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[donna nutt]

I just read and accidentally deleted an interesting post in response to a 
post made by Clay Blackwell.  I didn't get the name of the responder, 
unfortunately, but I was so relieved to see these two messages.  Email is 
such an imperfect medium of communication.  We save time by using fewer 
words than we'd use in conversation, we can't see the poster's facial 
expression or hear their tone of voice.  I must say the responses to Dora 
Smith have truly intimidated me.  I imagine this will be one of very few 
posts I'll ever make on this board because I figure I'll be misunderstood by 
someone and get deluged with critical emails and postings.  I'm sure Dora 
was trying to be caring and trying to show her concern but sometimes 
messages just don't come across that way in email.  This is a highly 
charged, emotional situation and tearing Dora apart because we 
misinterpreted her response is not gonna help the victims of this horrible 
deed or the families of victims.  Can't we just give people the benefit of 
the doubt?  I know I'm heartsick thinking of the individuals involved and 
what they're going through but I think flaming Dora just adds to the level 
of intolerance in the world.
donna 

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