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David Miller wrote:

> Dave,
>
> I think the primary problem here is that you have a very polished
> surface which does not reveal your heart.

DAVEH:�� Hmmmmm......and what do YOU perceive to be my "heart", DavidM???��� 
Furthermore.......I'm not quite sure why being polite (at least that is how I perceive 
'polished' should be defined in this instance) is a problem.� Would other TTers prefer 
I be
obnoxiously offensive in my posts?

> �I'm not trying to offend you.

DAVEH:� As you know.......I'm not offended.

> In fact, I think some people on TruthTalk admire you in this way.
> However, others find it offensive.

DAVEH:� I'm bewildered at that, DavidM.� How can being polite be offensive?� What is 
it I do that would/could offend another.� I have bent over backwards to be 
respectfully polite and courteous, I think.

> At first it appears to some that you are not knowledgeable

DAVEH:� Other TTer's have alluded to my ignorance.� If I were to rebut their comments, 
it would be easy for them to point out specific instances of my ignorance (such as 
when I questioned your use of dispora.....which I have sense learned is a common
term) to prove me wrong.� From my perspective it is easier to swallow my pride and be 
agreeable with those who see my shortcomings than to prove my lack of knowledge.� Why 
have a battle over my intelligence/ignorance when it will only make me appear
arrogant.

> and that you
> have a sincere desire to learn of Christianity outside Mormonism.

DAVEH:�� And I assure you.....I do.� That does not mean I want to leave Mormonism or 
subscribe to Protestantism though.� I think I've explained that more than once 
before.� Does anybody think otherwise?

> �I think some might even think you are considering leaving Mormonism.

DAVEH:� LOL.....Are you serious???� Is there anybody in TT who really believes 
that?!?!?!?!� I have specifically stated my intention not to leave the LDS Church more 
than once, have I not!!!

> Then, as they discuss with you, they find that there is not this
> innocent desire to learn more, but rather you are very knowledgeable and
> have already heard the knowledge shared concerning what you had inquired
> about.� This jolts them in that they had an impression of you that
> proved to be wrong upon subsequent discussion.

DAVEH:� One thing TT has taught me is that regardless of what I say, people will (or 
want to) read their own beliefs into it.� And I don't think it only happens to me.� 
How many times have other TTers said that they know what I said I believe, but they
know I believe differently....� I have always tried to be up front with my beliefs and 
have never tried to deceive people as to what I believe or my intentions to remain 
LDS.� Yet for some reason when I explain that I want to know what a Protestant
believes and why they believe that way, some make the assumption that I am looking to 
leave Mormonism.� Does that make sense to you, DavidM?��� All I want to do is be able 
to converse with a Protestant (or even a RC) as to how they come to believe what
they do instead of seeking that info from another Mormon.� When I do discuss 
Protestant doctrines (like the T-Doctrine) with other LDS folks, I get the same 
reaction as I have myself....they don't understand why somebody would believe 
something (the
T-Doctrine) so convoluted and non Biblical.

> Another level was breached with regard to the Book of Abraham.� In that
> situation, it surely appeared that you do not care at all what the truth
> is.� You will believe the Book of Abraham because your church believes
> the Book of Abraham, and it really doesn't matter what evidence there is
> that would challenge that belief.

DAVEH:� At this point in my life, that is correct.� There are many things in LDS 
theology which I accept on faith, since I do not have an academic knowledge adequate 
to believe it on an intellectual level.� FWIW......There are many things in the LDS 
realm
that I have not studied in depth.�� And until I have a specific interest to study 
them, I simply accept them with a measure of faith.� Furthermore.....I would say the 
same about my belief in Jesus.....I (as you well know) am not a scholar that can prove
my belief in Jesus.� But I do have faith and a testimony that he is my Elder Brother 
who made an atoning sacrifice in my (our) behalf.

��� BTW.......As I think I told you awhile back, I did buy the book you wanted me to 
read.� I read approximately half of it before I got sidetracked.� It is now boxed with 
a couple thousand other books awaiting a couple moves, so I don't know when I'll
get back to it.� And, I've got to admit.....on the surface, it does sound detrimental 
to the BofA.� But I learned long ago not to get too excited until all the facts are 
considered, as most everybody seems to have an agenda when they write a book.� Like
I've said before.....I don't have all the answers, but I do have faith.

> �This situation especially shook me
> because you seemed to project a persona of someone interested in Truth.

DAVEH:� You are a classic example of what I explained above, DavidM.� It doesn't seem 
to matter what I say in TT, you too apparently have assumed otherwise.� Let me state 
this FTR ONCE AGAIN:� I am not in TT to find an excuse to leave the LDS Church.� Now
I ask you......DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT????� (And I don't mean to shout to offend you, 
or be impolite......I just want to emphasize my position for the umpteenth time so 
that there is no mistake about why I am here.)

> I have seen polished surfaces many times in Christianity... face it,
> Christianity is filled with hypocrites.� But this reaction showed to
> many here that perhaps there is even demonic activity preventing you
> from being honest in this particular situation.

DAVEH:� I have tried to be scrupulously honest with you and other TTers about my 
reason for being in TT.� I'm a visitor in a foreign land, and if I were to suddenly 
start trying to convert other TTers to Mormonism, then you too would be calling me a
hypocrite or worse.� (Come to think of it....I think I have been called such in 
TT....oh well!)�� If you or any other TTer wants to learn about Mormonism, feel free 
to ask me questions.� I've always tried to answer them (with the exception of questions
regarding our sacred Temple ordinances) with candor to the best of my ability.� If you 
or anybody else wants to join the LDS Church....I'm the wrong guy and this is the 
wrong forum.� Though I'll be happy to send a couple of LDS missionaries to help you
with that process.� In fact.....I could send my nephew, Jeff, who is doing such work 
right now!���� :-)

��� Now if you think my honesty to be demonic.....like I said.....a lot of non LDS 
people like to believe what they want to believe regardless of the truth.� I can only 
tell you what I believe.� Whether you choose to accept what I say.....that's up to
you.

> �I don't mean this in a
> derogatory way,

DAVEH:� I understand, and did not take it that way.� From many a Protestant's 
perspective, Mormonism is.....what should I say.....'demonic'?� So that image is 
watermarked on everything they see in LDS theology, from our interpretation of the 
material
found in the Bible, to our Temples and everything in between.� If a Mormon were to do 
any good deed at all, there would always be the underlying thoughts that that good was 
a result of Satan trying to deceive a Christian.� So, it's hard for us to 'win' in
a situation like that.� I think that is one (though not necessarily the only) reason 
the LDS Church in recent years has mounted a massive public relations campaign to 
point out that we (LDS folks) don't have horns and a tail.

> but rather it just seems very much like the Jews who
> will not even consider that Jesus is Messiah.� There is an invisible
> veil over the heart.
>
> So Mormonism appears to many here, as the result of your testimony here,
> to be a cult kind of like Judaism,

DAVEH:� You make it sound like it is my fault other TTers think we are a cult.� That 
has been preached by Protestants who are apprehensive of Mormonism for well over a 
century.� Look at how many books in your library have branded us as a cult!� By
painting us with the cult brush, it makes us sound evil to others who they fear may be 
persuaded to think we are otherwise 'normal'.� It (labeling a cult) is a great tool to 
bias people away from what is often truth.

> where adherence to an institution and
> focus upon a particular prophet keeps you from seeing and hearing God in
> matters of great importance.

DAVEH:� That is what amazes me (and other LDS folks) about this......We view it 
exactly the opposite.� As you know we believe God has revealed much more than what 
Protestants accept.� If this is true, then it is their "adherence to an institution
[Protestantism] and
focus upon a particular prophet [those only found in the Bible] keeps you [them] from 
seeing and hearing God in matters of great importance."� To me, it is Protestantism 
that prevents many people from seeing the full breadth of the gospel.

> With regards to TruthTalk as a forum and your involvement here, I just
> want to remind everyone that TruthTalk is open to everyone regardless of
> their religious beliefs.

DAVEH:� I wish you would tag that onto the bottom of every TT post as a reminder that 
TTers should have tolerance for those who may have a contrasting perspective.

> �Furthermore, how people participate in the
> forum is strictly up to them.� The way DaveH has handled himself is just
> fine, in fact, exemplary in many ways.� We could learn a lot about
> posting etiquette from DaveH.

DAVEH:� Thank you, DavidM.� I appreciate your recognition of that.

> If you have some concerns or problems or
> you want to make a point, you will simply have to adjust your methods to
> work with the way the person you are responding to acts.� With respect
> to this forum, there is nothing wrong with a person who is lurking, or
> someone who evades answers, or someone who gives poor answers.� Adjust
> your posting to produce the best fruit possible, and don't blame others
> just because they are not responding the way that you think they ought
> to respond.
>
> I also want to take this opportunity to say that I have very much
> appreciated Dave Hansen's continued involvement on TruthTalk.� Because
> of him, I have a much better understanding of Mormonism.� I've added
> dozens of Mormon books to my library and I have read them because of
> Dave Hansen's comments here.� I've gained a much better historical
> knowledge of the relationship of the Stone-Campbell restoration movement
> and the Mormon restoration movement.� I feel like I know about Joseph
> Smith's life in a very detailed way.� For all this knowledge, I am very
> grateful, and it would not have come about if Dave Hansen did not prod
> me with questions and challenge me with his ideas in this forum.� Thank
> you Dave.� :-)

DAVEH:� And thank you for not only saying such nice things, but for also providing a 
forum where diverse ideas can be shared.� I know you've worked hard to build TT to the 
point it is today, and due to your efforts I feel very comfortable here.� May God
bless you and your family!

> Peace be with you.
> David Miller, Beverly Hills, Florida.

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