Gengsian: Lamun aya jalma dahar di nu hajatan, nyokot sangu saeutik, didahar tapi teu dibeakeun. eta jalma gengsian. lamun aya jalma penghasilana ngan 1 jt/bulan, tapi make HP comunicator bari ngeusian pulsa ngan kuat 10 rb, eta jalma gengsian. lamun aya jalma di imah dahar jeung beuleum asin, tapi ka babaturan so nraktir, eta jalma gengsian.
Aya deui anu kaasup gengsi teh jalma anu ngalakukeun hal anu "memang umumna kitu". misalna, umumna jalma lamun gawe di gedung bertingkat di kawasan sentra bisnis, lamun sarapan tangtu ngopi di StarBucks. Sanajan eta jalma pangkatna ngan ukur resepsionis, tapi ku sabab digawe di gedung bertingkat, atuh gengsi lamun sarapan bubur ayam dina gerobak. ngabelaan gengsi manehna meuli kopi di StarBucks. Aya deui anu dahar di restoran padang. Teu sampurna lamun manehna teu nginum Es Teh Manis. Padahalmah dikantor tempat gawena aya dapur, manehna bisa nyieun sorangan Es Teh Manis atawa nitah OB. tapi manehna ngarasa gengsi lamun dahar, nginumna cai herang. Pendekna, gengsian teh lamun manehna resep make "kedok", akal sehatna jarang dipake, hayang katangar leuwih tina kamampuhan sabenerna. Sapanjang manehna teu bisa ngukur ka kujur, ngabelaan "harga diri" (harga diri didieu = gengsi). maka manehna moal eureun "memperhebat" dirina. Atawa usaha satekah polah supaya katingali "hebat". Anu ahirna manehna beuki jauh kasered ku arus gaya hirup anu nyilakakeun. H Surtiwa wrote: > > Nah..kumaha mun aya nu naros..."Ari saleresna gengsi teh naon sih ?" > Aya gunana teu ? > > On 12/2/08, *irpan* <[EMAIL PROTECTED] > <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>> wrote: > > Netta, kapi naon ka Raja Fahd di arab he..he..he.. > > bener pisan, carana urang ngabendung pangbibita modernitas teh > nyaeta ku pengendalian diri. > tapi pengendalian diri teh anu siga kumaha? > siga kumaha? > > ceuk kuring mah, aya hiji konci penting : "Ulah Gengsian". > > insya allah lamun urang geus teu gengsian, moal milu tilelep kana > pusaran arus modernitas. > > > netta fahad wrote: > >> >> modernitas, di satu sisi nawarkeun hirup nu leuwih "mudah" jeung >> "nyaman".ku ayana barang berteknologi, hirup manusa bisa leuwih >> dibebenjokeun, cenah eta ge..... >> tapi di sisi lain modernitas pinuh ku pangbibita, bisa jadi pada >> akhirna hirup urang malah jadi "teu nyaman" jeung "teu mudah". >> "teu nyaman" da hirup kudu kerja keras,tepi ka "tihothat", dina >> enggoning menangkeun "pangbibita" modernitas eta tea. >> >> modernitas...pada akhirna, nungtut suatu pengendalian >> diri....pengendalian diri tina kahayang ngaraih sagala modernitas >> eta sorangan.... >> modernitas mere pilihan, jeung sabenerna teu maksa sakabeh jalma >> jang meunangkeun manehna, si modernitas eta >> modernitas ngan mere password atau kata kunci...."kerja keras", >> profesional", "kreativitas", dan "disiplin", mun hayang >> ilubiung, menyicipi nikmatna modernitas nu identik jeung >> "kemapanan" atawa "kecanggihan" pake kata kunci eta.. >> hmmm....keras oge hirup di dunia modern ieu teh geuning... >> >> >> >> >> >> Messages in this topic >> >> <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/message/135816;_ylc=X3oDMTM4Y2IzcDFjBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BG1zZ0lkAzEzNTgxNgRzZWMDZnRyBHNsawN2dHBjBHN0aW1lAzEyMjgxOTIwMTgEdHBjSWQDMTM1ODE2> >> (1) Reply (via web post) >> >> <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/post;_ylc=X3oDMTJybGY4MzByBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BG1zZ0lkAzEzNTgxNgRzZWMDZnRyBHNsawNycGx5BHN0aW1lAzEyMjgxOTIwMTg-?act=reply&messageNum=135816> >> | Start a new topic >> >> <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/post;_ylc=X3oDMTJlZnN0NWNuBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BHNlYwNmdHIEc2xrA250cGMEc3RpbWUDMTIyODE5MjAxOA--> >> >> MARKETPLACE >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> From kitchen basics to easy recipes - join the Group from Kraft >> Foods >> >> <http://us.ard.yahoo.com/SIG=13rpjmtd2/M=493064.12016295.13271503.10835568/D=groups/S=1705013556:MKP1/Y=YAHOO/EXP=1228199219/L=/B=ndaFHELaX9A-/J=1228192019180507/A=5530388/R=0/SIG=11nuutlas/*http://explore.yahoo.com/groups/kraftmealsmadesimple/> >> > > > > Messages in this topic > <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/message/135816;_ylc=X3oDMTM4N3NrdjV2BF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BG1zZ0lkAzEzNTg0NgRzZWMDZnRyBHNsawN2dHBjBHN0aW1lAzEyMjgyNjIyNDcEdHBjSWQDMTM1ODE2> > > (4) Reply (via web post) > <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/post;_ylc=X3oDMTJydTUybnVwBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BG1zZ0lkAzEzNTg0NgRzZWMDZnRyBHNsawNycGx5BHN0aW1lAzEyMjgyNjIyNDc-?act=reply&messageNum=135846> > > | Start a new topic > <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/post;_ylc=X3oDMTJlaWFwMWZpBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BHNlYwNmdHIEc2xrA250cGMEc3RpbWUDMTIyODI2MjI0Nw--> > > > Messages > <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/messages;_ylc=X3oDMTJlcTBxN2wyBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BHNlYwNmdHIEc2xrA21zZ3MEc3RpbWUDMTIyODI2MjI0Nw--> > > | Files > <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/files;_ylc=X3oDMTJmOWhycHJmBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BHNlYwNmdHIEc2xrA2ZpbGVzBHN0aW1lAzEyMjgyNjIyNDc-> > > | Photos > <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/photos;_ylc=X3oDMTJlbnI3ajNlBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BHNlYwNmdHIEc2xrA3Bob3QEc3RpbWUDMTIyODI2MjI0Nw--> > > | Calendar > <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/urangsunda/calendar;_ylc=X3oDMTJkMWR0bWY2BF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzE4NjIwNTYEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDEzNTU2BHNlYwNmdHIEc2xrA2NhbARzdGltZQMxMjI4MjYyMjQ3> > > > Komunitas Urang Sunda --> http://www.Urang-Sunda.or.id > MARKETPLACE > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > From kitchen basics to easy recipes - join the Group from Kraft Foods > <http://us.ard.yahoo.com/SIG=13rkduvnp/M=493064.12016295.13271503.10835568/D=groups/S=1705013556:MKP1/Y=YAHOO/EXP=1228269447/L=/B=gn4KH0LaX.A-/J=1228262247872561/A=5530388/R=0/SIG=11nuutlas/*http://explore.yahoo.com/groups/kraftmealsmadesimple/> > > > Yahoo! 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