Yayyyyy!! At last, somebody had finally pointed this out. Thank you Steve! When I was in my 20s, I dated a highly-driven career-type woman who was frustrated with me to no end because I couldn't answer the..... ...'Mel, I just want a straight answer: where do you see yourself in 5 years time?'..... Unfortunately, my dualistic 'small self' just couldn't allow myself to tell her.... ...'Signora, I do have some idea of where I'm headed, but more importantly, I'm more concerned on a moment-by-moment basis'.... ...which would have probably been replied to by..... ....'Mel, are you nuts!? You live on a day-by-day basis?'... As I said folks, I was dualistic during the whole date. Hey, I was trying to impress her, no?...*grin*... Buddha be praised Mel
PS. Because this forum's messages are open to the dualistic public, this sense of relief will certainly be misunderstood, instead of otherwise. Zen is Zen is Zen is Zen.......... --- On Tue, 8/3/11, SteveW <[email protected]> wrote: Zen people are an aimless, useless lot, going nowhere and doing nothing! Steve
