Several years ago, a colleague wrote a letter not unlike the one you, Chris, 
cite from a known university benefactor.  It was written only after several 
polite refusals such as those used by David.  This letter read, Admissions 
Committee, ______ University School of Medicine: Mr. Herbert _____ has asked me 
to write a letter in support of his application for admission to your program.  
I have known Herbert for several years and he is quite tall.   Sincerely, 
_______

I don't know how the committee responded, if they did.      D

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>>> "Christopher D. Green" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 11/19/08 1:39 PM >>>
Once, when I was on a hiring committee, I saw a letter of reference 
(from a person well-known to the university as a benefactor and Board 
member) that read, simply:

"<So-and-so> has asked me to write him letter of reference in support of 
his application for <such-and-such a position>. Please consider this to 
be such a letter.
Sincerely,..."

Nothing untoward was said. Everyone knew exactly how to interpret it. 
Perhaps you could try that.

Regards,
Chris Green
York U.
Toronto
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David Wasieleski wrote:
>
>
> Hey all. Today I received an email from someone asking for a reference 
> for a former student of mine who is applying for the job. The emails 
> asks of course for information on her aptitude and work ethic. Without 
> going into all the gory details, this student ended up as a thesis 
> student of mine and actually displayed significant problems with work 
> ethic (e.g., going off to Las Vegas for four days with less than two 
> weeks to get her thesis done to graduate on time, and then expecting 
> me to respond overnight to a draft sent to me). Since her graduation 
> the student asked if I would serve as a reference, and I suggested 
> that given all that had happened, others would serve better as a 
> reference for her. So this email comes as a dismaying surprise. I of 
> course do not plan to respond to it via email but by phone. I don't 
> know that I want to simply state that I don't want to serve as a 
> reference. But clearly this puts me in a bind regarding what to say 
> when I do make that phone call. Has anyone else dealt with similar 
> circumstances?
>
> David T. Wasieleski, Ph.D.
> Professor
> Department of Psychology and Counseling
> Valdosta State University
> Valdosta, GA 31698
> 229-333-5620
> http://chiron.valdosta.edu/dtwasieleski
>
> "The only thing that ever made sense in my life
> is the sound of my little girl laughing through the window on a summer 
> night...
> Just the sound of my little girl laughing
> makes me happy just to be alive..."
>             --Everclear
>    "Song from an American Movie"
>


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