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Pete,
p.s.    It is the lack of all 4 postulates that is the cross-package,  and
nothing else.  Having only 2 postulates out of 4 is the cross-package,  as
we need all 4 to be sane.
Aarre

On Thu, Jan 24, 2013 at 11:18 AM, Pete McLaughlin <
pete_mclaughlin_93...@yahoo.com> wrote:

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> Hi Paul and Svoboda
> Thanks for the responces. They got my brain working again.
>
> Here is what i have come up with so far.
>
> the normal to sex goals package has male and female complementing each
> other.
>
> 1. must sex    3. must be sexed
>
>
> by making females and males opponents in a game we move the female
> postulate to the opponents position and the negative female postulate to
> the complementary position.
>
> 1. must sex    3 must not be sexed
>
> 2. must not sex   4 must be sexed
>
> This is by definition a cross package as 1 and 3 are not exactly
> complementary.
>
> Does this look like a correct interpretation of Dennis' statement that:
>
>  "As a male, he soon starts to get opposed to females, and vice-versa.
> Very soon he is in a terrible state on the subject, for the two genders are
> not intrinsically in opposition to each other.
>
>  You end up with a classic case of cross-packaging. We find the male
> desperately asserting his masculinity, while heavily suppressing any
> feminine characteristics in his personality, and vice-versa for the female.
> The whole subject soon takes on the quality of a nightmare, and becomes one
> big unsolvable problem. And it stays this way until the being regains his
> full freedom of choice to occupy, at will, any one of the four classes
> available to him on the subject."
>
> IF so then on any goals in life if you make what should be a complementary
> postulate into the opposition postulate in a game you are cross packaging.
>
>
>
> Keep on TROMing
> Pete
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> *From:* Paul Tipon <pti...@proftitleserv.com>
> *To:* trom@lists.newciv.org
> *Sent:* Thursday, January 24, 2013 12:19 AM
> *Subject:* [TROM1] Cross Packaging? again
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> Hi Pete,
>
> After reading further, I see that I may have muddied the waters a little
> more.  With the following definition here is what I see.
>
> On Jan 23, 2013, at 11:44 AM, trom-requ...@lists.newciv.org wrote:
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> > OK
> > Here's the definition of cross packaging. it doesn't apply so Dennis
> misspoke in the TROM manual.
> >
> >
> > Cross-packaging
> > When a junior package is not erasing cleanly the most common fault is
> that the package is not a true package.  This is known as
> > cross-packaging.  It is one of the 'deadly' sins.  When two or more
> junior packages are crossed up into one package neither of the packages
> will erase and the whole mish-mash just grinds on forever.  The therapist
> who tries to resolve a man's drinking problem by addressing his infantile
> sex life is guilty of cross-packaging.  This is why the 'therapy' goes on
> forever with no relief for the patient.
>
> The packages are not the little differences that exist between the sexes,
> male to female or female to male but the fact that male is different than
> female and vice versa.  So it is not the differences that exist between a
> male and a female but the simple fact that male is different than female
> and female different than male.  To heck with all the differences thereby
> derived, it is that male is not female and female is not male.
>
> With two separate things which are not the duplicate of the other, there
> will always be a difference.  To then go into all the differences that one
> can spot between the two sexes will not address the basic.  So one can
> process out all of the differences that they can find between sexes and
> totally miss the basic.  The basic is that one sex is not the other.
>
> So if one then processes on those differences between two items, one may
> miss the fact that there is an opposition and games condition because there
> are two different things, not that there are two or more differences in
> sexual characteristics.  Basically not being able to see the forest for the
> trees.  Processing out all the different trees and all of their differences
> between each other will not process out the opposition terminal of the
> forest.  Just process on 'the forest'.  As in Dennis' sample, process
> alcohol not "infantile sex life".  A person may give you or you yourself
> may give yourself housekeeping as the opposition subject when it is really
> male vs female or female vs male and nothing more non-esoteric than that.
>
> I believe Dennis calls this 'Cross-Packaging' as all crossed or mixed up
> and not addressing the correct item.
>
> Paul, Level 5 in progress
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