When people must tiptoe about and watch what they say for fear of arousing anger in another - this is a phenomenon called "control by anger"
 
Judy, I did not ask you to tiptoe around, nor did I assume you would need to. I simply asked you to be honest, stop the spin and stay on the subject at hand. Are you willing to do that? Your ongoing denial with John suggests you are not. Should we all conclude that the devil is weeping and talking about love? Is that your solution to every problem? Blame those with whom you disagree of following the devil? If it would help settle the issue, Judy, I will just ignore you and you can continue being you, led by the Spirit in truth, to the best of your abilities, no repentance necessary.
 
 
Thank you,
 
Bill
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, July 25, 2004 5:00 AM
Subject: [TruthTalk] God Hates Blaspheming


john: What is it in my words above that give rise to the notion that I am suggesting we be controlled by the emotions of others? 
 
jt: It's not your words per se John, it's the situation.  When people must tiptoe about and watch what they say for fear of arousing anger in another - this is a phenomenon called "control by anger"
 
 If we apply the advise of I Co 13:4-7 , we are being controlled by the Spirit of God are we not? 
 
jt: Not necessarily.  When we try to apply NT scripture like rules to fix a problem we mishandle the Truth.  Actually "the goal of the instruction of scripture is love from a pure heart" .. so you see "a pure heart" is the first part of the goal and all of these other issues are distractions along the way.  We've all got "stuff" and none of us has arrived just yet.  Love covers.
 
The emotion of the others is of no concern to those controlled by God.  I am certain you agree with that so help me out.  Why do you think I am suggesting (in the above wording)  you be controlled by the emotions of other? 
 
jt: God does not control people; control is in the devil's court; God gives us the freedom to choose either to be led by the Spirit of God or our old carnal, unrenewed mind. God has a live, and let live policy so long as we understand that we will always reap what we sow and we are ultimately responsible before Him for every choice we make.
You and I (and Bill and Perry and ..........) are family members because we serve the same Christ, then we do not have the freedom to respond in the way we desire  -- we are constrained by the spirit of love in Christ.   Correct???
 
jt: Yes .. I would say that love should constrain or keep us from anger and offence because the anger of man does not result in the "righteousness of God"  ATST  family members should be free to be honest with each other.
 

If I didn't know better, I would say that you are saying that 13:4-7 does not apply to those on TT. 
 
jt: I gave up trying to apply scriptures to other people years ago.  Right now my focus is being a "doer of God's Word" myself and my hope is that others will give me freedom and the room to grow..

I am not saying you are angry.   But I am saying that quite often,  the "way you are saying" (your words above) could be more constrained.  It seems that the best expense of time, on this forum, is to form our responses with a view to persuasion or to continue the learning circumstance.    When we write only to correct, when there is no obvious concern to change the thinking of the other or to accept some of his/her thinking,  then our discussion is of no importance. I doubt that anyone on this list is here for the purpose of correction.    But if you are concerned that God work through you to enlighten, I would think that the advise of I Co 13:4-7 is forced upon you (and us all.)

jt: Love without truth is spiritual harlotry John; where would be be if Martin Luther had not had a heart for truth. I believe he is the one who wrote that "everytime the devil is challenged he begins to weep and talk about love." 
I am not deluded enough to believe that Bill would take correction from me personally or that I am even in a position to give him correction since I don't know much about him personally; but I do feel free to challenge this "perichoresis" thing publicly.
 
You are right on here.  Accepting that Bill is a brother, consider this: assume that Bill is still a "babe in Christ"  (sorry about that William)  
 
jt: Sure John ... With so many of you deferring to him and falling at his feet?  I may have a lot of issues but I'm not quite that thick. :)  I will pray that the Holy Spirit gives me sensitivity in the way I respond to everyone on TT ....
 
 



 

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