Hi Srinivas and all... :) First...My apologies if my mail looked like a Hate Mail. My intentions were nowhere close to anything so actually. Like I mentioned up ahead..it was an open mail about all I had in mind.
Secondly...YES...we know all about this when we decided to help Raju...and I did mention that I still stand by my words that there is no qn about helping him. More of what I wrote was focussing on how we should prioritise/work around future cases. If any of what I wrote about what I feel about Rajus' family sounded otherwise...please note..that it is because I seriously am against healthy, smart & sound individuals not doing anything in times of their own familys' need. Again...I can always be questioned what do I know about them to frame that opinion. I would merely say..that this is my perception of things...according to what I understand people through whatever I have seen of this world :D I clearly said that money to me is not the qn here. Its the attitude. If we can do something to change that...I think we should. I shall respect Srinivas's thoughts & what he said...since they are his perceptions/views. I NEVER SAID Chandra did a mistake in giving the cash. The thought did shake me a little..since he had to borrow some money from his collegues. I personally would never do that, though I understand the situation and its demand. Simply my mental-makeup I guess. Also...in our earlier mails when we were discussing about Rajus' details, whats his family background and so on...we read in the mails that one of his sister expired by the news of his sickness. This aint' true. We knew of this fact when we spoke to Raju n his dad when I was back in hyd. She went sick I guess or something such. Dont' intend to make it sound as if it lessens the gravity of the situation...just to get a better picture of their family..if it helps in anyway. Given & Said...there is no doubt we need to help Raju as much as we can. But...I STRONGLY suggest...we emphasize more on boosting his familys' individual capabilities and try put their skills to work. Chandragaru...thnks on ur mail. I can c ur picture of the situation through ur words. And u actually did a good job jotting ur thoughts down. I will admit here though...that I ALWAYS bet on my instincts when it comes to personalities....giving them reasonable benefit or doubt to wherever I can. I shall keep in mind ur opinions on this case though, as a comparison/reference scale. Btw...if u all have noticed..I am using some slashes in my mail subject header if the mails could be ignored or were off subject. I wouldnt' really mail these to personal ids, atleast as of now. I might surely do so after I get to know some of you more :) But ofcourse..if I do end quarelling with someone...then I would definitely say sorry through a group mail...and perhaps send some more butter-quoted-apology-words to personal ids. Tkcr you all. Hope u all had a good weekend. I soo cant' wait to hit bed. Super tired! For now... Divya ************************************** --- In [email protected], "Srinivas Surya" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > All, > > 01. Where cash needs to be given directly, it needs to be properly > appraised of. > > > By appraisal, I am referring to the situation & circumstances and severity of need that is to be looked into. I dont say Chandra did a mistake in giving out cash > > 02. Another point in case, suddenly, it appears like too many people are forming remote opinions on Raju's family. Were these same questions not relevant at the time we took up the case? Lets stop hate mail. Each has their own circumstances and situations. Unless we see and understand what is Raju's situation and his family completely, we shouldn't be forming opinions. > > 03. There indeed are too many mails, and most of them are almost personal exchanges. It would help to categorise so we can read the ones related to the group as a whole, or about some particular need/case (Or pls mail directly to concerned person in case of personal exchanges, something which I follow). > > Peace, > > Srinivas >
