-------- Original-Message --------
> Date: Wed, 10 Oct 2007 10:37:08 -0500 (CDT)
> From: elw at stderr.org
> To: Martin Bochnig <mb1x at gmx.com>
> CC: xwin-discuss at opensolaris.org
> Subject: Re: [xwin-discuss] Will be syncing the apps diffs

> 
> >> Actually, you are being quite rude - go take a walk in the park or 
> >> something to cool off and calm down.
> >
> > This is equally rude. And it hurts, after all those months, full of 
> > sleepness hungry nights. Thank you, Alan.
> 
> 
> MARTIN.!?!?!!!!!!!!  Cool down.  I suggest not posting to lists unless 
> you've had a minimum of 8 hours of sleep, sometime in the last 24 hours.
> 
> Please?
> 
> I've tried, repeatedly, to have you see that your reactions are not 
> appropriate, and to try to help smooth over the slightly crazy sounding 
> rants that you post to lists.
> 
> If this sort of behavior is going to continue, there are likely to be 
> consequences from others.


Aha, what?

 
> Alan is right.  You need to take a walk, chill out, and drink a beer or 
> something.  Posting nasty, reactionary, flame-ful stuff *directed at 
> people who are just trying to do their jobs* **IS NOT HELPFUL DISCOURSE**.

Is your message a worthwhile contribution?
If that personal stuff is #0.) so hurting and #1.) that much OT, why did you 
keep xwin-discuss in CC: ???


> Have you considered finding a mental health expert to help you achieve 
> balance in your life?  Right now, you admit that you don't have it - and 
> the effects of that are extremely destructive to others, their attitudes, 
> and their emotional well-being.
> 
> Please... take a break.
> 
> --elijah


The imbalance is there, absolutely.
But it is an experienced (material/financial/career/privileges/my_body's_health 
- related) imbalance, a real - physical - one. One that is all around me (as 
explained again and again). Rather than a "felt" imaginary one.
The very fact that I have problems with just accepting those limitations shows, 
how "normal" or "mentally healthy" I am.

If I do have a mental illness, then it is, that I have FOX'ed. For free, with 
costs and bills all over the place, for folks who then suggest I was insane.

How would you cope with my situation?
You had stopped months before, or never started it.
I'm different in that aspect.
I'm a visionary. And a perfectionist at that. It tends to be hard for people 
like me (see history books).


%martin

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