Well, if the men were wearing those freaky BK King masks, you can hardly blame the women.
Robin Abrahams www.robinabrahams.com My first book, "Miss Conduct's Mind Over Manners," is available now wherever books are sold! (Or if not, ask the bookseller to order more. Politely!) --- On Fri, 8/14/09, Jim Clark <j.cl...@uwinnipeg.ca> wrote: From: Jim Clark <j.cl...@uwinnipeg.ca> Subject: RE: [tips] Why Do Single Women Go After Married Men? To: "Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS)" <tips@acsun.frostburg.edu> Date: Friday, August 14, 2009, 2:21 PM Hi I'm reminded of a study in which attractive and unattractive people were dressed in various outfits (Armani, Burger King). Women preferred less attractive men in Armani to attractive men in BK outfits. Men simply went for physical attractiveness. Take care Jim James M. Clark Professor of Psychology 204-786-9757 204-774-4134 Fax j.cl...@uwinnipeg.ca Department of Psychology University of Winnipeg Winnipeg, Manitoba R3B 2E9 CANADA >>> "DeVolder Carol L" <devoldercar...@sau.edu> 14-Aug-09 2:02 PM >>> A couple of points--many women wouldn't turn down advances from Brad Pitt regardless of his marital status. His other attributes far outweigh that one.. I think a married woman represents a challenge for some women--to see if she can come across as desirable even to men otherwise committed.Talk about ego-building! Ugly clothes, huh? I like that one. Even if it does presume that women are superficial... :) Carol Carol L. DeVolder, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Chair, Department of Psychology St. Ambrose University 518 West Locust Street Davenport, Iowa 52803 Phone: 563-333-6482 e-mail: devoldercar...@sau.edu web: http://web.sau.edu/psychology/psychfaculty/cdevolder.htm The contents of this message are confidential and may not be shared with anyone without permission of the sender. -----Original Message----- From: Robin Abrahams [mailto:robina...@yahoo.com] Sent: Fri 8/14/2009 1:59 PM To: Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS) Subject: Re: [tips] Why Do Single Women Go After Married Men? This is why I deliberately buy my husband ugly clothes. Robin Abrahams www.robinabrahams.com My first book, "Miss Conduct's Mind Over Manners," is available now wherever books are sold! (Or if not, ask the bookseller to order more. Politely!) --- On Fri, 8/14/09, Beth Benoit <beth.ben...@gmail.com> wrote: From: Beth Benoit <beth.ben...@gmail.com> Subject: Re: [tips] Why Do Single Women Go After Married Men? To: "Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS)" <tips@acsun.frostburg.edu> Date: Friday, August 14, 2009, 1:56 PM Just a thought here. Might women be looking at the unmarried men and wondering why they're unmarried, and thinking there might be something less desirable about a man who's - just to pursue a stereotype here - unmarried and living with his mother? I like Mike's suggestion that married men might be seen as "pre-screened." Beth BenoitGranite State CollegePlymouth State UniversityNew Hampshire On Fri, Aug 14, 2009 at 2:29 PM, Don Allen <dal...@langara.bc.ca> wrote: Hardly a surprising finding. How many women would turn down an advance from Brad Pitt because he was married? Marriage just seems to be another one of those "fitness" markers such as wealth or status that women use in mate selection. Once again evolution trumps morality. -Don. Don Allen Dept. of Psychology Langara College 100 W. 49th Ave. Vancouver, B.C. Canada V5Y 2Z6 Phone: 604-323-5871 ----- Original Message ----- From: Mike Palij Date: Friday, August 14, 2009 7:00 am Subject: [tips] Why Do Single Women Go After Married Men? To: "Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS)" Cc: Mike Palij > Or do they? > > An interesting blog entry in the NY Times this week describes a > study in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology that varied > descriptions of males and females as being single or married/attached. > Quoting from the blog entry: > > |To the men in the experiment, and to the women who were > |already in relationships, it didn't make a significant > difference > |whether their match was single or attached. But single women > |showed a distinct preference for mate poaching. When the man > |was described as unattached, 59 percent of the single women > |were interested in pursuing him. When that same man was > described > |as being in a committed relationship, 90 percent were interested. > > Of course, as the researchers explain, "most women who engage > in mate poaching do not think the attached status of the target > played a role in their poaching decision, but our study shows this > belief to be false." > > A married man, apparently, has been "pre-screened", has been > found "passing the test for matehood", and, thus, is a desirable > "commodity". > > Gee, guys, I hadn't realized how objectified we have been for so long. > I feel, what is the proper word, used? ;-) > > For more (or less) see the blog entry: > http://tierneylab.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/08/13/do-single-women- > seek-attached-men/?em > > If you were really interested in the article you would locate it and > read it yourself: > > Parker, J. & Burkley, M. Who's chasing whom? The impact > of gender and relationship status on mate poaching, Journal > of Experimental Social Psychology, Volume 45, Issue 4, July > 2009, > Pages 1016-1019, ISSN 0022-1031, DOI: 10.1016/j.jesp.2009.04.022. > (http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/B6WJB-4W6Y5S3- > 1/2/dc59df25a980557415a8385ea7efe80a ) > Abstract: > Are women more interested in men who are already in a > relationship? Female and male participants who were single > or in a relationship viewed information about an opposite-sex > other and indicated their interest in pursuing this target. > Half of the participants were told that the target was single > and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. > The results showed that only single women were more interested > in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. > We discuss how these results add to what is already known about > mate poaching. > Keywords: Mate poaching; Cheating; Gender; Relationship status > > Why do I get the feeling that "mate poaching" will be the next > big topic to be researched by undergraduates this coming academic > year? ;-) > > -Mike Palij > New York University > m...@nyu.edu > > > > > --- > To make changes to your subscription contact: > > Bill Southerly (bsouthe...@frostburg.edu) > Don Allen Dept. of Psychology Langara College 100 W. 49th Ave. Vancouver, B.C. 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