Hi,
As said by many learned and experienced members here, acceptance is the
first key towards a successful and better life and always remember that
you are not alone with such condition and there are several ways of
doing the same thing. In my life, I have met several people who were in
the same condition and are now living a happy and peaceful life after
they realized that crying is not the solution and they can still do the
same things which they used to do with their vision. Driving bike may
not be possible as of now on the Indian roads with vision loss, but this
is also not impossible as there are people with blindness who are doing
this too outside of India. Further, not able to do one thing is not
regrettable if you can do many other better things. in my experience of
working on a helpline for people with blindness to guide them about
living life with blindness, I've talked to many such people who felt the
same way and after they realized about the various options available for
them to lead a better life, have moved out of their shells and are now
accomplishing their goals. Feel free to talk to me on 9315516985 any
time and I will be happy to assist you in any possible manner.
Best,
Satguru.
On 22-02-2019 09:41 AM, Alvesh Shokeen wrote:
Thank you friends for your emotional support. I will be calling you
for seeking an assistance. Hope I am recovering soon from this
emotional breakdown. I am also in Delhi.
On 2/21/19, Prerna Sobti <[email protected]> wrote:
And one more thing I was a corporate trainer nationally and have even
trained internationally I was literally living out of a suitcase used to
travel everywhere one day in Jaipur next day in Chandigarh morning in Bhopal
evening in Delhi and next in Calcutta that was the life and for two years I
did not even know anything like assisted technology exists for two years I
was without any phone without any thing to do because I was totally unaware
so when I can do it so can you you are so much more aware than me so good
luck
Prerna Sobti
On 21-Feb-2019, at 9:09 PM, Alvesh Shokeen <[email protected]>
wrote:
Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time
for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far
just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner
leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as
wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be
blind in near future.
I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market
with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that
well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain
dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I
do now?
You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through
similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest
me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I
am really in trouble.
On 2/21/19, Amar Jain <[email protected]> wrote:
While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk
it
through.
Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide
your
future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230.
Regards,
Amar Jain
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On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G <[email protected]> wrote:
I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not
even
walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together
with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the
best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 .
Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo
this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives.
Regards
Vamshi
On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey <[email protected]>
wrote:
My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's
difficult
to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I
could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995
On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, <[email protected]>
wrote:
Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government
service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP.
Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is
becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the
hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours.
I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time
engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going
away, and I feel very hopeless.
Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in
this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn
how to live life with disability.
Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes.
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