give us a break with your marriage stuff ! Noone is forcing you to get married. In fact, the actual question is: who, in his right mind, would want to marry you ? THAT is the question.
Kasangwawo
From: Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Robert Owor <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: { SPAM 1 }::Re: ugnet_: Re: When the wife earns more - Anyomokolo
Date: Mon, 2 Feb 2004 11:26:58 -0500 (EST)
Humanity or no humanity, I don't care. Experience or no experience, I don't care. Good or bad men and women, asurely don't give a damn. The bottom line is I am grown woman and nobody is going to tell me, at least not at my age, that marriage is good for me becuase I know what is good for me.
Unlike many women who are raised in a culture that does not offer them this opportunity, I am glad that I have absolute power and authority invested in me to make my own decision whether I want to get married and spend the rest of my life with a complete stranger or not.
Women who feel marriage is where they would find happniness, should go ahead and get married. Personally, the thought of it, marriage, alone makes me feel like a real idiot. Personally, I will never give up my freedom in exchange for a husband. For what? What good is it to me? What do I gain? I don't joke with my freedom.
Think about it, I can wake up anytime I want, go out when I want, come back home when I want, make my own decision without worring about a complete stranger, who all of sudden I have to live with for the rest of my life. I can cook when I want, employee a house girl when I want, sleep all day if chose to, blablabla....the list is endless. Give up my freedom! I am not that stupid.
I am a woman who does not need money, love or anything for that matter from any man except a child and it takes only ten seconds to ejaculate. Why should I give my freedom for almost fifty years? Please! If the mailman does not come around often enough, I will simply take my money from the bank to the bank.
Robert, what has this got to do with humanity and all the good and bad women and men out there?
I will get married when I find a man who lives with me as if he lives alone. This would be my soul mate. If you are out there, contact. You and I will get along well.
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Robert Owor <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Anyomokolo is really Molokony!!!!!
Your experience in life Anyomokolo does not sum up the total experience of humanity. What you believe in is not necessarily right especially since your reasoning has fundamental flaws.
There are good women and bad women. There are good men and bad men. There are good marriages and bad marriages. There happy single people and sad single people. There happily married people and miserably married people.
Choosing to be single is not necessarily wrong, choosing to be married is not necessarily right. The converse is also true. What your argument seems to imply is that a brown dog is better than black dog.
Prove me wrong!!!
And where is Eve Abe if I amy get off this point?
regards
Steven
>>> [EMAIL PROTECTED] 02/01/04 8:13 AM >>> Owor Kipenji wrote:
<<...marriage is not about advantages and disadvantages,but about sharing ...>>
Why don't you start brainwashing a little girl? I am too old and I have heard it all before.
We weigh the disadv and adv of everything we do in this world. Why not marriage? Yeah, "sharing" but at what cost to a woman?
I know what is good for me and I refuse to go with the flow.
Anyomokolo
Owor Kipenji wrote: Date: Sat, 31 Jan 2004 22:40:46 +0000 (GMT) From: Owor Kipenji Subject: Re: ugnet_: Re: When the wife earns more - Anyomokolo To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
I married trouble(Anyomokolo) based on the reasoning you have outlined regarding marriage,you really have a very very very loooooong time to wait!. The main reason being,marriage is not about advantages and disadvantages,but about sharing unless ofcourse you think of the Britany Spears type of debacle which clearly showed what the Western pop culture takes marriage to be i.e a contract!. If marriage is indeed a contract,with legalese embedded therein in,we shall continue to see many divorce courts erected and so are prisons to quarantine those who behave waywardly. It will be an institution based on conspiracies and a tendency to out wit the other in order to gain the advantages you refer to in your comments. That is the way I see it. Thank you. Kipenji. =============================================================
Anyomokolo wrote:
Damn! This was too good. I make sense when in the mood to express my disgust with this dominant culture of marriage. This piece flowed so well until I realized that I mispelled out ways. That just messed up the whole piece. But oh well, you get the point.
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
<they can race head to head with men are the once who find themselves singled out and "single Independent women". the truth is they are not independent, they just think they can ride men much as well as men can ride them, you know what i mean. As a matter of fact these women are very lonely and insecure, they would be crying all night and pretend to be smiling in the day. Studies show that such women do not live normally all their lives or rather sadly die young. To summarise my points, being a house wife is not slavery but part of actively trying to satisfy the meaning of this notorious word so called 'LOVE.">>
Let me respond to you by 'speaking' for myself. I am a single and educated woman. I don't have any kids. I am sexually, biologically, mentally and emotionally very fit. I am young, I work every day, I can cook for myself, I wash my own clothes and clean my own house. I make enough money to take care of three children by myself and still live large.
Why in the world, in my right head, for God's sake, would I want to get married and lose my freedom to the kitchen where I would be confined to between four walls laboring myself like a horse to make a man, my husband, happy? A total stranger for that matter! Are you crazy?
Let me mentioned that I was raised to believe that this culture of marriage, is the best way of life for me as a woman. I never asked "HOW" or "WHY" until three years ago. I refused to follow a culture that suppresses my freedom in exchange for a man's best interest. Why should I dedicate my life to caring for another woman's child? Becuase he is my husband? 'Flip' that! I would rather die without having a husband.
A man who is old enough to be the 'head of the house' should get his lazy behind out of bed and cook his own damn food, and wash his own 'flipping' clothes. If he is strong enough to have an erection and have sex every day, he should be storng enough to do all the house work every day. How can a grown man be 'head of the house' when he can't do anything around the house? Please!
Like I said, I was not raised this way. I was raised in an African home with very strong Luo/African culture. But three years ago, I examined this culture of marriage and realized that it serves me, a woman, no purpose in this world.
Someone need to explain to me why I should lose my freedom by getting married. That is not all! On top of losing my freedom, I become a sex slaves to a man who could probably become so boring after just one or two years. That is not all! I would labor everyday like a horse; cooking, cleaning and all that. That is not all! On top of all that, this man would be controlling me, telling what to do and yet he wants me to care for him sexually, emotionally, physically and what not, as if he were my own child! Bullsh*t! A man who can't take care of his own @#$ better go back to his mother's house because I did not bring anyone into this world. My responsibilities are my own children and not another woman's grown up, old piece of ......
To conlude, [EMAIL PROTECTED], I am a very happy woman. I am not lonely and I am not miserable. I live my life the way I want to. I go whenever I want, come back to my own damn mansion whenever I please, I spend my money however I want to, but most important, I have absolute mental freedom. This include freedom to hangout with the mail man any time I want. I express myself very eloquently without beating around the bush becuase I don't give a damn about my culture nor what men think of me becuase I don't need them, men, for anything. I got my sexual freedom and my own money and that is all that matters to me. I AM A LOT HAPPIER THAN MANY HOUSEWIVES; especially those who are financially dependent on their husbands.
I need only one thing from men and I don't need to get married and go through all that bullsh*t in order to get it. The mail man delivers mail at least twice a week. If want to have a baby, all agotta do is take my money from the bank to the bank.
I will get married when the advantages outweighs the disadvantages. For now, to hell with marriage.
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Anyomokolo wrote: Damn! This was too good. I make sense when in the mood to express my disgust with this dominant culture of marriage. This piece flowed so well until I realized that I mispelled out ways. That just messed up the whole piece. But oh well, you get the point.
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
<they can race head to head with men are the once who find themselves singled out and "single Independent women". the truth is they are not independent, they just think they can ride men much as well as men can ride them, you know what i mean. As a matter of fact these women are very lonely and insecure, they would be crying all night and pretend to be smiling in the day. Studies show that such women do not live normally all their lives or rather sadly die young. To summarise my points, being a house wife is not slavery but part of actively trying to satisfy the meaning of this notorious word so called 'LOVE.">>
Let me respond to you by 'speaking' for myself. I am a single and educated woman. I don't have any kids. I am sexually, biologically, mentally and emotionally very fit. I am young, I work every day, I can cook for myself, I wash my own clothes and clean my own house. I make enough money to take care of three children by myself and still live large.
Why in the world, in my right head, for God's sake, would I want to get married and lose my freedom to the kitchen where I would be confined to between four walls laboring myself like a horse to make a man, my husband, happy? A total stranger for that matter! Are you crazy?
Let me mentioned that I was raised to believe that this culture of marriage, is the best way of life for me as a woman. I never asked "HOW" or "WHY" until three years ago. I refused to follow a culture that suppresses my freedom in exchange for a man's best interest. Why should I dedicate my life to caring for another woman's child? Becuase he is my husband? 'Flip' that! I would rather die without having a husband.
A man who is old enough to be the 'head of the house' should get his lazy behind out of bed and cook his own damn food, and wash his own 'flipping' clothes. If he is strong enough to have an erection and have sex every day, he should be storng enough to do all the house work every day. How can a grown man be 'head of the house' when he can't do anything around the house? Please!
Like I said, I was not raised this way. I was raised in an African home with very strong Luo/African culture. But three years ago, I examined this culture of marriage and realized that it serves me, a woman, no purpose in this world.
Someone need to explain to me why I should lose my freedom by getting married. That is not all! On top of losing my freedom, I become a sex slaves to a man who could probably become so boring after just one or two years. That is not all! I would labor everyday like a horse; cooking, cleaning and all that. That is not all! On top of all that, this man would be controlling me, telling what to do and yet he wants me to care for him sexually, emotionally, physically and what not, as if he were my own child! Bullsh*t! A man who can't take care of his own @#$ better go back to his mother's house because I did not bring anyone into this world. My responsibilities are my own children and not another woman's grown up, old piece of ......
To conlude, [EMAIL PROTECTED], I am a very happy woman. I am not lonely and I am not miserable. I live my life the way I want to. I go whenever I want, come back to my own damn mansion whenever I please, I spend my money however I want to, but most important, I have absolute mental freedom. This include freedom to hangout with the mail man any time I want. I express myself very eloquently without beating around the bush becuase I don't give a damn about my culture nor what men think of me becuase I don't need them, men, for anything. I got my sexual freedom and my own money and that is all that matters to me. I AM A LOT HAPPIER THAN MANY HOUSEWIVES; especially those who are financially dependent on their husbands.
I need only one thing from men and I don't need to get married and go through all that bullsh*t in order to get it. The mail man delivers mail at least twice a week. If want to have a baby, all agotta do is take my money from the bank to the bank.
I will get married when the advantages outweighs the disadvantages. For now, to hell with marriage.
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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