Helen - I tend to agree - I see many babies who have been 'diagnosed'with 
reflux - I heard a paed speak ( sorry cant remember his name) who said it was 
more to do with anxiety/ lack of attunement than a 'stomach' condition -I 
wouldnt blame parents though as anyone with an unsettled baby would be anxious/ 
vicious cycle. I have though seen babies settle "miraculously' after a little 
work with parents - teaching baby massage is a very non-intrusive/ non 
"blaming" way to help parents become confident at attuning with baby non-verbal 
cues and thus responding appropriately; also if they do a few tangible things 
like positioning babies - ie head elevated - I show a lovely position with a 
pillow between parents bent legs( feet together, knees open, with pillow 
resting on parents feet), baby facing parent, so baby and parent make good eye 
contact - babies seem to stop grizzling straight away - and colic holds ; 
'colic' massage -I too am a bit sceptical about all the 'wind' that seems to be 
around; plus a few changes to mums diet ( wonder if some of this is allergies/ 
food sensitivity - mums tend to fill up on chocolate when they feel stressed 
with unsettled bubs) and within days babies are much better.

perhaps having a label takes away the blame aspect that parents are doing 
something wrong - I also see babies for whom meds make no difference - eg one 
this week diagnosed with 'reflux' -I suggested a really good paediatric chiro 
locally - bub had been breech ( vag birth) and turned out he had a shoulder  
dislocated - mum also eating loads of dairy. Bub was much calmer after his 
shoulder was fixed, relaxed and took a full massage that afternoon - the 
previous session he cried so much he couldnt be massaged at all.

I wonder if the 'overdiagnosis' of reflux is a treatment of symptoms not a look 
at what could be causing the crying and /or vomiting.

Pinky
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Helen and Graham 
  To: ozmidwifery 
  Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 9:22 AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


  Just found this article whilst surfing the net.  I feel anecdotally that both 
reflux and colic are overdiagnosed.  I am a midwife but not a MCH nurse.  If it 
is so common maybe it IS a normal variation......what do you think about it?  
It just seems to me that some people aren't happy until they have a label and a 
medicine to treat it with when they have an "unsettled" baby.  Maybe I am being 
too simplistic about this subject.  

  Interested in the thoughts of some of our online listers.

  Helen

  http://www.bubhub.com.au/newsletterdec0601.shtml

        Reflux is so common it is almost seen as 'normal', or even trivial, and 
most people just don't understand how difficult life can be for many families, 
or understand the impact reflux can have on their lives! They may think of it 
erroneously as 'just a bit of vomiting', or 'just a behavioural issue'. They 
don't see how it impacts on the child's eating, sleeping, growth, behaviour or 
quality of life; or on the family's quality of life, relationships between 
partners, siblings or other children; finances; and even leisure time. The 
truth is, only families who have experienced it for themselves really 
understand.

        Many families:


          a.. Have difficulty getting people to believe just how bad the 
vomiting and/or the screaming really are

          b.. receive conflicting and confusing advice

          c.. become socially isolated

          d.. feel like failures as parents

          e.. have family and friends who just didn't understand

         

  Even when a baby is suffering from relatively uncomplicated reflux, families 
often need reassurance, and enjoy talking to someone who understands. For the 
families whose infants suffer complications, it is even more important that 
they can talk to other parents, and have the support, reassurance and 
understanding they need to get through this stressful experience

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