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.research other societies.. .not all of them are male dominated. .some societies have equal rights for both males and females.... please explain your statement about aborigines... merle Dear Maria, >From your post: This problem was not triggered by porn - but by a mind that was sick and confuse and he felt bigger and powerful to be the ring leader and the poor idiots that follow him believing their leader was a good leader. My opinion is that it is the woman who can do anything to change this atmosphere/ change society. Which means women is the reason for this catastrophe. Sometimes back there were two Tamil movies which portray violence against women. Those movies are Kamalhasan’s “Aalavandan”. ( I have no idea of Hindi version title). In that it was shown how a small boy was ill treated by her step mother, which psychology affected him to do crime against women. Another movie is “Manmathan” by Simbu. There it is shown how a girl cheated an innocent boy in the name of love, which angered his elder brother and he kills all women who cheats their husband or boyfriend. A rape is violence; it is not an act of indulgent in sex. If one is addict to sex, either he will go to prostitutes or masturbate or seduce other women or men for sexual appetite. A lustful man cannot rape. Because men know more pleasure is derived only when partner is co-operating. So a rape is performed by those who are wounded by woman. To feel power over them to feel a win over them man rape woman. I think before we hang those who are guilty, we need to do psychological analysis by well experienced doctors to know the real reason for their cruel conduct. Culture is actually the invention of women. If men are allowed to be himself, we would have been same as aborigines. Because women need protection during their pregnancy and bringing up of the child, so the system of marriage was invented. If women break her own creation of this system, then all these catastrophe will happen. Since women created this system of marriage, men are played all kind of drama to dominate them. That drama is religion and its belief system. Even though in Hinduism we show shiva and parvati in the same body half-half, we don’t allow women to read vedas or perform any religious rituals or allow them to perform as priest in a temple. It is all a counter attack by men on women. If women and men to live peacefully, then all these old creation to be abolished. That is marriage system and religion. If these are not there we won’t fall back, but there will be new understanding will evolve, which is violence free. Think over this on New Year. Best wishes Suresh -- Thanks and best regards J.Suresh New No.3, Old No.7, Chamiers road - 1st Lane, Alwarpet, Chennai - 600018 Ph: 044 42030947 Mobile: 91 9884071738 ------------------------------------ Current Book Discussion: any Zen book that you recently have read or are reading! Talk about it today!Yahoo! Groups Links http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
