On Thu, 16 Jul 2009 07:59:47 -0700, Frantz, Sue wrote:
>Hi all,
> Need an example of perception?

I'm not sure that this is an example of perception but then again
you don't specify what you mean by "perception".

>Courtesy of Awkward Family Photos.  (NOT my story.)
> 
>"When I was pregnant with my first child, my Grandma passed 
>away. I didn't have anything to wear to the funeral, so I had to 
>settle on a low-cut maternity blouse that made my breasts look 
>enormous and made me very self-conscious. After the funeral, 
>one of my aunts approached me and in front of the entire family, 
>loudly announced: 'You are getting a fabulous chest!!!' I turned six 
>shades of red and blurted out defensively, 'I can't help it. Since I've 
>been pregnant, I've gone up a couple of cup sizes.' She was actually 
>referring to a chest of drawers that I had unknowingly inherited....
>um...yeah...very awkward." 
>( http://awkwardfamilyphotos.com/2009/07/14/awkward-family-story-the-funeral/ )

A couple of points:

(1) The author "Lori" (if that is her real name) clearly was focused on
her breasts which would be priming the related concept "chest".  Hearing
the word "chest" without verbal constraints to process furniture-related
words/comcepts would bias her to interpret the word "chest" as breast
related.  If Lori hadn't be so focused on her own breasts, it is unlikely that
she would have interpreted "chest" as referring to her breasts.  This raises
the question of how all of this related to "perception".  I think that it 
reflects
"top-down processing" (a cognitive process) more than a perceptual process
(though the term perception has started to lose some of its meaning).

(2)  Just a personal peeve: I'm not a modesty fascist but what is it with
women who wear tops that show off their breasts or cleavege at a FUNERAL
or a wake?  Yes, Lori only had a yadda-yadda-yadda.  Please.  At the
Michael Jackson memorial/tribute, I kept wondering what was Mariah Carey
thinking with that dress which revealed both her cleavege and that she wasn't
wearing a bra.  Just being a guy, I have to admit to being distracted by her
outfit and wondering whether we would experience a wardrobe
malfunction.

(3)  Just a point about the difference in the use of words by men and women:
do women really use "chest" when they're referring to "breasts"?  I have the
impression that males would rarely use "chest" to refer to "breasts", some
other terms come to mind but in the observance of good taste I won't share
them (though I do admit to having heard other male faculty -- and some
female faculty -- use the terms in meetings and private conversation). I have
a feeling that a male relative relating the same info about grandma's chest of
drawers would be less unambiguous (unless, of course, he was a real creepy 
kind of male relative).

-Mike Palij
New York University
[email protected]



 

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