From: "Dan Myers" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "KAREN ALLEN" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
CC: [email protected]
Subject: No Blame-- responsibilty!
Date: Thu, 15 Mar 2007 14:59:33 -0400

Dear Karen,
...
I'm sorry you don't agree with me, Karen, and I do not want to get violent
with you (considering the tone of your voice implies that you do).

Dan Myers

I'm sorry you don't agree with me, Karen, and I do not want to get violent with you (considering the tone of your voice implies that you do). Hope we can all still get along,

Dan Myers

Dan,

I am very quick to come down on those who make ad hominem attacks when they are confronted with an idea that they cannot otherwise intellegently debate, so I am especially careful to not make anything personal when I write. You will notice that nothing I said in my earlier post was directed to you personally. I quoted your post, but I did not address my response specifically to you. I did not address you by name, as you have me. I used the third person, and I spoke to the idea presented, not to the person making it. I deleted your e-mail address in my original response, and in this response, so that my response would go only to the listsserv.

In light of the fact that my response was directed only at the ideas you expressed, and after re-reading what I wrote, I am hard pressed to see how what I wrote warrants your accusation that I "want to get violent with you". You are the person introducing that idea to this discussion. Apart from reading your posts, I have met you only once, and I can assure you that I have no desire to get "violent" with you or anyone else.

I'm sorry that you didn't like what I said. Writing in an open forum always runs a risk of getting a response that isn't liked. But dislike on the part of the reader is not the same as aggression on the part of the writer.

Karen Allen


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