g_b (unknown)

2014-11-23 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
An interesting article from the excellent online news magazine Scroll.in on how 
children's and young adult books in India are starting to include lgbt 
characters:


Gay characters, single-parent families: Books for Indian kids begin to reflect 
real life




Gay characters, single-parent families: Books for Indian...
The narrative is broadening. Issues like sexuality and class are getting 
reflected in children's books.
View on scroll.in Preview by Yahoo



This follows a trend from around the world. LGBT characters started appearing 
in children's and young adult (YA) books sometime back. It includes some real 
classics like the short story Am I Blue (link below, and well worth reading) 
and some really good novels like Stephen Chbosky's The Perks of Being a 
Wallflower (which really shows how these classifications like YA and so on are 
pointless, since this is a good novel by any standards or classifications).


For a while many of these kids and YA books were, as they are in India today, a 
niche genre which, ironically, only became well known outside the LGBT 
community when homophobes found out of them and started screaming about 
'indoctrination' of kids and trying to ban these books from school libraries. 
Some of these quite innocuous books feature on the lists of most banned books!


But in a sign of how much things are changing, lgbt characters are cropping up 
in mainstream childrens and YA books, and these are much harder for the 
homophobes to ban. One of the best examples is Rick Riordan's phenomenally 
successful Percy Jackson series. In the current Percy Jackson and the Heroes of 
Olympus series it was revealed in the second last book, The House of Hades, 
which released last year, that a key character, who had been part of the first 
series Percy Jackson and the Olympians had come out as gay or, at least 
admitting to same sex attraction.


This caused lots of homophobic parents to start screaming about inappropriate 
themes, which simply and happily showed up their dilemma - they were letting 
their kids read this series thinking there was and would be nothing gay in it, 
and now they either had to let them continue or ban them, and good luck with 
that. Riordan himself released an extremely robust and common sense statement 
that firmly refuted allegations of inappropriateness. It is worth reading the 
relevant parts which don't reveal the name of the character, but if you click 
on the link you'll get his FAQs which do reveal the character's name (this is 
in case there are any Riordan fans here who haven't read House of Hades, which 
I realise is unlikely, but you never know!):


http://www.rickriordan.com/about-rick/faq.aspx (the answer is in the only FAQ 
with a SPOILER alert)




I’ve been lucky enough to teach all sorts of students –
fifth grade to twelfth grade, rich and poor, from numerous ethnic backgrounds,
with diverse religious traditions and a variety of learning differences. I’ve
also taught gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender students. Some
self-identified as early as elementary school. Some came to terms with their
sexual orientation later in high school. Most had a hard time during the middle
grades, which are tough years for any child. All my middle school
students enriched my classroom. They made me a better teacher and a better
writer for children, and they all deserve my support.

I am committed to writing appropriate books for the
middle grades. This means no bad language, no gratuitous or explicit violence,
and no sexual content beyond what you might find in a PG-rated movie –
expressions of who likes whom, holding hands, and perhaps the occasional kiss.
The idea that we should treat sexual orientation itself as an adults-only
topic, however, is absurd. Non-heterosexual children exist. To pretend they do
not, to fail to recognize that they have needs for support and validation like
any child, would be bad teaching, bad writing, and bad citizenship.




There's also the Kevin Keller series from Archies comics. Again, a gay 
character was introduced into a series so mainstream and familiar that its hard 
for parents to stop their kids reading them. Remarkably, as this Salon article 
points out, Kevin is just one element in a remarkable reinvention of the 
Archies series:


How “Archie” went from dull to daring: The world’s tamest comic series is now 
our most groundbreaking




How “Archie” went from dull to daring: The world’s tames...
Archie used to be the safest, squarest comic book franchise out there. But in 
the past few years, something changed
View on www.salon.com Preview by Yahoo



Rather sadly, the importer of Archies in India - one of their biggest markets - 
doesn't seem to be getting most of these more cutting edge series, but in time 
it will get harder for him to keep out these new Archies comics, and for those 
who want to read them they are anyway available online. I've bought the whole 
Kevin Keller series as e-books and you can probably 

g_b (unknown)

2014-08-24 Thread Richard A Ammon mic...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
Criminalizing gays by misusing anti-gay sex law not acceptable, says Mumbai 
chief of ruling party
The Mumbai chief of India’s ruling party, BJP,
says his party is now against the misuse of section 377 and will raise 

the issue in Parliament
17 August 2014 | By Sylvia Tan


http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/criminalizing-gays-misusing-anti-gay-sex-law-not-acceptable-says-mumbai-chief-ruling-party17

Re: g_b (unknown)

2014-06-05 Thread Hatim Dahodwala hatim.dahodw...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
HI From Mumbai


GOD is GREAT
TRUST IN IT


Hatim




On Thursday, 29 May 2014 12:46 PM, Samir S ss...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay] 
gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com wrote:





 
Hello from Chicago!


On Friday, May 16, 2014 1:46 PM, Nitin Kharpurkar nitinkharpurka...@yahoo.com 
[gay_bombay] gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com wrote:





 
hi



 

Re: g_b (unknown)

2014-05-29 Thread Samir S ss...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
Hello from Chicago!


On Friday, May 16, 2014 1:46 PM, Nitin Kharpurkar nitinkharpurka...@yahoo.com 
[gay_bombay] gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com wrote:





 
hi


g_b (unknown)

2014-05-16 Thread Nitin Kharpurkar nitinkharpurka...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
hi

g_b (unknown)

2014-04-03 Thread Nav Nav
Hi,

Wanted  SQL programmer for MNC with 2 to 3 yrs of experience, preferably with 
ERP domain knowledge and who can join immediately

 

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g_b (unknown)

2014-03-07 Thread Richard A Ammon
Police Violence In India Drives A Gay Couple To The U.S.


Millions of gay Indians suddenly became criminals when the Indian Supreme Court 
restored the country’s sodomy law in December. But the ruling actually helped 
set one couple free.
When the ruling was issued, two men from northwest India had spent
more than six months in an Immigration and Customs Enforcement detention center 
in El Paso, Texas, waiting for a judge to decide on their
petition for asylum. It was a bitter ending to their yearlong journey 
across more than 10 countries to reach the United States. They had left
India after death threats from their family and being targeted for
police abuse because of their sexual orientation, though at the time the law 
criminalizing same-sex relationships was suspended by a lower court ruling. And 
when they finally reached the country that they expected to protect their 
rights, they wound up in a facility that felt exactly
like prison.
The whole experience had felt cruelly backward to the couple, so it
was perhaps fitting that the U.S. released them from detention only when they 
formally became criminals at home.
A U.S. judge granted the pair asylum on Dec. 20 based on their
experience of police abuse and threats from their families to kill them
if they returned. But even now they don’t feel that much safer than when they 
left India, which is why they only agreed to speak to BuzzFeed
under names they chose for themselves, Manoj and Maninder, rather than
their real names

(full story):

http://www.buzzfeed.com/lesterfeder/a-gay-couple-flees-police-violence-in-india-only-to-wind-up


Re: g_b (unknown)

2014-03-06 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
It could be because someone found out and fire walled the sites. Try
going to these sites via any of the hundreds of proxy sites available
online for free...
Best,
Aditya B

On 28/02/2014, pest quest roman2roman2...@yahoo.co.in wrote:


  dear sir,
 i'm unable to open any gay websites like planet romeo, gaydia, ohmojo, from
 my computer since the last several days. the message flashed is' this
 webpage is not available' when i click on the cause for this message, 'error
 103' is displayed.
 all other websites are opening on my computer very easily. can you guide me
 how i can access the gay websites?
 thanks
 prashant






















-Original Message-

  From: pest quest [mailto:roman2roman2002@
  yahoo.co. in]

  Sent: Saturday, July 04, 2009 11:53 AM

  To: moderator@gaybombay
  .in

  Subject: high court judgement



  dear sir,

  i am an ordinary indian citizen, a gay, who realised his
  sexuality after marriage [ or would never have]. the trauma
  of leading a double life  cheating on his wife is not
  what any gay would want. yet, over the years, our
  conditioning [specially because of the criminal angle to
  male to male sex], has made us succumb to pressure 
  marry a girl, thereby ruining the lives of all involved.
  this judgement is a landmark judgement for the society at
  large, because it recognizes the individuality of a human
  being to choose how he wants to live his life in the
  society, without being looked down upon as a criminal.

  i only wish  pray that gays will now have the courage
  to withstand social pressure  say an emphatic NO to
  hetrosexual matrimony, understanding that they have been
  given the freedom to choose by this judgement. gays should
  also remember that now their conscience will never let them
  rest at peace if they still choose to marry, inspite of the
  recognition of their choice by the society.

  i wish to congratulate and thank all those gay activists who
  have suffered the brunt of coming out in the open to take up
  cudgels on behalf of closeted cowards like us -- to make
  india a better place to live in for gays, henceforth.

  prashant

  kanpur










   
   
   
   




   




   
   


   
   
   





-- 
-- 
ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY
Development Sector Consultant
Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India)

Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/

Notice to all recipients:
Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to
be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such
communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya
Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents
respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or
criminal nature.

Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his
agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every
communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered
forward of another communication received by this email account, or a
referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.


g_b (unknown)

2014-03-02 Thread pest quest


 dear sir,
i'm unable to open any gay websites like planet romeo, gaydia, ohmojo, from my 
computer since the last several days. the message flashed is' this webpage is 
not available' when i click on the cause for this message, 'error 103' is 
displayed.
all other websites are opening on my computer very easily. can you guide me how 
i can access the gay websites?
thanks 
prashant


















 



   -Original Message-

 From: pest quest [mailto:roman2roman2002@
 yahoo.co. in]

 Sent: Saturday, July 04, 2009 11:53 AM

 To: moderator@gaybombay
 .in

 Subject: high court judgement



 dear sir,

 i am an ordinary indian citizen, a gay, who realised his
 sexuality after marriage [ or would never have]. the trauma
 of leading a double life  cheating on his wife is not
 what any gay would want. yet, over the years, our
 conditioning [specially because of the criminal angle to
 male to male sex], has made us succumb to pressure 
 marry a girl, thereby ruining the lives of all involved.
 this judgement is a landmark judgement for the society at
 large, because it recognizes the individuality of a human
 being to choose how he wants to live his life in the
 society, without being looked down upon as a criminal.

 i only wish  pray that gays will now have the courage
 to withstand social pressure  say an emphatic NO to
 hetrosexual matrimony, understanding that they have been
 given the freedom to choose by this judgement. gays should
 also remember that now their conscience will never let them
 rest at peace if they still choose to marry, inspite of the
 recognition of their choice by the society.

 i wish to congratulate and thank all those gay activists who
 have suffered the brunt of coming out in the open to take up
 cudgels on behalf of closeted cowards like us -- to make
 india a better place to live in for gays, henceforth.

 prashant

 kanpur



















 














g_b (unknown)

2012-11-21 Thread Maurice Ronet


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g_b (unknown)

2012-02-16 Thread Dee
GB Party at Let's Scream on 18 Feb 12 – It’s a Saturday Nite Party

Located in the commercial heart of South Bombay, Let’s Scream is an uber-cool 
disco famous for its great music and a pulsating sound system that will simply 
blow you away. 

Date - 18 Feb 12 – It’s a Saturday Nite Party
Venue: Walchand Hirachand Marg, Straight from General Post Office (GPO), near 
VT station, five buildings away from Railway hotel on the opposite side.Next 
Jahaz Bhuvan, Ballard Pier. Mumbai-41.

Cover Charge: Rs 500/- only (to defray the expenses of the party)
CREDIT CARD’S Accepted

The Cover Charge includes: 
1.  Two Small Drinks
In-house DJ and a dance floor which would play a mix of Bollywood as well as 
English Rock 
Light snacks like wafers, peanuts.
Extra drinks will be sold at Rs 50/- to Rs 100/- per drink.

Please note that you have to be above the age of 21 to attend GB
par-ties. Please carry proof of age with you, such as driving license, college 
identity card.

Some don'ts:
This is a comfort/safe space for everyone. Many people at the event
may be newbies (those still coming to terms with their sexuality
and/or those who have mustered the courage to come to such an event
for the first time). We request you to be sensitive to the comfort
levels of others and to behave and dress accordingly.

Smoking is allowed only outside the premises. 

No dark rooms and no sex and absolutely no drugs on the premises; if found 
indulging in any hanky panky you shall be asked to leave the party. 

Pls respect the safe space which is being provided. 

A few dos: 
Have a smashing time.
Carry your Alcoholic Drinks Permit.


Re: g_b (unknown)

2011-08-06 Thread Tat Twam
Hi,

One interesting game: In this video, there are twins wearing Back and White
T-Shirts respectively. Just guess which one is Gay before it is revealed in
the video. To me the identification is instantaneous and obvious.

Do not post here who is gay - just post whether you guessed it correctly or
not.

Preyas.

On Wed, Aug 3, 2011 at 5:58 PM, asfan asfa...@yahoo.com wrote:

 **


 Aditya, I am QUITE aware of Epigenetics but it is STILL a theory.  Has
 anyone
 really proved the effect of male hormones on the brain, especially on the
 hippocampus
 (one absurd contention that it is larger in gays!).  I shall know for sure
 that the theory
 is correct only when there is substantial proof.
 Cheers,
 asfan

 --- On *Wed, 3/8/11, Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail.com* wrote:


 From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail.com
 Subject: Re: g_b (unknown)

 To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Wednesday, 3 August, 2011, 12:12 PM



 Asfan, sorry to say this but Epigenetics is not just a theory. There is a
 lot of research happening on epigenetic markers and it is very much part of
 current science that is proved. Other examples of epigenetic markers that
 are being researched is the cases where one of idntical twins develop
 leukemia while the other does not, although both carry the same genes
 responsible.
 Best,
 Aditya B

 On 3 August 2011 06:24, asfan 
 asfa...@yahoo.comhttp://in.mc956.mail.yahoo.com/mc/compose?to=asfa...@yahoo.com
  wrote:

 **

 Interesting, but  still a theory.
 No definite proof.

 asfan

 --- On *Tue, 2/8/11, Anon Anon 
 aqueer...@yahoo.co.ukhttp://in.mc956.mail.yahoo.com/mc/compose?to=aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk
 * wrote:


 From: Anon Anon 
 aqueer...@yahoo.co.ukhttp://in.mc956.mail.yahoo.com/mc/compose?to=aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk
 
 Subject: g_b (unknown)
 To: 
 gay_bombay@yahoogroups.comhttp://in.mc956.mail.yahoo.com/mc/compose?to=gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Tuesday, 2 August, 2011, 4:47 PM


  Dear All,

 Please go though the link
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=saO_RFWWVVAfeature=share

 Regards

 Sachin




 --
 --
 ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY
 Development Sector Consultant
 Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India)

 Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/
 
 Notice to all recipients:
 Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to
 be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such
 communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya
 Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents
 respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or
 criminal nature.

 Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his
 agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every
 communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered
 forward of another communication received by this email account, or a
 referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.

  




-- 
- Preyas
For true friendship..


Re: g_b (unknown)

2011-08-03 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
Asfan, sorry to say this but Epigenetics is not just a theory. There is a
lot of research happening on epigenetic markers and it is very much part of
current science that is proved. Other examples of epigenetic markers that
are being researched is the cases where one of idntical twins develop
leukemia while the other does not, although both carry the same genes
responsible.
Best,
Aditya B

On 3 August 2011 06:24, asfan asfa...@yahoo.com wrote:

 **


 Interesting, but  still a theory.
 No definite proof.

 asfan

 --- On *Tue, 2/8/11, Anon Anon aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk* wrote:


 From: Anon Anon aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk
 Subject: g_b (unknown)
 To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Tuesday, 2 August, 2011, 4:47 PM


  Dear All,

 Please go though the link
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=saO_RFWWVVAfeature=share

 Regards

 Sachin

  




-- 
-- 
ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY
Development Sector Consultant
Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India)

Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/

Notice to all recipients:
Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to
be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such
communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya
Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents
respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or
criminal nature.

Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his
agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every
communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered
forward of another communication received by this email account, or a
referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.


Re: g_b (unknown)

2011-08-03 Thread Mike Morea
Agree  

I hate studies that are new yet make claims that they have discovered god !! As 
long as there is a perception in society that somehow being gay or bi-sexual is 
wrong, such studies will proliferate. This is not the first time a scientific 
study claims would have gone awry, NG or not.

Morea.



From: asfan asfa...@yahoo.com
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tuesday, August 2, 2011 7:54 PM
Subject: Re: g_b (unknown)


  
Interesting, but  still a theory.
No definite proof.

asfan

--- On Tue, 2/8/11, Anon Anon aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:


From: Anon Anon aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk
Subject: g_b (unknown)
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 2 August, 2011, 4:47 PM


  
Dear All, 


Please go though the 
link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=saO_RFWWVVAfeature=share


Regards


Sachin  
 

Re: g_b (unknown)

2011-08-03 Thread asfan
Aditya, I am QUITE aware of Epigenetics but it is STILL a theory.  Has anyone
really proved the effect of male hormones on the brain, especially on the 
hippocampus
(one absurd contention that it is larger in gays!).  I shall know for sure that 
the theory
is correct only when there is substantial proof.
Cheers,
asfan

--- On Wed, 3/8/11, Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail.com wrote:


From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail.com
Subject: Re: g_b (unknown)
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 3 August, 2011, 12:12 PM


  



Asfan, sorry to say this but Epigenetics is not just a theory. There is a lot 
of research happening on epigenetic markers and it is very much part of current 
science that is proved. Other examples of epigenetic markers that are being 
researched is the cases where one of idntical twins develop leukemia while the 
other does not, although both carry the same genes responsible.
Best,
Aditya B


On 3 August 2011 06:24, asfan asfa...@yahoo.com wrote:


  








Interesting, but  still a theory.
No definite proof.

asfan

--- On Tue, 2/8/11, Anon Anon aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:


From: Anon Anon aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk
Subject: g_b (unknown)
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 2 August, 2011, 4:47 PM






















Dear All, 


Please go though the 
link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=saO_RFWWVVAfeature=share


Regards


Sachin 














-- 
-- 
ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY
Development Sector Consultant
Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India)

Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/

Notice to all recipients:
Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be 
treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such 
communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay 
and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may 
attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature.

Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his 
agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every 
communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered 
forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred 
source available on the internet and accessible to the public.








g_b (unknown)

2011-08-02 Thread Anon Anon
 Dear All,Please go though the linkhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=saO_RFWWVVAfeature=shareRegardsSachin   

Re: g_b (unknown)

2011-08-02 Thread asfan
Interesting, but  still a theory.
No definite proof.

asfan

--- On Tue, 2/8/11, Anon Anon aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:


From: Anon Anon aqueer...@yahoo.co.uk
Subject: g_b (unknown)
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 2 August, 2011, 4:47 PM





















Dear All,


Please go though the 
link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=saO_RFWWVVAfeature=share


Regards


Sachin 











g_b (unknown)

2011-07-03 Thread asfan
I have been on this gb list for eleven years now and have always admired 
Aditya's upholding gay rights.  I do admit that at times he is not very polite 
and at times quite boorish.  But, that does not mean he is to be sent into 
exile!!  This is a free country wherein everyone has a right to speak.  So, if 
you don't like what he writes, just use the 
delete button in the Inbox when you read his name.

Do not forget that he is an activist for OUR rights - how many of his detactors 
are??
How many of us are doing what he is?  Don't be ungrateful.  Count your 
blessings.

asfan

Re: g_b (unknown)

2011-07-03 Thread Mike Morea
You skipped  as long as it was not you the butt of his piercing comments 
then it is fine ... is that what it is? 





From: Sujit Bhandary sbd...@yahoo.com
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sat, July 2, 2011 10:14:43 AM
Subject: g_b (unknown)

  
Hi,
 
I'm quite surprised to see several people asking/demanding that Aditya should 
be 
removed from the group. Here's MY take on the issue:
 
First, I assume that those of us who are here on this forum are either 
gay/bi/lesbian etc. We are, I suppose, already used to derisive sniggers about 
our lifestyles already. So, I'd have expected members to have, by now, been 
fairly strong to be able to handle criticism or even insultive/abusive 
language.
 
Next, Aditya has consistently maintained that this IS a free country and 
everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. Even if you disagree with him he has 
supported YOUR RIGHT TO DISAGREE, hasn't he? Give him the same liberty? If you 
can't win an argument with him, you can still always IGNORE him?
 
So, let's all get on with whatever interests us. You don't like him, don't pay 
attention to what he says/writes - simple!
 
I've enjoyed reading his comments/posts more often than not - the few times 
I've 
felt that he's too offensive, I've skipped reading his views.
 
Regards,
Sujit 
 

g_b (unknown)

2011-07-02 Thread Sujit Bhandary
Hi,
 
I'm quite surprised to see several people asking/demanding that Aditya should 
be removed from the group. Here's MY take on the issue:
 
First, I assume that those of us who are here on this forum are either 
gay/bi/lesbian etc. We are, I suppose, already used to derisive sniggers about 
our lifestyles already. So, I'd have expected members to have, by now, been 
fairly strong to be able to handle criticism or even insultive/abusive 
language.
 
Next, Aditya has consistently maintained that this IS a free country and 
everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. Even if you disagree with him he has 
supported YOUR RIGHT TO DISAGREE, hasn't he? Give him the same liberty? If you 
can't win an argument with him, you can still always IGNORE him?
 
So, let's all get on with whatever interests us. You don't like him, don't pay 
attention to what he says/writes - simple!
 
I've enjoyed reading his comments/posts more often than not - the few times 
I've felt that he's too offensive, I've skipped reading his views.
 
Regards,
Sujit

g_b (unknown)

2011-05-25 Thread Vikram D
Dr.Kaushik Basu, the chief economic adviser to the government of India has just 
launched a collection of his writings entitled An Economist's Miscellany. Its a 
collection of his writings, journalism and a couple of translations, with a mix 
between economics and policy related paper, and more general stuff, ranging 
from personal memories to travel pieces and even a short play. 
 
What's notable for us though is that the collection includes not just one, but 
two articles arguing very strongly for the removal of Section 377. I suppose 
this shouldn't be a surprise, since Dr.Basu was a signatory for the open letter 
published by Vikram Seth and others. For those who haven't read it, here's the 
link:
http://www.hindustantimes.com/Where-love-has-lost-its-voice/Article1-150604.aspx
 
Still, that was sometime back while he was an academic in the US and now he's 
one of the most powerful policymakers in the country. Of course, as an 
economist, his words may not have direct impact on the Supreme Court, but I 
think its a good proof of where the educated and enlightened thinking in the 
country is on this. 
 
Here's an extract from one of his articles that makes his basic point that 
something should not be criminalised just because people don't like it, but it 
doesn't affect them, and also a good anecdote: 
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/4179738.stm
 
Let me here consider another subject on which policy changes are long overdue. 
This concerns IPC 377 -that is, Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code. This 
decrees homosexual love as not just illegal but criminal. 
There has been an effort to amend this law so that homosexual love, when it is 
between consenting adults and conducted in private, is not treated as criminal. 
To me such an amendment would be a sign of civilisation. 
Tolerating behaviour that does not have a negative externality - that is, does 
not adversely affect a third party - is a key ingredient of a civilised society 
and such tolerance has a long tradition in India from Buddha to Ramakrishna. 
But previous Indian governments have staunchly resisted reading down this law, 
taking the line that homosexuality is perverse and an import into India from 
the West. 
The truth is different. 
There is evidence from ancient Indian writings and carvings on temple walls 
that same-sex love is not alien to India. 
In fact, it is the criminalisation and intolerance of same-sex love that is 
alien. 
What many do not know is that IPC 377 was enacted in colonial India, nearly a 
century and a half ago by Lord Macaulay. 
It is true that this law is seldom used to prosecute but it is used to harass 
same-sex partners and to inflict on them a sense of unnaturalness and 
deviation. 
Moreover, it is a hindrance in the control of Aids and the spread of HIV, since 
people are often forced to keep their sexual histories hidden, even from 
doctors for no other reason but the fear of IPC 377. 

Ceremonial occasion 
The urge not to feel unnatural is natural enough. 
I realised this at a gay wedding in New York. It was between an Indian and an 
American woman. 
They could not of course formally get married because New York law does not 
recognise such marriages but it was a ceremonial occasion. 
A young rabbi, with a palpable spiritual presence, presided over the wedding. 
At the end of the ceremony, with readings from religious texts from around the 
world and the poetry of Tagore, he declared the couple married in the eyes of 
all, he paused deliberately and added with emphasis, enlightened human 
beings. 
That evening there was a party where most couples were of the same sex. 
A charming young woman asked me what my partner did. 
I replied: My partner is a demographer, taking care to omit all pronouns-such 
is the human urge to be accepted. 
We continued to chat for a while about our partners, with me feeling 
increasingly hypocritical, till my wife came and joined us and I had to come 
out. 
 
 

g_b (unknown)

2011-02-23 Thread Vikram D
Just putting down some thoughts and possible points of action following the 
vile episode broadcast by TV9 Telugu on how gay culture was booming in 
Hyderabad. 
 
 
This has been taken down from YouTube - congratulations to everyone who went 
online to make sure YouTube yanked it - but a transcript is available, which 
I'll post in a separate mail, shows how awful it was, but without giving the 
photos, with no attempt at concealment, of the guys whose profiles they picked 
from GayRomeo and entrapped into conversations with them which they recorded. 
They also seem to have shot some spycam footage from inside a club that had a 
gay party. 
 
 
Quite apart from the horror of entrapping guys this way, the episode was sick 
for the tone it took, which went on about how software employees and students 
were falling prey to this lifestyle, and how unnatural it was. At the end, 
there was a bit of a shift where they also spoke about the potential for 
blackmail that having sites on GayRomeo had - a very small part of the episode, 
but one that might have some implications for what we can do:
 
 
1) The absolute priority has to be trying to find out what has happened to the 
guys who were set up by the channel and had their lives exposed. These guys 
must be in total shock and trauma and are very probably in a suicidal state. 
Can anybody can find some way to get in touch with them and check they are OK, 
or if they need support? Did anyone in Hyderabad recognise them or might they 
know people who would know them? 
 
 
2) People have been asking about legal action against the channel, and I know 
Aditya has already taken steps here. The problem is I don't think it will be 
easy to have something really stick against TV9. It is a channel that 
specialises in this sort of sensational expose as a way to chase TRPs, so they 
are used to dealing with negative reactions and, if anything, they might even 
welcome some reactions and publicity which they would use to continue the 
moralistic line they have taken. 
 
 
One could, and perhaps should anyway, file a complaint with the national 
broadcasting authority, but let no one have any illusions this will accomplish 
much. Most of these professional regulatory bodies are both slow and toothless 
and TV9 will also claim media freedom as a defence. I have spoken to Vijay 
Hiremath at Lawyer's Collective and he is trying to see if there is something 
in the IPC or the new Telecom act that might help us, but he agreed with me 
that on the face of it legal action will be tough. 
 
 
Privacy is not much of an argument since its not really clear that sites like 
GayRomeo really are private in any enforceable way (more on that later). If the 
guys who were profiled are willing to sue the channel they might get somewhere 
but (a) they are likely to be too traumatised to do anything like that and (b) 
if they claim they were being defamed, the channel will reply that what they 
showed was truthful and they have the recordings to back it. I don't think we 
can claim that these parties or hooking up through GayRomeo doesn't exist, and 
that is really all that TV9 was claiming. The rather depressing thought did 
occur to me that if any of the guys did attempt suicide, then the channel might 
be liable for harassment and abetment, but this is obviously not a situation 
one wants to be in. 
 
 
3) Should we protest directly protest to TV9? This might be worth doing, even 
if the channel just laughs at us, just as a way of showing to them - but even 
more to ourselves - that we cannot be cowed and bullied in this way. But please 
please please note - this would have to be a protest with some actual physical 
action in Hyderabad. 
 
 
I am sorry to be blunt, but purely online protests are worth precisely nothing. 
If someone sends me one more petitionline link to sign I will really scream 
because this has to be one of the most useless activities possible - it not 
only does nothing, but by giving you the sense that you are doing something, it 
robs any initiative of momentum. A protest has to have some physical component, 
even if its just in the form of the pink chaddis that were sent to Pramod 
Mutalik. 
 
 
Behind the scenes actions can work sometimes, if one has the right contacts. 
Within the English media we have certainly often used a bad piece to dialogue 
with the writers and editors and hope for some improvement in the future. If 
anyone has contacts with TV9 - or Andhra politicians - then please use them, 
but I have to say I think its unlikely that much will happen. Vernacular 
channels like this, whcih are driven by shock and TRPs, aren't influenceable in 
the way that more mainstream channels are. TV9 is part of the Associated 
Broadcasting group which is very focused on a kind of sensational news in local 
languages, and there's not much I can think of that might reach them. 
 
 
4) Since the morning we've been deluged by calls from people asking us if sites 
like 

Re: g_b (unknown)

2011-02-23 Thread cuteboy
My sympathies are with the guys who are exposed and the trauma they must be 
going through, may god give them courage to peacefully come out of this problem
 
but if you want to have fun one has to be prepared to face this kind of things
 


--- On Wed, 23/2/11, Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:


From: Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk
Subject: g_b (unknown)
To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
Cc: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, lgbt-in...@yahoogroups.com, 
khush-l...@yahoogroups.com, movenp...@yahoogroups.com, gayde...@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 23 February, 2011, 5:23 PM


  








Just putting down some thoughts and possible points of action following the 
vile episode broadcast by TV9 Telugu on how gay culture was booming in 
Hyderabad. 
 
 
This has been taken down from YouTube - congratulations to everyone who went 
online to make sure YouTube yanked it - but a transcript is available, which 
I'll post in a separate mail, shows how awful it was, but without giving the 
photos, with no attempt at concealment, of the guys whose profiles they picked 
from GayRomeo and entrapped into conversations with them which they recorded. 
They also seem to have shot some spycam footage from inside a club that had a 
gay party. 
 
 
Quite apart from the horror of entrapping guys this way, the episode was sick 
for the tone it took, which went on about how software employees and students 
were falling prey to this lifestyle, and how unnatural it was. At the end, 
there was a bit of a shift where they also spoke about the potential for 
blackmail that having sites on GayRomeo had - a very small part of the episode, 
but one that might have some implications for what we can do:
 
 
1) The absolute priority has to be trying to find out what has happened to the 
guys who were set up by the channel and had their lives exposed. These guys 
must be in total shock and trauma and are very probably in a suicidal state. 
Can anybody can find some way to get in touch with them and check they are OK, 
or if they need support? Did anyone in Hyderabad recognise them or might they 
know people who would know them? 
 
 
2) People have been asking about legal action against the channel, and I know 
Aditya has already taken steps here. The problem is I don't think it will be 
easy to have something really stick against TV9. It is a channel that 
specialises in this sort of sensational expose as a way to chase TRPs, so they 
are used to dealing with negative reactions and, if anything, they might even 
welcome some reactions and publicity which they would use to continue the 
moralistic line they have taken. 
 
 
One could, and perhaps should anyway, file a complaint with the national 
broadcasting authority, but let no one have any illusions this will accomplish 
much. Most of these professional regulatory bodies are both slow and toothless 
and TV9 will also claim media freedom as a defence. I have spoken to Vijay 
Hiremath at Lawyer's Collective and he is trying to see if there is something 
in the IPC or the new Telecom act that might help us, but he agreed with me 
that on the face of it legal action will be tough. 
 
 
Privacy is not much of an argument since its not really clear that sites like 
GayRomeo really are private in any enforceable way (more on that later). If the 
guys who were profiled are willing to sue the channel they might get somewhere 
but (a) they are likely to be too traumatised to do anything like that and (b) 
if they claim they were being defamed, the channel will reply that what they 
showed was truthful and they have the recordings to back it. I don't think we 
can claim that these parties or hooking up through GayRomeo doesn't exist, and 
that is really all that TV9 was claiming. The rather depressing thought did 
occur to me that if any of the guys did attempt suicide, then the channel might 
be liable for harassment and abetment, but this is obviously not a situation 
one wants to be in. 
 
 
3) Should we protest directly protest to TV9? This might be worth doing, even 
if the channel just laughs at us, just as a way of showing to them - but even 
more to ourselves - that we cannot be cowed and bullied in this way. But please 
please please note - this would have to be a protest with some actual physical 
action in Hyderabad. 
 
 
I am sorry to be blunt, but purely online protests are worth precisely nothing. 
If someone sends me one more petitionline link to sign I will really scream 
because this has to be one of the most useless activities possible - it not 
only does nothing, but by giving you the sense that you are doing something, it 
robs any initiative of momentum. A protest has to have some physical component, 
even if its just in the form of the pink chaddis that were sent to Pramod 
Mutalik. 
 
 
Behind the scenes actions can work sometimes, if one has the right contacts. 
Within the English media we have certainly often used a bad piece to dialogue 
with the writers and editors and hope for some

g_b (unknown)

2010-07-18 Thread asfan



http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/18/world/europe/18poland.html?themc=th 
 
 




July 17, 2010

Gay Parade in Warsaw Meets Jeers From Some
By NICHOLAS KULISH

WARSAW — Rainbow flags flying, Village People and Madonna songs pumping from 
the floats, drag queens waving like royalty to the crowds: some things are the 
same at gay pride parades everywhere. But the thousands of police officers 
holding back clusters of jeering, egg-throwing youths here on Saturday served 
as a reminder that Poland was not quite Holland when it came to gay 
demonstrations. 
 
Gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals not just from Poland but from all 
over Europe and North America marched and danced their way through downtown 
Warsaw, calling for greater tolerance and equal rights, in particular the right 
to marry or at least to be joined in civil partnerships. 
 
The event, the first Europewide gay pride parade held in a former Communist 
bloc country, revealed a place where gays and lesbians aspired to the level of 
acceptance found in Western European cities like Amsterdam and London, yet 
remained part of a deeply Catholic society that was still significantly more 
opposed to homosexuality than in the West and where politicians did not seem 
ready, or perhaps willing, to change that. 
It was most likely the largest gathering of its kind in Polish history, but its 
8,000 participants made up just a fraction of the 50,000 people who took part 
in last year’s parade, in Zurich. For the most part, Saturday’s parade went 
smoothly, but it was met with resistance from a population ill at ease with 
open displays of homosexuality. Many gay men and lesbians here say they 
continue to fear repercussions from coming out of the closet. 
 
“I lived in Berlin and, there and here, they are simply two different worlds,” 
said Tomasz Baczkowski, head of the Equality Foundation and an organizer of 
this year’s EuroPride event. 
 
It was just five years ago that Lech Kaczynski, Poland’s president who died in 
a plane crash in April, banned Warsaw’s annual gay pride parade in 2005 when he 
was the city’s mayor. Mr. Baczkowski was among the plaintiffs in a 2007 lawsuit 
before the European Court of Human Rights that successfully challenged the ban.
 
Since then, Mr. Baczkowski said, “things have developed quickly, but not 
quickly enough for us.” He said he hoped to see Poland legalize gay marriages 
within three to four years, as Argentina did on Thursday. 
 
But a sociology professor at Warsaw University, Ireneusz Krzeminski, said the 
political culture was not yet ready. 
 
“In Poland,” he said, “we still do not have major politicians directed toward 
changing this rather hostile attitude toward Polish gays.” 
 
Mr. Krzeminski, who is gay himself, said he found hope in the millions of Poles 
who have traveled abroad since the country joined the European Union in 2004, 
especially those who lived and worked in other countries like Britain, and who 
saw being gay in a much more normal and positive context. 
 
Wojtek Kobylski, 42, said he had seen improvement not just in Warsaw but 
outside the capital in more conservative corners of Poland, where he performs 
in drag. 
“Every year there are fewer negative reactions,” said Mr. Kobylski, who was 
wearing a long platinum-blond wig and three-inch-long fake eyelashes as parade 
volunteers decked out their floats with colorful balloons and D.J.’s tested 
their sound systems. 
 
After performing at a show in Warsaw, he was invited to perform in the city of 
Olsztyn, in the northeastern part of the country, said Mr. Kobylski, who as 
Tatiana sings old Russian and Polish songs. Now he appears there once a month. 
“People see that the gay clubs are more friendly,” he said, “that these are the 
places where there are no fights and you can have fun.” 
 
Yet the parade got off to an ugly start. As it reached Senatorska and 
Marszalkowska Streets downtown, youths chanted obscenities and yelled at the 
marchers to leave, before hurling eggs and plastic bottles at the first float 
to pass. 
 
About 2,000 police officers were there to control the crowd, one for every four 
people who took part in the march. A Swiss man, who said he was there to show 
his support, remarked that he had never seen so much security at a gay pride 
parade in his life. 
Another parade organizer, Krzysztof Kliszczynski, said that was because “it’s 
still happening that gays and lesbians are being attacked on the streets.” A 
counterdemonstration by the conservative, right-wing group All-Polish Youth 
drew 200 to 300 participants, according to police estimates. 
 
“Polish society is much more conservative than the establishment,” said the 
group’s president, Robert Winnicki, 25. “Polish society is more passive. People 
do not take part in the public debate. We are the voice of the majority.” 
 
The Warsaw police detained eight people for upsetting the parade by attacking 
police officers, throwing eggs or tearing down flags. One 

g_b (unknown)

2010-06-11 Thread Aham
I dont endorse Ashley Tellis, especially after reading his debatable thoughts 
about Boy-Man love in IE. (trying to justify pedophilia intellectually - 
http://bit.ly/9kh106 ) 
But here we are speaking about the cause of discrimination basis sexuality (or 
anything else)... im sure we all are in the same page. 
here is the TOI article
IIT-H sacks gay activist Ashley Tellis
HYDERABAD: In an AMU redux south of the Vindhyas, Indian Institute of 
Technology (Hyderabad) management sacked gay rights activist and faculty member 
Ashley Tellis, apparently discomfited by his sexual orientation. The academic, 
with around 20 years of experience, was shown the door last fortnight less than 
a year after joining IIT-H. 

Being on probation, Tellis's services were terminated summarily. However, 
reliable sources said he was asked to leave for his unlawful behaviour and 
deviant mischief. IIT-Hyderabad director Uday Desai did not take calls and 
his office said he would be available only after June 21. 

It's learnt that Tellis's exit from IIT was being planned by the management 
ever since AMU's S R Siras was sacked for being gay in February this year. 
Tellis has filed a right to information (RTI) application seeking reasons 
behind his sudden termination and intends to have a face-off with IIT-H. 

Tellis was assistant professor with the liberal arts department and is a 
well-known voice in the gay rights movement in the country. A published author, 
Tellis has a PhD from Cambridge University and a long teaching career. He faced 
strong resistance at IIT-H from the day he joined. Ashley's entry was 
controversial with several groups among IIT faculty not wanting him in. There 
was internal bickering and resistance right from the beginning, said a source. 
Prior to Tellis's appointment, several faculty members had objected to his 
appointment. 

There were group mails sent against his appointment, asking the IIT director 
not to appoint him, a source said. 

Some faculty members blamed Tellis for being too candid in discussing gay 
issues on campus. His article on `man-boy' love in a national daily further 
ruffled feathers. The institute has a humanities wing but it is meant for 
technical education. It was found that students were extremely annoyed with 
Tellis's behaviour, said a faculty member. 

However, a number of students disagreed with the faculty members. He was one 
of the best teachers. Not many students had problems with him until the 
administration and other faculty members began asking questions about Tellis's 
behaviour in classroom, said a student. Students were even told to be 
careful with Tellis and report abuse, the student said. 

When contacted, university authorities refused comment saying only the director 
was authorized to answer these questions. Tellis is no longer with us. We do 
not know whether he was sacked or left on his own, said an official in the 
director's office. A scan of IIT-Hyderabad website revealed that Tellis's name 
has been deleted from the faculty list. 

Director in charge U V Varadaraju, when insisted upon by TOI, said, Prof Desai 
is out of station. Sudheer Chella Rajan, HoD of Liberal Arts Department and 
Tellis's boss could not be reached despite attempts. 

Tellis's close associates said that this is not the first time he was targeted 
for being gay. He had complained of being forced to quit or being terminated 
for being articulate about gay rights even earlier. His stints at Bombay 
University, where he taught in 1991, and later at St Stephen's College, Delhi, 
too weren't pleasant for Tellis, and he quit both jobs. 

Tellis was under constant pressure of being sacked even during his stint at 
English and Foreign Languages University, Hyderabad, said one of his 
associates.


  

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2009-08-17 Thread Dee


GB Party at Dio’s at Tardeo on 22nd August 09  
  

Come party with GB at Dio's  DIO’S 

Dio's in Tardeo is a large theme lounge, done up in gold, lime, chocolate, lime 
and fusia pink, with French windows that overlook Bombay's beautiful skyline.

Besides a great dance floor, the venue also includes lots of space and an open 
air terrace for those who would like to take in the breeze.


Date: Saturday, 22nd August 09 
Time: 9 pm - 1 am. 
Cover Charge: Rs 600 
(Please note – NO CREDIT CARDS) 
Venue: Dio's, Tardeo 

Address: Dio's, is situated at
Konarkshram, 5th.floor,
Behind Everest Building,
Next to Sardar Pav Bhaji,
Tardeo Road, Tardeo,
Mumbai 34. (Mumbai Central is the closest station).
Please note that you have to be above the age of 21 to attend 
GayBombay parties. Please carry proof of age with you: a driving license, 
college identity card, etc. 
The Cover Charge includes: In-house DJ and a dance floor; delicious snacks; 4 
drinks with mixers, 
Extra drinks will be sold at Rs 100/- per coupon. 
Dinner will not be served. 
  
- Some don'ts: 
` GB, as a support group, has created this comfort/safe space for gays. Many 
people at the event may be newbies (those still coming to terms with their 
sexuality and/or those who have mustered the courage to come to such an event 
for the first time). We request you to be 
Sensitive to the comfort levels of others and to behave and dress accordingly. 
  
` No dark rooms and no sex on the premises; if found indulging in any hanky 
panky you shall be asked to leave the party. 
  
Use of any illegal substance is strictly prohibited. 
  
` A special REQUEST: During and after the party please DO NOT gather outside 
the venue. The management has requested us to ensure that, in the middle of the 
night, the peace of the neighbourhood is not disturbed. 
  
Smoking will be allowed only on the right hand side of the terrace as soon as 
you enter the premises. 
  
- A few dos: 
` Have a smashing time. 

` Carry your Alcoholic Drinks Permit.
  
This event is organized by: http://www.gaybombay.org. 
Right of admission reserved.


  

g_b (unknown)

2008-09-19 Thread Vikas Desai
Hi
I am 38,  bottom, average body, good looking, decent, well educated
Looking out for top with similar background





g_b (unknown)

2006-12-09 Thread MUSCULAR MASCULINE
Socha Kisi Apne se Baat kare,Apne kisi Khas ko yaad kare,Kiya jo faisla msg 
karne ka azeezo ko,Kaha dil ne ki kyu na apse shuruwat kare...  

g_b (unknown)

2005-05-29 Thread Roshan
 No man from outside can make you free. No one
holds the Key to the Kingdom of Happiness. No one has
the authority to hold that key. That key is your own
self, and in the  development and the purification and
in the incorruptibility of that self alone is the
Kingdom of Eternity...


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2004-12-06 Thread rajfordony



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2004-11-01 Thread Smarter boy Boy
Here are some ways of improving law-n-order situation at home:
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A couple was celebrating their golden wedding anniversary. Their
domestic tranquillity had long been the talk of the town. What a
peaceful  loving couple. A local newspaper reporter was 
inquiring as to the secret of their long and happy married life. Well, it dates back 
to our honeymoon, explained the man. We visited the grand canyon and took a trip 
down to the bottom on the canyon by horse. 
We hadn't gone too far when my wife's horse stumbled. My wife quietly
said, 'That's once'.

We proceeded a little further and the horse stumbled again. Once 
more my wife quietly said, 'That's twice.'
We hadn't gone a half-mile when the horse stumbled the third 
time. My wife quietly removed a revolver from her purse and shot the horse dead.
I started an angry protest over her treatment of the horse. While I 
was shouting she looked at me, and quietly said, 'That's once'. 
And, my son, we have lived happily ever after.