Have you checked that under notifications messages are on with sounds, and badges etc? Under sounds have you assigned a sound? Make sure you have a sound there Then in your contacts, you can assign a sound different than what is under the main sound setting. HTH
Richard "Reality is the leading cause of stress for those who are in touch with it." -- from The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe, by Jane Wagner On Dec 1, 2019, at 8:28 PM, Agent086b <agent0...@internode.on.net> wrote: Hi, this is the problem there are no sounds at all for messages and the don’t show up as an alert . Interesting on the Mac everything works as it should, but not on either phone. Max. On 2 Dec 2019, at 1:11 pm, Wayne Scott <waynedscot...@gmail.com<mailto:waynedscot...@gmail.com>> wrote: My wif and I have our own text tones for each other. If I hear that certain tone, I know it's her. Same with ringtones. Wayne Scott "Everything happens in God's chime." On Dec 1, 2019, at 6:22 PM, KliphnShari Miller <kliphnsh...@gmail.com<mailto:kliphnsh...@gmail.com>> wrote: You could do like my wife and I do, we use the same Apple ID, but have created alias’s to separate iMessages. On Dec 1, 2019, at 3:53 PM, Agent086b <agent0...@internode.on.net<mailto:agent0...@internode.on.net>> wrote: Thanks, I still have the same text tone as in the past. We have been doing this the same way for years. Max. On 2 Dec 2019, at 8:11 am, Richard Turner <richardturne...@outlook.com<mailto:richardturne...@outlook.com>> wrote: If you are both using the same ID, then it will be like sending messages to yourself. Try setting up a unique text tone in your contacts for your wife and see if that helps. My wife and I do not share an Apple ID so I can only guess. Richard "Reality is the leading cause of stress for those who are in touch with it." -- from The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe, by Jane Wagner On Dec 1, 2019, at 1:03 PM, Agent086b <agent0...@internode.on.net<mailto:agent0...@internode.on.net>> wrote: Hi all, ever since my wife and I have had iPhones we have never had any problems sending iMessages to one and another. 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