Mr Rajaram sir,
Answer to the point, Your mother fed you till 411/2 years? You simply avoid
answering even for a mistake of typo. You never say sorry. You think better
than all others!!!Gopalakrishnan
On Monday, 1 August, 2022 at 03:59:57 pm IST, Rajaram Krishnamurthy
<[email protected]> wrote:
PranamMr Gopalakrishnan question and answer I termed as "Percvert"; mMr
Narayanaswamy understands it wrongly as I am calling Nabi family delivery at 8
year old or 50 year old action as pervert; wrong deduction by Mr
Narayabnaswamy. Life .Birth, death, Puberty, Maturity, delivering babies,
Feeding babies etc etc are Prakrthic, as designed by HIM. Nature has many
secrets unknown to intelligence and people like Mr Gopalakrishnan out of
ignorance think A,B<C etc are intelligent because those words appeal to him.
Those are within themselves. But once it becomes a public property, it is a
questionable act. Perverts are scattered all over the earth who acts in a spur
as Mr G etc (again dependent on Sai etc) who do not know what they are doing. I
already said that Karma is reactive, absolutely reactive. Even todaY Mr G
ASSUMES THAT SOME JAPANESE FRIEND IS FORWARDING ETC BECAUSE he does not know
many things as an oyster within the shell. He neither gains any knowhow through
reading nor self improves but either prostratess or gets into a biased mood.
Bickering ladies like. I cannot help. But I am sure E=Mc2 he cannot do but
write because it is seen somewhere;he cannot know waves and p[articles or light
or energy but will profess; I am sure he thinks Protein is the root cause of
early puberty and deliveries of babies because Jordon said it. He can only
prostrate and complain but will not wait and watch carefully God bless Him. I
am not making fun of him; but when he taunts and triggers, he has to take back
Thank you again sir KR IRS 1822
On Mon, 1 Aug 2022 at 12:36, Rajaram Krishnamurthy <[email protected]>
wrote:
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Mr Rajaram sir,
Reg Q6 kindly read the answer again. Proteinrich food to children is told as
reason for early maturity. Not breastfeeding infant is the reason for early
conceiving. Mrs Claire Jordan isanswering to the question.Read her answer
again.
Due to hurry you write something with out reading QAproperly and other members
may think question is not properly answeredand I have selected such a question.
Reg Q10 the answer is by a doctor. Why she has not wroteretirement home may be
due to the reason Nursing home is called forretirement home in her area.
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Pranam
My dear Gopalakrishnan
Hasty generalization is made only byyou; and what you said as " people
will think you Mr G published a wrong Q&A " IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE; or else you
will not panel ur answer with"it is bound to contain errors". Mr Jordon is
answering as the mindthinks in science and later changes. Western science is as
simple as that. Yourquestion is erroneous in the sense that -areyou telling
that the youngmothers are in progress nowadays against the aged mothers only
deliveredin yester years ago?; and the cause is protein?; breastfeeding is
avoidedso frequent child births do occur?; high protein diet brings into
puberty at 14or else they will reach only around 18 or 20 and if they breast
feed it isfamily planning?. You are 79 you say.
Have you ever known when your mother,grandmother and great grandmothers
got puberty and married when and when theydelivered and died during the
pregnancy?. All of them took a lot of protein andlived only for a short term
-may be again because of protein?; how many years breastfeeding continuedfor
mothers and how many children were fed in the past continuously ; are youaware?
Food is only a tip of the ice bherg; and protein is life; there isnothing
called excess or low protein; protein if surplus changes to fat so obesitysets
in; obese mothers can even feed for 5 years a child; I had my mother usedto say
breast fed for 4 11/2 years. Breast feeding elongation depends on yourbody
straight upkeep and not willingness or unwillingness; I wrotethe word NATURE;
YOU ALWAYS RUN IN HASTE; NATURE DETERMINES WHEN YOU SHALLDELIVER AND HOW LONG
SHOULD YOU BREASTFEED; EVEN WITH ALL THE PERFECTPAERA-PHERNILIA, a fit mother
will go dry and a skeleton servant mother maylast longer. In those days 7 and 8
years were the age of puberty and wedded at10 and 12 and delivered early
babies; the difference in age in 50s and 70smarried son in law and the mother
in law was just 10 years. Our grandmas hadthe right type of food and took care
of the daughter and child; and yet somemothers had milk only for 6 months; some
had even for 4 years. We worship ourmother only because of that NATURE. Protein
proper gets digested; JoRDONprotein of pitzas might be different; Parottas
cause the diabeticsbut no doctor had said about it; Maida industry is
flourishing; no courtset a stay. Because there they would call for proof; but
hereJordon simply says cause of puberty at 14 and breast feed increasesthe
mother hood ertc. The ovulation that happened within 7 days of themenses time
after -develops into a child. Before NIRODH we practiced thatperiod. Better do
some good homework instead of believing the gossip ofJordan Kantha etc. I do
not answer or write everything which u shall note.And cannot afford to feign as
if by putting up an aged question,rep[etititve questions and gossip answers.
Think before inking
Had you not seen your Gurucommenting on your script in another Q & A?.
KR IRS 1822
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Sorry Mr Rajaram,
I have no time to answer your questions raised. Sir, justread the question and
answer given in a few lines. All are not like you writingpages on any thing. I
have written my points. Let the groups understand it. Orelse as Mr Markandeyalu
wrote once for your continued arguing, I give up.You have written your mother
fed you 411/2 years!!!. It is simple example ofyour hurried nature impatient to
read what you wrote.
GopalakrishnanKR I know you will end when you are cornered; and you have no
character to write something either due to stupidity or out of ignorance; your
Q &A is absolutely not only unscientific but against the nature; you knew
nothing about any of these things; your reply is not important to me or anyone
else; Why YM ; he is ok; you write to your Guru in another reply he had given
you; you won't; because you are made up of that kind of stuff. Do your homework
well Write if you are knowledgeableThank you K R URs 1822
On Mon, 1 Aug 2022 at 11:59, gopala krishnan <[email protected]> wrote:
Sorry Mr Rajaram,I have no time to answer your questions raised. Sir, just
read the question and answer given in a few lines. All are not like you writing
pages on any thing. I have written my points. Let the groups understand it. Or
else as Mr Markandeyalu wrote once for your continued arguing, I give up. You
have written your mother fed you 411/2 years!!!. It is simple example of your
hurried nature impatient to read what you wrote.
Gopalakrishnan
On Monday, 1 August, 2022 at 11:31:09 am IST, Rajaram Krishnamurthy
<[email protected]> wrote:
Pranam My dear Gopalakrishnan Hasty generalization is made only by you;
and what you said as " people will think you Mr G published a wrong Q &A " IS
ABSOLUTELY TRUE; or else you will not panel ur answer with "it is bound to
contain errors". Mr Jordon is answering as the mind thinks in science and later
changes. Western science is as simple as that. Your question is erroneous in
the sense that -areyou telling that the young mothers are in progress nowadays
against the aged mothers only delivered in yester years ago?; and the cause is
protein?; breastfeeding is avoided so frequent child births do occur?; high
protein diet brings into puberty at 14 or else they will reach only around 18
or 20 and if they breast feed it is family planning?. You are 79 you say.
Have you ever known when your mother, grandmother and great grandmothers got
puberty and married when and when they delivered and died during the
pregnancy?. All of them took a lot of protein and lived only for a short term
-may be again because of protein?; how many years breastfeeding continued for
mothers and how many children were fed in the past continuously ; are you
aware? Food is only a tip of the ice bherg; and protein is life; there is
nothing called excess or low protein; protein if surplus changes to fat so
obesity sets in; obese mothers can even feed for 5 years a child; I had my
mother used to say breast fed for 4 11/2 years. Breast feeding elongation
depends on your body straight upkeep and not willingness or unwillingness; I
wrote the word NATURE; YOU ALWAYS RUN IN HASTE; NATURE DETERMINES WHEN YOU
SHALL DELIVER AND HOW LONG SHOULD YOU BREASTFEED; EVEN WITH ALL THE PERFECT
PAERA-PHERNILIA, a fit mother will go dry and a skeleton servant mother may
last longer. In those days 7 and 8 years were the age of puberty and wedded at
10 and 12 and delivered early babies; the difference in age in 50s and 70s
married son in law and the mother in law was just 10 years. Our grandmas had
the right type of food and took care of the daughter and child; and yet some
mothers had milk only for 6 months; some had even for 4 years. We worship our
mother only because of that NATURE. Protein proper gets digested; JoRDON
protein of pitzas might be different; Parottas cause the diabetics but no
doctor had said about it; Maida industry is flourishing; no court set a stay.
Because there they would call for proof; but here Jordon simply says cause of
puberty at 14 and breast feed increases the mother hood ertc. The ovulation
that happened within 7 days of the menses time after -develops into a child.
Before NIRODH we practiced that period. Better do some good homework instead of
believing the gossip of Jordan Kantha etc. I do not answer or write everything
which u shall note. And cannot afford to feign as if by putting up an aged
question, rep[etititve questions and gossip answers. Think before inking
Had you not seen your Guru commenting on your script in another Q & A?. KR IRS
1822
On Sun, 31 Jul 2022 at 18:19, gopala krishnan <[email protected]> wrote:
Mr Rajaram sir,
Reg Q6 kindly read the answer again. Protein rich food to children is told as
reason for early maturity. Not breast feeding infant is the reason for early
conceiving. Mrs Claire Jordan is answering to the question.Read her answer
again.
Due to hurry you write something with out reading QA properly and other
members may think question is not properly answered and I have selected such a
question.
Reg Q10 the answer is by a doctor. Why she has not wrote retirement home may
be due to the reason Nursing home is called for retirement home in her area.
On Sunday, 31 July, 2022 at 03:23:20 pm IST, Rajaram Krishnamurthy
<[email protected]> wrote:
PranamQ6 A pervert question. Procreation is nature; safe procreation is an
ingredient of the healthy and wealthy society. A 10 year old is a baby and if
she delivered a baby is it a mature action?. Delivery of a child by an unwedded
, securityless mother is welcome?. Q10 Keeping them in nursing homes or old
age homes? Oxygen cylinders, instruments panelled , timely attendance,
emergency attention may be given only by a nursing home; at home a nursing
level only can be done. KR IRS 31722
On Sun, 31 Jul 2022 at 09:35, 'gopala krishnan' via iyer123
<[email protected]> wrote:
CULTURAL QA 07-2022-31
BEING A COMPILATIONTHERE MAY BE ERRORS
Q1 Whatis the difference between a septic tank and a soak pit?
A1 Rabindra Kumar Mohapatra, M Tech(Roorkee Univ.) in Civil
Engineering, Veer Surendra Sai University ofTechnology, Burla (Graduated 1979)1y
Septic tank is the sludge digestion chamber where thesewage is digested by
anaerobic bacteria(who do notrequire oxygen) - greatly reduce the toxicity of
the waste. For this a mindetention period of 48 hours is required after which
it is passed to the soakpit.
As the nameimplies, the detoxicatedliquid of waste is allowed to be soaked into
the soil in a soak pit.So the walls of soak pit is essentially made with dry
brick joints to allowthis soaking.
Generally in villages there is no soak pit. The sewage iscollected in a small
tank (without being concerned about the min time ofretention) - when overflows
automatically diverted to the drain or nearestfield. Alternatively there is
only soak pit and no separate septic chamber.
My note- In suburbanChennai city also nowadays due to difficulty of cleaning
septic tank, two soakpits, and septic tank are separated only at bottom of the
tank for about 2feet, and remaining height is only one. This enables 95% of
septic tank cleaning eliminated. When tank is full,septic tank cleaners collect
the waste liquid stirring at top and sucked by a pumpto their vehicle to
dispose inisolated areas where human habitation isless
Q2 Where did the ancient Vedas go? Arethey preserved somewhere? What
kind of people posses original scriptures ofVedas?
A2 Balaji Viswanathan, orthodox Hindu whodoes Panchayutana puja
everyday.19h
The ancient Vedas didn’t go anywhere. It is presenttoday, practically to the
same syllables. We know thisbecause of elaborate error control mechanisms that
Vedic seers have developed.The Vedas even today are taught from guru to his
disciple over years ofmemorisation and inner reflection.
You might be thinking Vedas as some kind of a writtenbook. Vedic saints took a
more permanent form — by building in the memories ofthe students.
The boys here wouldbe mini libraries of Vedas. While conventional libraries
could be burnt downand universities razed, in the face of a religious
oppression these boys couldhide in a forest, recite their Vedas and teach it to
their next generation.
In my wife’s family, every year they would invite a groupof Vedic scholars to
recite all the Vedas from end to end.Each Veda would be assigned a separate
room and they would recite their Vedafrom dawn to dusk for 5 days.
Give the sheer sizeof the Vedas it is near impossible for one person to study
and memorise it all.Thus, students primarilymemorize the Veda that is assigned
to them. Yajur Veda is probablythe easiest of the Vedas — doesn’t require any
hand signs to recite (unlike RigVeda), nor great singing skills (like Sama
Veda) and thus Yajur Veda has thelargest following. But,there exists many
communities that practice Rig, Sama and Atharva Vedatraditions. Kerala is
especially a great place for this — where youwill find practitioners of all the
4 Vedas.
Q3 When repotting a very rootbound plant,it appears all the soil has
been replaced by roots. How has this happened?
A3 Kim Carlisle, Horticulturist, grower,and blogging at
wellspringkim.comJul 13
Potting soilusually has a high percentage of organic matter, such as peat moss,
coconut coir, compost, andaged manure. Over time, that materialdecomposes,
leaving behind a very small amount of mineral matter. Sand andperlite also
remain in place. So, if the organic matter breaks down, and as the root system
growslarger, the root ball appears to be composed of all roots. Butthere’s some
of the other material in there as well.
When aplant lives in its pot for a few years, you’ll notice how the soil level
endsup lower in the pot than when you first bought it or potted it up. Some of
thatis caused by settling, but much is due to decompositionof organic matter.
Whenrepotting, place new soil below the existing root system instead of on top
ofit.
My note- Excellent answer.
Q4 What part of India is the best tosettle down in?
A4 Suresh Varma, Studied Computer Science& Computer Science at Osmania
(Graduated 1995) Updated 3y
Generally peopleare referring big cities where you don’t get a glimpse of
nature to enjoy orHill stations where you will get bored after few days as
there will not be anymuch life (at least slow paced). What if you get
combination of both with citycum village life style and proper connectivity by
all means of transport…HEREYOU GO!!!!!!!1
Imagine a placewhich is a small city where you can have good shopping
experience, access togood restaurants, star hotels, resorts, coffee bars,
lounge cafes, all types ofluxury milk shakes, drive in restaurants etc.
Imagine a place whichis right on the bank of vast river with serene natural
beauty. Imagine a placewhich is surrounded by Paddy rich farm fields, coconut
gardens, 10,000 acres oflush green nursery plants, with green houses(nurseries)
Imagine a placewhich has very less population (Tier 3 city) and less congested
and no trafficjams.
Imagine a placewhich has almost zero crime rate and extremely safe for
everybody.
Most reasonable cost of living (2BHK rental would be around5k to 10k Max),
reasonable cost for groceries, vegetables and daily needs.
I don’t know muchabout other places which can satisfy above criteria, but
surely you will likethis place and vote for this city after reading this.
I wouldlike to refer “Rajamahendravaram”(alias Rajahmundry) in AP.It is the one
of the most beautiful city on the bank of river Godavari havinghistory of more
than 1400 years. Here people are more attached to river Godavari by all means
and theirlife style is linked to this river.
There are morestations on bank of Godavari but the station named “Godavari”here
only and nowhere else it is named . (there is one more main station
“Rajahmundry” in thecity next to Godavari station), just an example of how
people attached toriver.
CITY VIEW:
1No where else inits travel, river’s breadth is 3kms ,but here it is more than
3 kms and hence we got four world class bridges andone barrage.
Have a glimpse ofbreadth of godavari here..
2. Kotilingalu ghat spans nearly 2km which is India’sbiggest river ghat
3. A domesticairport with connectivity to south india
4. Life is verycalm here and almost zero crime rate. (like this in pic)
5. Less congestedand the population is less than 6 lakhs population including
urbanagglomeration.
6. Shoppersparadise.. Reliance, Walmart, Spencershyper, Bigbazaar, pantaloons,
MAX and allother major shopping malls are here and many more coming up.
7. Fresh fish,prawns and other sea food available plenty here.
8. Many resorts, 3or 4 star hotels, coffee lounges etc La Hospin a 3 star hotel
River bay resorts, 4 starSheltonRajamahendri…4 star, Dindi resorts (1 hour
drive from Rajahmundry).
9. Best touristplace and AP govt making it as Tourism hub of AP.
10. Theonly drawback need to be mentioned is , Weather in summer is very harsh
espbetween April to June.
11. Nitya Godavari Harathi (every day) at 7pm isreally a feast for eyes. During
this time the LED light show on the bridgesmust be watched.
Thick and denseforest with many jungle resorts…just 2 hours drive from city.
Vanavihari resort…
18. Travelling oncruise boat from Rajahmundry to Papikondalu (4 hours boat
journey) and stayingon river bank at kolluru huts for whole night will be most
memorable event inlife. the advantage here is, you don’t have any mobile
network, or any othertransport. You will be completely disconnected from the
world until you getyour cruise on next day evening. You can have open air bath
here with cystalclear water and the depth here is just 4 feet which is ideal
for bath whodoesn’t know swimming
12. You get freshvegetables, fruits directly from farms every day.
About Bridges:
First (Old bridge)constructed by British govt in 1897 which is decommissioned
recently and Aptourism is planning to make it as walker’s bridge soon
Third, Constructedin 1995 which is Bow string arch bridge with 28 strings/spans
and the gapbetween each span is 100m (which is one of the finest bow string
arch bridge inthe world with 100m span apart)
Second , Road cum rail bridge which is Asia’s secondlongest road cum rail
bridge.
4th bridgeconstructed in 2014 , exclusive for road way (separate bridges for
both side traffic)
One barrageconstructed 40 yrs back and it spans around 7kms. Here Godavari
splitted intotwo rivers Gowtami andVashishta and each spans 2kms…The land
between (both side rivers andone side bay of Bengal is the most beautiful and
fertile land in India). Thisarea is called Konaseema.KadiyamNurseries( out
skirts of city) and there are 10 villages spans 1000 of acresdedicated for only
plants and nurseries.
Sea coast is just60kms from here and the place Antarvedi is most beautiful
place to visit(hereGodavari submerges into sea)
Thanks for readingthis, if you get time do visit this place and relax in
nature’s lap for fewdays. (ideal time to visit is Sep to Feb)
My note- I have stored the beautiful pictures. I am notable to paste here.
Q5 How do central Government employeescope with frequent transfers all
over India?
A5 Awdhesh Singh, Ex-IRS| IITian|UPSCEducator| Time Management Coach1y
In the Central Government,the transfers are not frequent, but done usually once
in a year, called Annual General Transfer (AGT).
You are alsorequired to give your choice of stations, before the AGT, which is
given dueweightage in the transfer.
If your spouse isanother central government employee, all attempts are made by
government toallot you the same station. Even in case of spouse working in
state governmentor in private sector, government usually try to accommodate you
in the samestation as of your spouse.
I had been anofficer of Indian Revenue Service (IRS) for over 25 years and I
had been postedin five stations (Muzaffarpur, Patna, Delhi, Ahmedabad and
Chennai). I also gotshifted to Gwalior during study leave, while doing my PhD
from IIITM Gwalior.
I always liked transfer as it gave me an opportunity tovisit new places and
learn a new culture.
I have been postedin all parts of India (North, East, South and West). Hence, I
know Indianculture much more comprehensively than most Indians.
When you are transferred, Government bears all yourexpensesfor shifting your
goods plus a handsome transfer grant, which is more thanenough to take care of
your reallocation to a new place.
My children also developed pan-Indiaculture due to my transfers and they got
the opportunity tostudyin different schools and colleges. They can now adjust
in any part of Indiaeasily.
In my opinion,transfer is one of the desirable perquisite of central services
and if one hasto work at the same station for his entire career, it would have
been extremelyboring and uninteresting.
Q6 If society considers it wrong, why didnature allow us to procreate
even at a young age?
A6 Claire Jordan, Degree in biology andfolklore; programmer, shop
owner, secretary on newspaper Jul 19
In a state of nature we don’t usuallybecome fertile untilabout 14, and you
didn’t want to leave it much later than that. Women breastfed on demand,
whichsuppresses ovulation, and they breastfed for a *long* time, so they had
theirchildren several years apart - and might have been eaten by aleopard
before they were 30. So you started in your mid teens and hoped to have3 or 4
children before something killed you.
Nowadays, ourhigh-protein diet means girls are hitting puberty much
younger,well before they are mature enough mentally or physically to have
children, andthe fact that we no longer breastfeed every couple of hours round
the clock,including at night, means ovulation isn’t suppressed and inprinciple
we can have a child every 9 or 10 months. But this isn’t“nature” - it’s a
highly unnatural situation.
Q7 As a farmer, what do you wish morepeople understood?
A7 Vijay Odedra, Lives in Bengaluru,Karnataka, India
(2021–present)Updated 2y
Milk that you justhad isn't pure, for sure. Even if it's from Amul. That's a
long story.
Rain in winter andsummer is cool for you, you put status about it. But, it
takes away months ofour hard work.
No, we all don'tconsume organic food. Almost 95% of Indian farmers still use
pesticides andfertilisersforvegetables they grow for themselves.
If you are gettingwheat for ₹30/kg, remember, it was bought for ₹15/kgfrom us.
Just like you, manyof us also don't want loan waiver. We want government to use
resources to buildcanals, dams or other irrigation facilities.
Give us water andwe will produce gold. We are helpless just because of
irregular and poormonsoons.
Farming looks cool only while sitting in a room. Thereality is totally
different.
Milking cows and buffaloes isn't that easy. It's a toughjob.
We love our cattleas much as you love your pets.
We, or at least I,love living in a village, but not villagers. Their narrow
mindedness kills meeveryday.
Q8 What is the interesting story of airconditioning on Indian Railways?
A8 Posted by KaustubhNaik May 2
An interestingstory of air conditioning on Indian Railways. ________________
The first Indiantrain to get an air conditioned car, which started running from
1934was the Frontier Mail. The airconditioning system then was basic,unlike the
thermostat controlled powerplants we see today. In those days, ice blocks were
used, carried in sealed receptaclesbuilt beneath the car floor, which were
replenished at several halts along theline.
A battery operated blower constantly blew air into thesereceptacles, and the
cold air entered the insulated cars through vents.Though it was very basic and
messy, the effect was very pleasant. It was luxuryat its best then. Imagine
today if huge ice blockswere pushed into the underfloor ice receptacles at
every other stop, howintimidating it would be. The picture shows Ice supply for
the airconditioning in First class coach of the Frontier Mail at Bayana
Junction on11.09.1942. Courtesy: History and Heritage of Indian
Railways/Pazhayathu blog
Q9 Why should you unplug electricalappliances from their outlets when
they are unused? If the appliance is turned“off”, how is that so different to
it not being plugged in, in terms of energyusage?
A9 Prakash W Dandekar,Former VisitingFaculty Member at IIT Gandhi Nagar
(2013–2014)4y
When anappliance is plugged in, it has a small circuit which is always
powered.This consumes a very small power like 5 watts or 10 watts.
This circuit mayhave an Infra red receiver which received radiation signal from
a TV remotetype device. It recognizes the code sent by on/off switch and
appropriatelyturns on a relay. the relay contact connects AC mains power to
internal supplyand appliance is turned on.
When we press powerbutton on remote, the same circuit releases the relay
cutting the power inputto internal supply.
If you have many appliances in home such as TV,computers, music systems etc
then each one contributes a tiny loadand you may end up paying for tha\e
electricity consumed by them. I did notfind many switches in USA, butin India,
most power outlets have an individual on/off switch. If weswitch it off then it
completely disconnects power from the appliance and theconsumption is truly
zero. We do not need to unplug the appliance to make powerzero.
My note-More over the primary coil is heated by reducingthe life period. A
controlswitch is best. It is advisable not to remove the plug of mixer,
grinderetc often and controlled by a switch in the panel.
Q10 Why do people put their parentsinto nursing homes when they
could just take them in to their own homes?Especially those who have the space.
A10 Amy Chai, MD, Internal Medicine, MS,Epidemiology, author 3y
Caring for an elder is a full time job.
When my childrenwere teens, I finished our basement, hoping to have their
friends over andenjoy our family life. However,both in-laws became very ill.
One with cancer, and one with severe Alzheimer’s.
Well, I got a stairlift, put hospital stuff in the basement, and took them in.
It was the hardestthing I ever did. I could not leave the house. Icould not go
to sleep. My son was my “first call” when I would scream for help.(He was
bigger and stronger than me). Kids had to give medications and changedressings
instead of having their friends over to enjoy our family life. I became
increasinglydepressed. Our marriage was strained. My daughter locked herself in
her roomall the time.
Then, theF-I-L came upstairs and turned on our gas stove at 3am.My children and
I were sleeping right above the kitchen. I did not have myearplugs in on that
night, or we would all be dead. After that, we hired a “sitter” to watch him
allnight so we could safely sleep.
And this is MYfamily. We are wealthy and highly educated. I did not expect this
to be so difficult for us. But it was HARD. It was harder than we could do.
My girlfriendliterally had to have an intervention for me and she personally
took me to a nursing home and madeall the arrangements for me to get them out
of my house. I have the utmostrespect for people who are not as well off as I
am who manage to pull offcaregiving with much fewer resources—which would be
much worse thanwhat I experienced.
All the above QA are from Quora website on 30 -07- 2022.
Quora answers need not be 100% correct answers .
Compiled and posted by R. Gopala krishnan on 31-07-2022
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