Re: [wc] Re: Poll

Tue, 01 Aug 2006 19:12:05 -0700

Ok let's add another variable to this...AGE
Ellen, if you don't mind, how old are you?
See when I was in my late teens and early 20s I felt totally ok with spending the night with the other sex and it could be totally platonic. Now at 32 (married and 32).... there is no way I could do that. I don't think it is the marriage thing but I could be wrong.
Could it be that once we "Grow up" we realize that we might be sending the wrong signals? Or do we not trust ourselves enough?
 
On 8/1/06, Ellen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

I'm sorry, I still stand my original statement that I can't share a
bed with a member of the opposite sex that I'm not dating. I don't
think I'm alone in this, but obviously if I'm not spending the evening
with my SO, traveling or otherwise than I must be alone by definition.

--- In [email protected], "hermespal" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>


wrote:
>
> I think you've hit it on the head. It's a matter of expressing intent
> if one is trying to move things to another level. I've slept in the
> same bed with male friends where there was nothing sexual about it.
> Hell, we even spooned. But it was just platonic love/affection. Or, as
> one of them put it before gathering me in his arms, "it's just
> horizontal hugging--we do it vertically, so what the hell, c'mere.
> Sweet dreams."
>
> --- In [email protected], "dvm8375" <muellerdana@>
> wrote:
> >
> > I just don't think it's that black and white. Haven't you ever
> > shared a hotel room platonically? What, are you people made out of
> > money? I have definitely shared rooms, and even beds, with friends
> > of both sexes to reduce vacation costs. I don't think it would be
> > weird for coworkers, that are long-time friends, that have NEVER had
> > a romantic/sexual involvement to travel together and share a room
> > and not have sex. Now if it's the guy's (or girl's) intention to
> > move things to a new level, he (or she) should make that clear
> > before asking for a travel buddy.
> >
> >
> > --
>


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