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Hi Pete,
After reading further, I see that I may have muddied the waters a
little more. With the following definition here is what I see.
On Jan 23, 2013, at 11:44 AM, [email protected] wrote:
OK
Here's the definition of cross packaging. it doesn't apply so
Dennis misspoke in the TROM manual.
Cross-packaging
When a junior package is not erasing cleanly the most common fault
is that the package is not a true package. This is known as
cross-packaging. It is one of the 'deadly' sins. When two or more
junior packages are crossed up into one package neither of the
packages will erase and the whole mish-mash just grinds on
forever. The therapist who tries to resolve a man's drinking
problem by addressing his infantile sex life is guilty of cross-
packaging. This is why the 'therapy' goes on forever with no
relief for the patient.
The packages are not the little differences that exist between the
sexes, male to female or female to male but the fact that male is
different than female and vice versa. So it is not the differences
that exist between a male and a female but the simple fact that male
is different than female and female different than male. To heck
with all the differences thereby derived, it is that male is not
female and female is not male.
With two separate things which are not the duplicate of the other,
there will always be a difference. To then go into all the
differences that one can spot between the two sexes will not address
the basic. So one can process out all of the differences that they
can find between sexes and totally miss the basic. The basic is that
one sex is not the other.
So if one then processes on those differences between two items, one
may miss the fact that there is an opposition and games condition
because there are two different things, not that there are two or
more differences in sexual characteristics. Basically not being able
to see the forest for the trees. Processing out all the different
trees and all of their differences between each other will not
process out the opposition terminal of the forest. Just process on
'the forest'. As in Dennis' sample, process alcohol not "infantile
sex life". A person may give you or you yourself may give yourself
housekeeping as the opposition subject when it is really male vs
female or female vs male and nothing more non-esoteric than that.
I believe Dennis calls this 'Cross-Packaging' as all crossed or mixed
up and not addressing the correct item.
Paul, Level 5 in progress
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