Humanity or no humanity, I don't care. Experience or no experience, I don't care. Good or bad men and women, asurely don't give a damn. The bottom line is I am grown woman and nobody is going to tell me, at least not at my age, that marriage is good for me becuase I know what is good for me.
Unlike many women who are raised in a culture that does not offer them this opportunity, I am glad that I have absolute power and authority invested in me to make my own decision whether I want to get married and spend the rest of my life with a complete stranger or not.
Women who feel marriage is where they would find happniness, should go ahead and get married. Personally, the thought of it, marriage, alone makes me feel like a real idiot. Personally, I will never give up my freedom in exchange for a husband. For what? What good is it to me? What do I gain? I don't joke with my freedom.
Think about it, I can wake up anytime I want, go out when I want, come back home when I want, make my own decision without worring about a complete stranger, who all of sudden I have to live with for the rest of my life. I can cook when I want, employee a house girl when I want, sleep all day if chose to, blablabla....the list is endless. Give up my freedom! I am not that stupid.
I am a woman who does not need money, love or anything for that matter from any man except a child and it takes only ten seconds to ejaculate. Why should I give my freedom for almost fifty years? Please! If the mailman does not come around often enough, I will simply take my money from the bank to the bank.
Robert, what has this got to do with humanity and all the good and bad women and men out there?
I will get married when I find a man who lives with me as if he lives alone. This would be my soul mate. If you are out there, contact. You and I will get along well.
Robert Owor <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Anyomokolo is really Molokony!!!!!
Your experience in life Anyomokolo does not sum up the total experience
of humanity.
What you believe in is not necessarily right especially since your
reasoning has fundamental flaws.
There are good women and bad women. There are good men and bad men.
There are good marriages and bad marriages. There happy single people
and sad single people. There happily married people and miserably
married people.
Choosing to be single is not necessarily wrong, choosing to be married
is not necessarily right. The converse is also true. What your argument
seems to imply is that a brown dog is better than black dog.
Prove me wrong!!!
And where is Eve Abe if I amy get off this point?
regards
Steven
>>> [EMAIL PROTECTED] 02/01/04 8:13 AM >>>
Owor Kipenji wrote:
<<...marriage is not about advantages and disadvantages,but about
sharing ...>>
Why don't you start brainwashing a little girl? I am too old and I have
heard it all before.
We weigh the disadv and adv of everything we do in this world. Why not
marriage? Yeah, "sharing" but at what cost to a woman?
I know what is good for me and I refuse to go with the flow.
Anyomokolo
Owor Kipenji <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:
Date: Sat, 31 Jan 2004 22:40:46 +0000 (GMT)
From: Owor Kipenji
Subject: Re: ugnet_: Re: When the wife earns more - Anyomokolo
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
I married trouble(Anyomokolo) based on the reasoning you have outlined
regarding marriage,you really have a very very very loooooong time to
wait!.
The main reason being,marriage is not about advantages and
disadvantages,but about sharing unless ofcourse you think of the Britany
Spears type of debacle which clearly showed what the Western pop culture
takes marriage to be i.e a contract!.
If marriage is indeed a contract,with legalese embedded therein in,we
shall continue to see many divorce courts erected and so are prisons to
quarantine those who behave waywardly.
It will be an institution based on conspiracies and a tendency to out
wit the other in order to gain the advantages you refer to in your
comments.
That is the way I see it.
Thank you.
Kipenji.
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Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:
Damn! This was too good. I make sense when in the mood to express my
disgust with this dominant culture of marriage. This piece flowed so
well until I realized that I mispelled out ways. That just messed up the
whole piece. But oh well, you get the point.
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
<they can race he ad to head with men are the once who find themselves
singled out and "single Independent women". the truth is they are not
independent, they just think they can ride men much as well as men can
ride them, you know what i mean. As a matter of fact these women are
very lonely and insecure, they would be crying all night and pretend to
be smiling in the day. Studies show that such women do not live normally
all their lives or rather sadly die young. To summarise my points, being
a house wife is not slavery but part of actively trying to satisfy the
meaning of this notorious word so called 'LOVE.">>
Let me respond to you by 'speaking' for myself. I am a single and
educated woman. I don't have any kids. I am sexually, biologically,
mentally and emotionally very fit. I am young, I work every day, I can
cook for myself, I wash my own clothes and clean my own house. I make
enough money to take care of three children by myself and still live
large.
Why in the world, in my right head, for God's sake, would I want to get
married and lose my freedom to the kitchen where I would be confined to
between four walls laboring myself like a horse to make a man, my
husband, happy? A total stranger for that matter! Are you crazy?
Let me mentioned that I was raised to believe that this culture of
marriage, is the best way of life for me as a woman. I never asked "HOW"
or "WHY" until three years ago. I refused to follow a culture that
suppresses my freedom in exchange for a man's best interest. Why should
I dedicate my life to caring for another woman's child? Becuase he is my
husband? 'Flip' that! I would rather die without having a husband.
A man who is old enough to be the 'head of the house' should get his
lazy behind out of bed and cook his own damn food, and wash his own
'flipping' clothes. If he is strong enough to have an erection and have
sex every day, he should be storng enough to do all the house work every
day. How can a grown man be 'head of the house' when he can't do
anything around the house? Please!
Like I said, I was not raised this way. I was raised in an African home
with very strong Luo/African culture. But three years ago, I examined
this culture of marriage and realized that it serves me, a woman, no
purpose in this world.
Someone need to explain to me why I should lose my freedom by getting
married. That is not all! On top of losing my freedom, I become a sex
slaves to a man who could probably become so boring after just one or
two years. That is not all! I would labor everyday like a horse;
cooking, cleaning and all that. That is not all! On top of all that,
this man would be controlling me, telling what to do and yet he wants me
to care for him sexually, emotionally, physically and what not, as if he
were my own child! Bullsh*t! A man who can't take care of his own @#$
better go back to his mother's house because I did not bring anyone into
this world. My responsibilities are my own children and not another
woman's grown up, old piece of ......
To conlude, [EMAIL PROTECTED], I am a very happy woman. I am not lonely
and I am not miserable. I live my life the way I want to. I go whenever
I want, come back to my own damn mansion whenever I please, I spend my
money however I want to, but most important, I have absolute mental
freedom. This include freedom to hangout with the mail man any time I
want. I express myself very eloquently without beating around the bush
becuase I don't give a damn about my culture nor what men think of me
becuase I don't need them, men, for anything. I got my sexual freedom
and my own money and that is all that matters to me. I AM A LOT HAPPIER
THAN MANY HOUSEWIVES; especially those who are financially dependent on
their husbands.
I need only one thing from me n and I don't need to get married and go
through all that bullsh*t in order to get it. The mail man delivers mail
at least twice a week. If want to have a baby, all agotta do is take my
money from the bank to the bank.
I will get married when the advantages outweighs the disadvantages. For
now, to hell with marriage.
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:
Damn! This was too good. I make sense when in the mood to express my
disgust with this dominant culture of marriage. This piece flowed so
well until I realized that I mispelled out ways. That just messed up the
whole piece. But oh well, you get the point.
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
<they can race head to head with men are the once who find themselves
singled out and "single Independent women". the truth is they are not
independent, they just think th ey can ride men much as well as men can
ride them, you know what i mean. As a matter of fact these women are
very lonely and insecure, they would be crying all night and pretend to
be smiling in the day. Studies show that such women do not live normally
all their lives or rather sadly die young. To summarise my points, being
a house wife is not slavery but part of actively trying to satisfy the
meaning of this notorious word so called 'LOVE.">>
Let me respond to you by 'speaking' for myself. I am a single and
educated woman. I don't have any kids. I am sexually, biologically,
mentally and emotionally very fit. I am young, I work every day, I can
cook for myself, I wash my own clothes and clean my own house. I make
enough money to take care of three children by myself and still live
large.
Why in the world, in my right head, for God's sake, would I want to get
married and lose my freedom to the kitchen where I would be confine d to
between four walls laboring myself like a horse to make a man, my
husband, happy? A total stranger for that matter! Are you crazy?
Let me mentioned that I was raised to believe that this culture of
marriage, is the best way of life for me as a woman. I never asked "HOW"
or "WHY" until three years ago. I refused to follow a culture that
suppresses my freedom in exchange for a man's best interest. Why should
I dedicate my life to caring for another woman's child? Becuase he is my
husband? 'Flip' that! I would rather die without having a husband.
A man who is old enough to be the 'head of the house' should get his
lazy behind out of bed and cook his own damn food, and wash his own
'flipping' clothes. If he is strong enough to have an erection and have
sex every day, he should be storng enough to do all the house work every
day. How can a grown man be 'head of the house' when he can't do
anything around the house? Please!
Like I said, I was not raised this way. I was raised in an African home
with very strong Luo/African culture. But three years ago, I examined
this culture of marriage and realized that it serves me, a woman, no
purpose in this world.
Someone need to explain to me why I should lose my freedom by getting
married. That is not all! On top of losing my freedom, I become a sex
slaves to a man who could probably become so boring after just one or
two years. That is not all! I would labor everyday like a horse;
cooking, cleaning and all that. That is not all! On top of all that,
this man would be controlling me, telling what to do and yet he wants me
to care for him sexually, emotionally, physically and what not, as if he
were my own child! Bullsh*t! A man who can't take care of his own @#$
better go back to his mother's house because I did not bring anyone into
this world. My responsibilities are my own children and not another
woman's grown up, old piece of ......
To conlude, [EMAIL PROTECTED], I am a very happy woman. I am not lonely
and I am not miserable. I live my life the way I want to. I go whenever
I want, come back to my own damn mansion whenever I please, I spend my
money however I want to, but most important, I have absolute mental
freedom. This include freedom to hangout with the mail man any time I
want. I express myself very eloquently without beating around the bush
becuase I don't give a damn about my culture nor what men think of me
becuase I don't need them, men, for anything. I got my sexual freedom
and my own money and that is all that matters to me. I AM A LOT HAPPIER
THAN MANY HOUSEWIVES; especially those who are financially dependent on
their husbands.
I need only one thing from men and I don't need to get married and go
through all that bullsh*t in order to get it. The mail man delivers mail
at least twice a week. If want to have a b aby, all agotta do is take my
money from the bank to the bank.
I will get married when the advantages outweighs the disadvantages. For
now, to hell with marriage.
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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