Hi

I suggest going to Settings, Messages & select your phone number & any email 
address that is NOT the shared iTunes log-in, leaving the iTunes log-in email 
unselected, to send & receive messages from your wife, friends & family. This 
should solve your problem. 

Donna 
> 
> Hi,
> yes notifications are on for messages. I get notifications for any message 
> except from my wife. Somehow it must be a phone problem because as I said in 
> an earlier message all works correctly receiving messages on my Mac.
> Thanks for the suggestion.
> Max.
> 
>> On 2 Dec 2019, at 3:41 pm, Richard Turner <[email protected]> 
>> wrote:
>> 
>> Have you checked that under notifications messages are on with sounds, and 
>> badges etc?
>> Under sounds have you assigned a sound?
>> Make sure you have a sound there
>> Then in your contacts, you can assign a sound different than what is under 
>> the main sound setting.
>> HTH
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Richard
>> "Reality is the leading cause of stress for those who are in touch with it." 
>> -- from The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe, by Jane 
>> Wagner
>> 
>> 
>>> On Dec 1, 2019, at 8:28 PM, Agent086b <[email protected]> wrote:
>>> 
>>>  Hi,
>>> this is the problem there are no sounds at all for messages and the don’t 
>>> show up as an alert
>>> . Interesting on the Mac everything works as it should, but not on either 
>>> phone.
>>> Max.
>>> 
>>>> On 2 Dec 2019, at 1:11 pm, Wayne Scott <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>> 
>>>> My wif
>>>> and I have our own text tones for each other. If I hear that certain tone, 
>>>> I know it's her. Same with ringtones. 
>>>> 
>>>> Wayne Scott 
>>>> 
>>>> "Everything happens in God's chime." 
>>>>  
>>>> 
>>>>> On Dec 1, 2019, at 6:22 PM, KliphnShari Miller <[email protected]> 
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>> 
>>>>> You could do like my wife and I do, we use the same Apple ID, but have 
>>>>> created alias’s to separate iMessages.
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>>> On Dec 1, 2019, at 3:53 PM, Agent086b <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Thanks, I still have the same text tone as in the past. We have been 
>>>>>> doing this the same way for years.
>>>>>> Max.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> On 2 Dec 2019, at 8:11 am, Richard Turner <[email protected]> 
>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> If you are both using the same ID, then it will be like sending 
>>>>>>> messages to yourself.
>>>>>>> Try setting up a unique text tone in your contacts for your wife and 
>>>>>>> see if that helps.
>>>>>>> My wife and I do not share an Apple ID so I can only guess.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Richard
>>>>>>> "Reality is the leading cause of stress for those who are in touch with 
>>>>>>> it." 
>>>>>>> -- from The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe, by 
>>>>>>> Jane Wagner
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> On Dec 1, 2019, at 1:03 PM, Agent086b <[email protected]> 
>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> Hi all,
>>>>>>>> ever since my wife and I have had iPhones we have never had any 
>>>>>>>> problems sending iMessages to one and another. We have always used the 
>>>>>>>> one Apple ID  for iMessage etc.
>>>>>>>> The last few days when sending messages neither of us get any 
>>>>>>>> notification the other has sent a message. I can see the message that 
>>>>>>>> my wife has sent but it shows my name instead of hers. We get 
>>>>>>>> notifications when other messages are received including iMessages.
>>>>>>>> Something must have been changed somewhere or other. In iCloud 
>>>>>>>> settings both numbers are listed able to receive iMessages.   
>>>>>>>> Please can anybody help with this one? I don’t wish to ignore my wife 
>>>>>>>> when she sends a message!
>>>>>>>> Max.
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