Dear Jusan-san,

In the real world people have to deal with real things. In the real 
world people not only call names, sometimes they are just mean. You are 
a former cop you of all people should know this. You may be becoming a 
Monk because you think that there is no violence there. I know you know 
it is not that there is no crap there. There is some crap here.

One thing I have always respected about you is that you do not pretend.

Hojo-san has taught you to serve.

It is not serving to say "quit crapping". Shit happens. It is serving to 
clean it up, and take it to the garden, and use the fertilizer as 
productively as possible.

How about you quit bitching and start hauling shit to turn it into 
fertilizer for a productive discussion? In case you have not noted, this 
is what Al has done with his crap. I do not pretend I do not have any 
crap, and I know you well enough to know you have crap too. Our practice 
as Monks is to serve. It is our practice to acknowledge the crap and 
carry it to the garden and put it to use.

It is not the practice of a Zen Monk to pretend crap should not or does 
not exist. This is not serving, and "not serving is no help".

Be Well

Fudo (your elder brother)







Jusan (KC) wrote:
> I have been reading this list for about a month now.
> 
> Do people really have to call each other names. I find it very difficult 
> to read the "message" when blasted by name calling.
> 



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