My Dear Friends, Thanks to all of you for your kind words. Thank you to the fellow caregivers who are committed to helping their spouses/sig others to have a better quality of life, for being in their lives and staying put! Aren't relationships suppose to be 50/50??? I am sorry for those that aren't. Terry gives so much to me; why would I not give so much in return? Some of you old timers (on this site), know there have been struggles with this life and Terry's TM. But, obviously nothing insurmountable. I will say that I was SO PISSED OFF (can I say that here?) at his wheelchair initially. I took my anger out on his wheelchair every time I had to get it in or out of the trunk of my car. I would cuss that SOB, (can I say that here?) out! I hated it! That's what I hated! I didn't hate the damn (can I say that here?) TM. I hated that damn (can I say that here?) wheelchair! That rigid piece of crap, (can I say that here)? I can actually feel my anger right now as I write this. However, I feel it with a smile on my face as that was so very long ago. TM has allowed me to grow and become a better person. It's OK now and he has a great wheelchair that's very easy to get in/out of the car. One flip of the backrest and I grab it and swing it into the back of the little (non gas guzzler), SUV. (OK, so I rambled)... Aloha for now, my friends! Sandy
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