Louis said:

>
>   I think some of us are being too harsh.  We aren't
>   very understanding of our very young students. 
>   We're not walking in their shoes or remembering how
>   we were like at those ages.
>
And Louis hit a nerve, as usual; it's early in the morning:

I was not a "nerd" in those days. That came later for me. I was a late 
bloomer--those frontal lobes resisted maturation for a long time.

At 19 I decided California was the place for me and I hitch hiked from Chicago 
to California in November! Scares me to death to think back on it. But I still 
have memories of a family in Arkansas that wanted to take me home for Sunday 
dinner with the grandparents, horrible truck drivers who got fresh and I had 
jump out of the cab of a moving truck, and lots of interesting people with lots 
of stories. 

BUT I was also interested in what was going on around me. I walked blocks 
campaigning for McCarthy, I knew every statistic and battle in Viet Nam and 
wrote letters to anonymous soldiers (I failed in motivating our psych club to 
send home baked cookies to my son's unit in Marez--outside of Mosul), I liked 
Mark Twain, so at 18 I drove myself down to Hannibal, MO to see his birth place 
and all the 'touristy' stuff about him. I read every book he wrote or that was 
written about him and I still love to watch the Mark Twain comedy awards on 
PBS. Eventually I went to Angel's Camp and Twain Harte in California. I WAS 
different. So I DO have a hard time relating. 

I asked my 19-year old son about some of the things I expected my students to 
know and he didn't know much of it until I cued him. He vaguely knew something 
about Head Start as day care. I had to cue him with Prison in Iraq to get him 
to remember the Abu Gharib story. He does know about fly-fishing from seeing A 
River Runs Through It and his laptop home page is CNN; he mostly reads the 
headlines only--and he is like a lot of his friends who are not nerds. He is 
not a stellar student, last semester he was tickled to get all the (passing) 
letter grades on one report card: A, B, C, D. But he knows a lot about very 
many different things.

So, I AM struggling to understand my students. In each section of 20 about 2 
seem to know something about the world. The other 18 just seem so lost. I'm 
worried about how they are going to function in everyday life with such a poor 
understing of THEIR 'other' people! These students will have a hard time 
relating beyond their limited world. I'm thinking of somehow incorporating 
magazine/newspaper assignments into my classes from now on so at least they 
have to skim them to find information for assignments.

Annette

 
Annette Kujawski Taylor, Ph.D.
Professor of Psychology
University of San Diego
5998 Alcala Park
San Diego, CA 92110
619-260-4006
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>Date: Tue, 20 Nov 2007 09:04:34 -0500
>From: "Louis Schmier" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>  
>Subject: RE: [tips] Am I expecting too much?  
>To: "Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS)" <[email protected]>

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