You can't understand this because your foundation is wrong. Your foundation is wrong because you are making a doctrine that the Bible is silent about. THE BIBLE DOES NOT SAY IT IS WRONG TO BAPTZIE INFANTS.
NADA. You're back to speculation again... "IF".
IMHO, if Satan influences Bible believers to wrongly baptize infants, then I think God really does "care if we do or we do not" about it. You are correct in your assessment.......
