i'm thankful to mr. Yadav for very assencial artical that full of spoon and knife. i personally feals that these things are very necessary in today's life it plays a key role in your personality and it is very important to have knowledge of how to handle these things for a blind person. and showes a good impression on the people. thankyou. ----- Original Message ----- From: "YADAV, D. N" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Friday, December 14, 2007 3:26 PM Subject: [AI] Using spoons, forks, knives and other such cutleries
> Nicest opinions, indeed, especially of Payal's & many other's on the > subject. In fact, many more things do I learn today on the subject from > this discussion. > > & I have only one more thing to add on. We do not have to feel inferior > for what we are not able to do somehow. 'Nobody can make u feel inferior > without ur consent' they say & as such nothing of the kind exists but for > our feelings. > > I understand use of cutlery is essential part of social life today & I am > sure we all can manage it with a little practice. I well remember the > incidence at my in-laws one day when a kid directly said upfront: 'Uncle, > are you Bihari?' & we all know what this expression means almost all over > India. > > Today in most social gatherings we often have hold the plate on one hand & > eating standing over using such tools which really makes things very > difficult. However, special arrangements could not be made everywhere for > a special person like VI. & even if it is made we cannot save face for > claiming to integrate ourselves with rest of the world at large. So > having 4 types of vegetables, 2 daals, curd, salad, papad, 3 type > chapatis, rice, etc. well piled up in a single plate, where the need to > identify their respective places? & isn't the idea rightly aligned up > with all things finally getting messed up in a single leather bag? Of > course, the ancient idea of slow good eating has dynamically changed in a > social gathering to quick, fast, most eating & most wasting. So eating is > advisable some by cutlery, a bit by hand & come out clean without have to > say 'no, it wasn't tasty'. So Imran, whether you eat by hand or with a > cutlery; matters not much. We should take care to save our dresses & keep > our identity intact with a bold face with other social norms like looking > neat & clean. > > This Message was sent from Indian Oil Messaging Gateway. The information > contained in this electronic message and any attachments to this message > are intended for the exclusive use of the addressee(s) and may contain > proprietary, confidential or privileged information. If you are not the > intended recipient, you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this > e-mail. Please notify the sender immediately and destroy all copies of > this message and any attachments. > > To unsubscribe send a message to [EMAIL PROTECTED] > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, > please visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in To unsubscribe send a message to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
