There's nothing wrong with kids being kids.
 
And if you had said specifically that you didn't see a reason for children to 
be in an establishment that PRIMARILY served alcohol, I wouldn't have disagreed 
with you and neither would, I suspect, most of the others who called you out on 
this.
 
But, what you said was "I do not know WHY anyone would bring children to an 
establishment that sold beer, wine or spirits." and then proceeded to make it 
clear that there was never anything but milk or water served in your household 
when you were a child.

Perhaps you need to be a bit less absolutist in expressing some of your 
opinions.
 
Kathleen

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From: Wilma de Soto [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Fri 7/27/2007 6:10 PM
To: Turner,Kathleen; [EMAIL PROTECTED]; [EMAIL PROTECTED]; UnivCity listserv
Subject: Re: [UC] Dock Street "Before" party [was: Break My Routine and Smack 
Me Upside the Head]


No.  I am not speaking of family weddings, cookouts, and sports, I was 
commenting on the Dock Street Party.

If one takes a child to a restaurant where there's tables. etc. away from the 
bar and a child's menu, I would not have a problem with that.

I still feel if it's a drinking party opening, kids should not go.

Still, little children shouldn't be allowed everywhere and hear and see 
everything their parents do.  What's wrong with that?  Why can't they be kids?


On 7/27/07 5:07 PM, "Turner,Kathleen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:



        Wilma, while I might agree that the Dock Street party (advertised as 
for 21 and over only) would not have been a child-friendly event, are you 
actually saying that children should never be taken to any restaurant where 
alcohol is served?  (So that pretty much leaves Taco Bell . . .)
        
        And that I'm causing serious harm to my children if I have a glass of 
wine with dinner?  Or they attend a baseball game where beer is served? Or a 
family wedding or celebration?
        
        I think you need a reality check on this one.
        
        Kathleen
        
         
        
        
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        From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Wilma de 
Soto
        Sent: Friday, July 27, 2007 4:58 PM
        To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; [EMAIL PROTECTED]; UnivCity listserv
        Subject: Re: [UC] Dock Street "Before" party [was: Break My Routine and 
Smack Me Upside the Head]
        
        I do not know WHY anyone would bring children to an establishment that 
sold beer, wine or spirits.
        
        Thinking back to my own childhood, we did not even have SODA at the 
dinner table unless it was a special occasion, such as a party or picnic.
        
        Milk or water was all there was to it at table for us.
        
        My Papi would have his Lodge Brothers for Pinochle Night and Mami would 
cook for them.
        
        There were drinks, food etc. but we were NEVER allowed to be there when 
the "grown-ups" stayed up late.
        
        I cannot imagine children being welcome or encouraged to be at such an 
event, even though it was just a preliminary event.
        
        A beer and pizza house is not, in my opinion, appropriate for kids. 
        
        Forgive me Bruce and Melani, but that's how I feel.  If you brought 
your kids there while you were having a few brews and pizza, I should think the 
kids would let you know by complaining about being there, even though there was 
pizza.
        
        
        On 7/27/07 10:36 AM, "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
        
        

                
                In a message  dated 7/27/07 10:28:51 AM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
writes:
                Now that I've  had an opportunity to look at the picture I 
remember what that event was. I'm  still frosted that after asking for 
community support to get them in the  building, the welcome party was tailored 
only to people who could drink beer  at 5 in the afternoon ( i.e. not family  
friendly).
                  
                 Hope the beer was good  ...
                
                
                Bruce, there were plenty of kids there, and I think there were  
nonalcoholic drinks too.   There was something other than beer; I  didn't get 
anything to drink, so I forget what.   I'm not a beer  drinker, but I enjoyed 
the event.   They hadn't even begun to turn  the building into a restaurant, so 
they had no kitchen and couldn't serve  much!   It was a standing event, not 
sit down at tables.    Your kids would have been welcome, but it was crowded, 
so they  might not have enjoyed it.   And it wasn't only at 5 p.m.; it went  on 
for a couple of hours.
                
                Melani
                
                
                
                
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                Philadelphia, PA  19104
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