In that case, you are in exactly the right place doing exactly the right
thing and asking exactly the right questions.
I defer to Senor Calmstorm's superior communication skills because of
longstanding personal experience. I'm not a troll either.
Please stay respectful. Remember that these people have jobs and families and
bills and interests too and they aren't your minimum wage customer service
representatives.
There is a search bar at the top of the window that you can use if you need
an answer right away or if you're not sure how to phrase your question: it
might already have been answered the last time someone asked it.
The forum is connected with a mailing list. You agreed to that when you
opened your account. Don't blow up at a random forum member if they think
it's more tactful to answer you offlist to protect your privacy.
Nobody is trying to hurt you and not all of us are young, childless, middle
class men who went to elite prep schools and live in their mother's
basements. We're not all wearing black hoodies either.
We're just people.
Hi, I'm Heather. Nice to meet you.