Jeron, Good for you! She obviously knows your situation, so you won’t be pulling any punches with any disability. Just go with the attitude of “you are with someone you like and feel you can have fun with and let it go at that. Just let whatever happen naturally and don’t put pressure on either of you.
You have had a rough time and letting yourself be open to relationships can help. Even if you decide to be just friends, you have made someone else to go to. Go and have a great time. Just remember you don’t have to put any pressure on for either of you, relax. Janice From: Jeron Rampersad Sent: Friday, October 14, 2011 11:42 AM To: [email protected] Subject: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) Hey guys, I need some advice. Most of you would remember my wife leaving me in April of this year. Since then I've found acceptance of my lonliness and it really was not too bad. Anyway, some 2 months ago I met up an old friend from way back and well, let's just say sometimes life just has a way of hooking 2 people up. My problem is I'm going away with her this weekend to a resort on the island of Tobago for her birthday. I'm kind of wondering if I'm ready to spend a weekend with someone alone. Haven't thought about that since my separation/divorce. What if I start having real feelings for her? What if she wants more out of this "relationship" after this weekend, even though we spoke about it at lenght. I was really honest with her from the get go, suppose honesty becomes my downfall? Should I be scared guys? or should I just go and have fun....forget TM/fibromyalgia/vasculitis for a weekend and enjoy the company of a woman who I might like? Regards, Jeron
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