of mortals and
> occupy the houses of their descendants.
>
> The fortnight preceding the new moon is specially consecrated for the
> propitiation of such departed spirits. The ceremonies performed in honour
> of the manes or ancestors during each day of this fortnight are considered
> to be equal to those performed at Gaya.
>
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