Yes, sometime people who love you seeing that you are clearly upset by their
actions upon you can be a very useful medium to finding a resolution. Simply
saying sitting on it and shielding your loved ones from your feelings is
unhealthy. Sometimes this includes less pleasant emotions.
>Any household that involves this on a regular basis is dysfunctional.
Yes, of course. I am not advocating that he suddenly becomes combative all
the time. Sometimes, though have a charged interaction causes both parties to
reconsider where things stand.
All people communicate with more than raw language, it is important to
understand this, and to not dance around it if the situation calls for it.