I fully agree with Canchanji. Mittal
-----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Pamnani Sent: Friday, November 11, 2011 7:19 PM To: [email protected] Cc: garima goyal Subject: Re: [AI] Blind man held for raping blind friend's blind wife I am really shocked. I am not so shocked with the incident as I am shocked with the reactions of this group. Some one is saying we should be positive, someone is saying that he is not sharing this information someone is saying how life is difficult and how difficult it is to commit a crime when you are blind, someone goes further to say that we should not discuss this on this list. Come on folks lets grow up and see the news for what it is without sensationalising the story. This is not news that can be brushed under the carpet and kept away from others. When we share success stories of people with blindness on this list then why cant we share their failures too. Yes rape is committed by both blind and non blind and that is not newsworthy. On this group everyone has commented about the accused. No one has commented about the primary victim and the secondary victim. Dont forget that there were 3 Blind people in this story. The vulnerability of the Disabled woman is something she has to be more careful of than other women. How many men try and touch and feel blind women. Just because blind men cant see does that mean they dont touch? does it mean that other men are not touching blind women while the blind man is in the same room? How can a woman protect herself from a man in whose care she has been placed by her husband? What about prostitution? What about blind men marrying blind women so that these so called wives can be used as income generators. What about the sexuality of a blind woman? Not directly applicable in this story but may be used as a defence in case this matter really goes to trial. Havent we learnt from this story to be more careful and not even to trust our blind male friends? Do you think we should have been deprived of this story? What about the husband? Atleast in this story the police lodged a complaint. Imagine if you have to lodge a complaint and you are blind-90% of the time the police wont lodge the complain whatever it may be. So this man was lucky . As a man he has no sense to leave his wife in another man's care? Should he or could he not have taken better care of her? We dont know the circumstances so we cant comment on this issue but so many of you are male and married on this group- is it not your duty whether you are blind or not to ensure that your wife whetehr she is blind or not, is protected to the best of your ability. What about his personal thoughts at this moment-so many times we think of our helplessness in some situations. I am not taking away from our achievements. No amount of technology, no personal helper, cane, guide dog,etc. etc. helps. The husbands on this group have been shaken up a little and thats good for them and their wives. Its not good for society to read negative news about the Blind but the Blind are also part of the same society. Thank you for sharing this news item, I would have otherwise missed it. Kanchan Pamnani Advocate & Solicitor 9, Suleman Chambers, Battery Street, Colaba, Mumbai - 400 039. ----- Original Message ----- From: "aliluhar" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Saturday, November 12, 2011 7:38 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Blind man held for raping blind friend's blind wife >I don't understand what is wrong in sharing the news related to our >community weather it is bad or good. I think we should know what is >happening in our community I mean in blind community regards aliluhar. > > -------------------------------------------------- > From: "Pankaj Kwatra" <[email protected]> > Sent: Thursday, November 10, 2011 8:16 PM > To: <[email protected]> > Subject: Re: [AI] Blind man held for raping blind friend's blind wife > >> Hello All,w >> >> Plant a good thought,cultivate it with positive feeling, nurture good >> ideas , behave in responsible manner. >> >> Rgds, >> >> Pankaj Kwatra >> >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: [email protected] >> [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Ravindra >> Jadhav >> Sent: Thursday, November 10, 2011 9:28 PM >> To: Devprakash; [email protected] >> Subject: Re: [AI]Blind man held for raping blind friend's blind wife >> >> Dear, I am sorry to say that I am not agreed on it. >> What is wrong in it? Let's Vi persons also know what is happening in >> social. >> We are thinking only blind person but what about sighted. There's >> attitude is different to see the blind. Therefore I am heartily >> congratulate to Mr. Pradeep for spread this type of news. Now the >> further step is to creat a good avairness and establish good rappoin >> our society. Don't sit silent do something on it. Now you get the >> point what I want to say. >> Regards. >> >> On 11/10/11, Devprakash <[email protected]> wrote: >>> Well friends please don't spread shameful matter like this. I know >> that such >>> thing should not happen, but i tried every possible thing to hide this >> news >>> in my hostel also though all the accused persons were my old friends. >> Its >>> not dat i m defending them but because of shame. Sorry if i hurted any >> body >>> Thanks >>> >>> -original message- >>> Subject: Re: [AI] Blind man held for raping blind friend's blind wife >>> From: "Vikas Kapoor" <[email protected]> >>> Date: 06/11/2011 7:49 pm >>> >>> The rape cases have neither to do with any technology nor >> accessibility, I >>> think these types of news postings should not be brought on the list >> as >>> these types of acts are not confined to any people with any disability >>> rather a common phenomena. >>> My personal views only and do not represent the list guidelines. >>> Vikas Kapoor, >>> MSN Id: [email protected], Yahoo&Skype Id: dl_vikas, >>> Mobile: (+91) 9891098137. >>> ----- Original Message ----- >>> From: "Ravindra Jadhav" <[email protected]> >>> To: <[email protected]> >>> Sent: Sunday, November 06, 2011 6:45 PM >>> Subject: Re: [AI]Blind man held for raping blind friend's blind wife >>> >>> >>> Very sad, First time I read this type of news. >>> >>> On 11/6/11, pradeep banakar <[email protected]> wrote: >>>> http://timesofindia.in... >>>> >>>> MUMBAI: The Kolsewadi police in Kalyan (E) on Friday arrested a >>>> 39-year-old blind man for allegedly raping his friend's 24-year-old >>>> wife, who is also blind, at his friend's residence in Manpada, >>>> Dombivli, on October 27. >>>> >>>> The police also arrested accused Ashok Yadav's friend Mahesh Yadav >>>> (22), also blind, for aiding him. >>>> >>>> Investigators said the victim, a resident of Ambernath, and the >>>> accused, from Kalyan (E), sell fruits, vegetables and stationery >> items >>>> on local trains and they got friendly due to their common profession. >>>> >>>> The matter came to light on Friday, when the victim's husband (also >>>> blind) got suspicious after his wife stopped talking to Ashok. >>>> >>>> On repeated questioning, the victim broke down and revealed that >>>> Ashok, on the pretext of repairing a mobile phone, took her to his >>>> friend's flat in Manpada and repeatedly raped her. In the police >>>> complaint, the victim's husband, said, "Before leaving for Pune for >>>> personal work, I decided to leave my wife at my friend Ashok's Kalyan >>>> residence. While leaving her, I bought her a mobile phone and got a >>>> prepaid SIM card. However, she was unable to operate it. When she >>>> asked Ashok to help her in activating it, he claimed that the phone >>>> had to be repaired and took her to Dombivli, where he raped her." >>>> >>>> Kolsewadi police assistant inspector I V Vishwakarma said they had >>>> booked Ashok for rape and his accomplice for aiding him in the crime. >>>> "The victim maintained silence for almost a week. The accused were >>>> arrested from their residences." >>>> >>>> >>>> -- >>>> With Regards >>>> Pradeep T.S >>>> Email: [email protected] >>>> Mobile: 9845925188 >>>> Skype: pradeepsocialwork >>>> >>>> Register for AccessIndia convention 2011(November 12-13) at: >>>> http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/convention.htm >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> [email protected] >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please >>>> visit the list home page at >>>> >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i >> n >>>> >>>> >>> >>> Register for AccessIndia convention 2011(November 12-13) at: >>> http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/convention.htm >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> [email protected] >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i >> n >>> >>> >>> >>> Register for AccessIndia convention 2011(November 12-13) at: >>> http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/convention.htm >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> [email protected] >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i >> n >>> >>> >>> >>> Register for AccessIndia convention 2011(November 12-13) at: >>> http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/convention.htm >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> [email protected] >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i >> n >>> >>> >> >> Register for AccessIndia convention 2011(November 12-13) at: >> http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/convention.htm >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> [email protected] >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i >> n >> >> ...................................................................... >> **************************************************************************** ************ >> This e-mail message may contain confidential, proprietary or legally >> privileged information. 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