Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-08-05 Thread Karen Bachmann
While I personally agree with the advice to rewrite, I'm curious whether you've put the different versions in front of intended visitors and gotten their reactions. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Posted from the new ixda.org

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-28 Thread Joe Sokohl
Their, most definitely. Read steven Pinker his writing on substantives to see that it's not a mathematical agree in person number issue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Posted from the new ixda.org http://www.ixda.org/discuss?post=43910

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-28 Thread Joe Sokohl
Knowing that rules such as never split infinitives were invented in England in the 18th century as features to sell grammar books, to me, sheds light and meaning on the validity of such rules. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Posted from the new ixda.org

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-28 Thread James Page
Lets go all we the back to Englisc. That is not a spelling mistake but the name of the language we in England spoke before English. The advantage of us using Englisc is that it is far more compatible with Dutch, German and other languages. But we would run into the problem if we should use formal

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-27 Thread live
For what it's worth, I just noticed this on Facebook: 'my name just commented on their own status.' They even already know what gender I am... There. Dead horse, beaten. Welcome to the Interaction Design Association (IxDA)! To

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-26 Thread Chauncey Wilson
The New York Times Magazine has an article on the debate about they as singular versus plural. I have a NY Times account, but I think that you can access this for a limited time. http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/26/magazine/26FOB-onlanguage-t.html?_r=1ref=magazine They state as some have here

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-24 Thread Sarah Weise
Who are your users? Is this a formal website, or is it something more casual? If it's a more formal website or something with a serious tone (such as a health-related site that a user would rely on to provide accurate information), you might lose credibility with some folks by using their.

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-23 Thread Alicia Nachman
Robert - funny you should mention Grammar Girl. I remember an interesting podcast she did on this topic. Her takeaway: So here's the bottom line: Rewrite your sentences to avoid the problem. If that's not possible, check to see if the people you are writing for have a style guide. If not, use he

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-23 Thread Andrei Herasimchuk
For a mailing list that hates discussions about semantics, this thread is quite long. -- Andrei Herasimchuk Chief Design Officer, Involution Studios innovating the digital world e. and...@involutionstudios.com c. +1 408 306 6422

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-23 Thread Katie Albers
Except that this isn't about semantics. It's about usage and grammar. kt who's sorry - but that opportunity was just too good to let it pass by Katie Albers User Experience Consultant Project Manager ka...@firstthought.com 310 356 7550 On Jul 23, 2009, at 10:47 AM, Andrei Herasimchuk

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-23 Thread Robert Hoekman Jr
For a mailing list that hates discussions about semantics, this thread is quite long. This list only likes to *say* it hates semantic debates. -r- Welcome to the Interaction Design Association (IxDA)! To post to this list

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-23 Thread Christian Crumlish
and to be fair, there is a categorical difference between debating nomenclature and terminology related to professional job titles and practices and a debate about the use of language in a user interface. (still i think it's only tangentially related to interaction design, at best.) On Thu, Jul

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-23 Thread J. Ambrose Little
I have a theory, which is that there is a direct relationship between the theoretical nature of a thread and the thread length, i.e., the more theoretical, the more replies. And its correlative that even a simple, rather concrete/straightforward topic can be made to be theoretical in order to

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-23 Thread Robert Hoekman Jr
This list only likes to *say* it hates semantic debates. When you say *say* what do you mean? ;) Oh, you clever bastard, you. I actually almost fell for that. -r- Welcome to the Interaction Design Association (IxDA)! To post

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-23 Thread Gretchen Anderson
This list only likes to *say* it hates semantic debates. When you say *say* what do you mean? ;) Welcome to the Interaction Design Association (IxDA)! To post to this list ... disc...@ixda.org Unsubscribe

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread William Hudson
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Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Frank Siraguso
Here's how I rationalize the their idiom: heshe makes it plural and, thus, their. It's still wrong. My inner nun says to translate it into Latin and see how it works. (Or choose any other language besides English, say, Russian or Japanese.) And partner seems so cold, while significant other

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Robert Hoekman Jr
Just pointing out that it's significantly less common. Really? Because it sounded to me like you were stating some abolute rules with neither credible citations nor a sophisticated theory of linguistic evolution behind them. Not at all. Sorry if it appeared that way. But please, let's not

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Katie Albers
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Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Jordan, Courtney
-boun...@lists.interactiondesigners.com [mailto:discuss-boun...@lists.interactiondesigners.com] On Behalf Of Katie Albers Sent: Wednesday, July 22, 2009 1:19 PM To: IxDA Subject: Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy When you've got this kind of question, it's usually best to start

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Marc Rettig
I've often wanted to build a form with gender input as a slider rather than radio buttons. Welcome to the Interaction Design Association (IxDA)! To post to this list ... disc...@ixda.org Unsubscribe

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Caroline Jarrett
Marc Rettig I've often wanted to build a form with gender input as a slider rather than radio buttons. You might enjoy this t-shirt: http://nopitycity.com/shirts/gender-malefemaleother Cheers Caroline Jarrett Forms that work: Designing web forms for usability www.formsthatwork.com

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Adrian Howard
On 22 Jul 2009, at 19:00, Caroline Jarrett wrote: Marc Rettig I've often wanted to build a form with gender input as a slider rather than radio buttons. You might enjoy this t-shirt: http://nopitycity.com/shirts/gender-malefemaleother There were some fascinating discussions over in

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Mariano
Their Great thoughts here! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Posted from the new ixda.org http://www.ixda.org/discuss?post=43910 Welcome to the Interaction Design Association (IxDA)! To post to

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Chauncey Wilson
This is a good debate and both sides have some good points. Language does evolve of course, but the results of evolution might be good or bad. I might have missed a few of the messages, but I'm curious about the distribution of reactions of users who read the constructions that we are discussing.

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread Adam Lerner
Chauncey, you did a much better job at articulating what I was getting at in my post. Of course (as has already been pointed out) the audience matters but I worry about things like credibility and brand image. I'd hate to give site users reason to question the site sponsor's knowledge of grammar.

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-22 Thread live
Just as I would expect the visitor to know Pinker's homonym contribution to language cognition. ;) aka There's too many theirs there! On Jul 22, 2009, at 5:40 PM, Adam Lerner wrote: Chauncey, you did a much better job at articulating what I was getting at in my post. Of course (as has

[IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Christopher Rider
Howdy, I'm working on a website targeted primarily at women. In several places we need to ask for information about the user's significant other. 80%+ of our visitors are straight women, but we do get the occasional man (gay or straight) or gay woman. The team is debating which pronoun to use in

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread live
Their, definitely. His/Her just throws the differential in the alternate's face; it just solidifies that they are fringe. 'Their' is MUCH better. /psych major On Jul 21, 2009, at 12:47 PM, Christopher Rider wrote: Howdy, I'm working on a website targeted primarily at women. In several

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Brett Lutchman
Their. Much easier to read. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Posted from the new ixda.org http://www.ixda.org/discuss?post=43910 Welcome to the Interaction Design Association (IxDA)! To post to

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Adam Lerner
Not to be that guy, but isn't there some concern about choosing the option that is flat-out grammatically incorrect? Their is certainly smoother sounding in spoken language, but I'm not sure how happy I would be with my brand's copy being wrong. Just a thought. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread suze ingram
Definitely their. Did you consider Your partner's birthday or even Partner's birthday? Suze Ingram User Experience Consultant suze [dot] ingram [at] gmail.com @suzeingram http://suzeingram.blogspot.com/ http://www.linkedin.com/in/suzeingram . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Sarah Weise
Their implies multiple partners (and multiple birthdays). Plus, it's grammatically incorrect. Could you say Your significant other's birthday: as a compromise? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Posted from the new ixda.org

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Mike Myles
I'd be strongly inclined to use their over his/her. It's become a fairly accepted approach (though some certainly object to it). Here is a related Wikipedia entry on the singular they - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Mark Green
Although my internal nun is scowling at me, I'd have to agree with Mike. It's certainly accepted in everyday speech and the language needs such a term. I think youse would be a harder sell (except in Philly). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Posted from the

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Robert Hoekman Jr
Here is a related Wikipedia entry on the singular they - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they Wikipedia is hardly a reliable source for grammar expertise. Don't make me send Grammar Girl after you. Their is grammatically incorrect when used to refer to a single person. Consider

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Gretchen Anderson
...@lists.interactiondesigners.com] On Behalf Of Mark Green Sent: Tuesday, July 21, 2009 6:58 AM To: disc...@ixda.org Subject: Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy Although my internal nun is scowling at me, I'd have to agree with Mike. It's certainly accepted in everyday speech and the language needs

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Mike Myles
One may say that the use of the singular they is not universally accepted, but to state that it's blatantly incorrect ignores the flexibility and ever changing nature of the English language. It's more commonly accepted by speakers of British English - who incidentally adopted the title prefix Ms

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Joan Vermette
-boun...@lists.interactiondesigners.com] On Behalf Of Mark Green Sent: Tuesday, July 21, 2009 6:58 AM To: disc...@ixda.org Subject: Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy Although my internal nun is scowling at me, I'd have to agree with Mike. It's certainly accepted in everyday speech

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Phillip Hunter
I'd rant about ignoring the grammarians and there are far more authoritative sources for the singular they, ... BUT, I don't think either is the best choice and agree with reframing to Your [partner's/lover's/special someone's] birthday. If you're trying to be casual, then be that and fun.

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Robert Barlow-Busch
The team is debating which pronoun to use in field labels - e.g. Their Birthday or His/Her Birthday. If we're talking specifically about field labels, consider dropping the pronoun entirely: Birthday. This should work fine if the context for the overall form is clear. For instance, you don't

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Jarrod Lombardo
Using the plural pronoun to refer to a single person of unspecified gender is an old and honorable pattern in English, not a newfangled bit of degeneracy or a politically correct plot to avoid sexism (though it often serves the latter purpose). People who insist that %u201CEveryone has brought his

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Christian Crumlish
The singular/indeterminate their is attested in English as far back as modern English goes. We all innately understand this but fight against it because of our medieval grammarian influence (usually anxious about things that weren't parallel to Latin - hence our predicate nominative after the verb

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread cvestal
Phillip, Think of grammar as standardization and enforcement of consistency. There is a right time to rebel against grammar rules, just as there is to rebel against consistency. The key is knowing when to break the rules. Your post, for instance, was *very* hard to read since you scattered it

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Asbjorn
As mentioned a couple of times already, I think Your partner is direct, neutral yet kind of personal, and appropriate. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Posted from the new ixda.org http://www.ixda.org/discuss?post=43910

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Corn Walker
On Jul 21, 2009, at 9:44 AM, Sarah Weise wrote: Their implies multiple partners (and multiple birthdays). Plus, it's grammatically incorrect. Not so fast... grammar is actually subjective and fluid. Specifically for this instance the following is a pretty interesting read.

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Robert Hoekman Jr
People always get irritated about nouns becoming verbs and yet we all google things. Language lives! Evolve! Their! Theirs! ;) I'm all for the evolution of language, and yes, nouns become verbs frequently these days, but in this case, you're talking about making a plural form singular. It's

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Robert Hoekman Jr
How about a direct, 2nd person approach like Your partner's birthday? *Excellent* suggestion. -r- Welcome to the Interaction Design Association (IxDA)! To post to this list ... disc...@ixda.org Unsubscribe

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Robert Hoekman Jr
Mini-rant: It's interesting that so many of us gripe about grammar lessons in school, then want to enforce it in places like this, calling things wrong and ungrammatical. And at the same time we talk about designing for people. People communicate. In all different ways. It's also

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread live
No, I think what we're talking about is admitting the homonym. Straight up Steven Pinker: http://pinker.wjh.harvard.edu/books/tli/index.html On Jul 21, 2009, at 3:43 PM, Robert Hoekman Jr wrote: People always get irritated about nouns becoming verbs and yet we all google things. Language

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Christian Crumlish
On Tue, Jul 21, 2009 at 3:43 PM, Robert Hoekman Jr rob...@rhjr.net wrote: I'm all for the evolution of language, and yes, nouns become verbs frequently these days, but in this case, you're talking about making a plural form singular. It's the equivalent of referring to a single Google

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Robert Hoekman Jr
Is a plural form becoming used for singular cases somehow an impermissible form of evolution? Just pointing out that it's significantly less common. I actually can't think of any examples of this happening in English. I'm not sure your German example counts — we're not talking about German

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Christian Crumlish
On Tue, Jul 21, 2009 at 5:22 PM, Robert Hoekman Jr rob...@rhjr.net wrote: Is a plural form becoming used for singular cases somehow an impermissible form of evolution? Just pointing out that it's significantly less common. Really? Because it sounded to me like you were stating some abolute

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Jim Drew
Any way to get the gender of the person being targetted (the birthday person) and provide the right pronoun? You still have the issue where they can't/won't tell, but you can be better excused in that case for whatever way you go. -- Jim Via my iPhone On Jul 21, 2009, at 1:46 PM, suze

Re: [IxDA Discuss] His/Her vs. Their in website copy

2009-07-21 Thread Phillip Hunter
CV, Thanks. I've made my living from adaptive verbal and written language communication for 15 years, so I think I've got a fairly good handle on the place of grammar. It is indeed used for consistency in part, but not in the way that most people think about it. Grammar is an internal