Jonah, you are responsible for your own carelessness. Stop wondering how AIDS spread so fast and wrap a condom around it.
Are you HIV positive? How did you get it?
Anyomokolo
jonah kasangwawo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
and some people still wonder how AIDS spread so fast !!!!
>From: Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>Subject: Re: ugnet_: Why young women date married men
>Date: Fri, 2 Jan 2004 13:02:34 -0500 (EST)
>
>I would chose to date a married man over single/unmarried guy becuase a
>single man would always want to control, dominate and own me. A married man
>is already controlling his wife. I don't want any man to control my life
>and freedom. Unlike these Makerere students, I have my own money and will
>never trade my freedom with $$$. I can have a married man and another, a
>regular one, on the side if I choose to. If the regular one begin to
>control my freedom, I will chuck him immediately. The married one will
>always be around while I loo k for another regular.
>So, to conclude, for me, a married man is a complete package. I can get
>what I want and maintain my freedom. I don't know about other women but my
>freedom is very important.
>
>My freedom is very important. Very important. Actually it is the reason I
>can't get married.
>
>Anyomokolo
>
>
>
>
>Owor Kipenji <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:
>
>Why young women date married men
>By Muhwezi G. Bonge
>Jan 2 - 8, 2004
>
>
>Most people including my self must be wondering why that cute lady that any
>man would love to have as his own is comfortably engrossed in the arms of a
>married man.
>
>Why she risks being found out by the wife of the man she is dating? It's
>much more than you think so let's take time to reflect on what that married
>man has that a bachelor doesn't.
>Faridah Nabagereka acting a s Ashiraf Ssemwogerere's girlfriend in
>Gawandagala, Bat Valley theatre (Photo by Willy Tamale).Some ladies confess
>that usually married men can't admit that they are married but she later
>finds out when she has already given too much to leave him. There is a lot
>that ladies find in married men than you can imagine.
>
>
>Most ladies confess that they date married because married men give them
>security. Does this mean that youthful guys can't provide that security?
>The argument here is that although she knows he is married, she can count
>on him to be responsible and maintain her and his wife. When a woman is
>dating a married man, she does not have to worry about cheating after all
>the whole relationship is based on cheating. So she does it for fun.
>
>Usually a married man is mature and cares for her feelings more than the
>youthful men. For example when a married man take s her out he does those
>'small' things that really count like opening the door for her to sit,
>pulling the chair for her and even calling her after the date to know if
>she is feeling fine. More to that, women confess that married men are
>sincere and gentle. So guys take heed, if you think by not giving your all
>or by not showing your weaknesses, you are being a man. Wake up, you are
>missing the point.
>
>Married men usually have that financial superiority which sometimes,
>youthful men don't have and even if he is doing well financially, he can't
>take care of all her needs.
>
>Cynthia a second year student at Makerere university admits that she is
>currently dating a married man so that he takes care of her needs like
>food, airtime, service fee, mention it, but still maintains her boyfriend
>who completed last year and is working right now. Why is it that she
>doesn' t ask such things from her boyfriend? She argues that she feels that
>she is exploiting someone she loves and more to that, her boy friend has to
>work for their future.
>
>Then why exploit the married man? She feels he is also exploiting her, so
>it is a situation of mutual exploitation. Asked if her boyfriend finds out?
>She says she plays her cards so well that even if she receives a call from
>the 'big daddy' when she is with her boyfriend she has to divert the
>conversation to become neutral so that her boyfriend can't suspect
>anything.
>
>Married men treat them like little goddesses. For example a married man
>will buy her airtime without expecting a call from her but just to please
>her. She will use all the airtime without giving him a single call and once
>it is finished she will go back for more.
>
>Married men and young ladies in relationships are out there to expl oit one
>another. So is it ethical to do this? The debate remains open.
>
>
>� 2003 The Monitor Publications
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