Yes... essentially I can explicitly un-normalize this and have 3 tables to do a many-to-many relation with fields. But I don't want to manage two one-to-manys explicitly if I do not have to.
But, there is already a third table on the relational DB which is nicely abstracted away by SQLObject. I just want to pass arguments to it so I can customize it a little :) BTW, the phone number example was just an example. I am actually trying to do a many-to-many join for an investment application.

