agreed sir, if their would be no reservation in jobs for the disabled
persons, i don't think that specially blind persons would get job in
government sector. i should not write more on this matter because this will
not fullfill the purpose of this topic.
----- Original Message -----
From: "mahendra" <[email protected]>
To: "AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerningthe disabled." <[email protected]>
Sent: Thursday, July 03, 2014 12:07 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners
Dear Ashita
why people give us jobs, if they can get sighted people?
are you working?
and there are enough sighted people jobless, or not?
At 10:19 AM 7/2/2014, you wrote:
Dear preety madam, I can understand through your real example that marriage
between disable and non disable is not always disastrous But I am being
reasonable in stead of being positive or negative. If a person gets able
bodied life partner then why he or she should accept blind person? Madam,
this isnâ?Tt question of Indian or American mentality. Blindness is big
problem. Blindness is not as simple and easy as you are describing.
Fortunatlly I have vision right now. But if I will loss it, people will
know me by my blindness more then my real name. If I will do something
good, they will say: see that blind girl has done really great job. If I
will fail in something they will say: bechari blind hai to thik se nahi kar
paai. Blindness will always come first in our over all personality. People
can accept us as a friend or employee easily with our blindness. But the
same people will think twice before accepting blind life partner. Rather
they will accept blind person as his or her life partner in majburi only.
On 7/2/14, Preeti Monga <[email protected]> wrote: > Hey,
who are these beggers? Not any of us here I hope? You all are all doing >
wonderfully well... then why are we calling ourselves, or even indicating >
towards ourselves as beggers! > > Life is our choice, you are whatever you
have chosen to be... so let us > first of all choose to be beggers! We all
deserve the best! How are we going > to convince the world that we are
great human beings, when we are still > referring to ourselves as beggers?
I think we need to begin at the very > beginning. Incidently, we have a
major disability, on top of that we go > ahead and subscribe to being
beggers! Amazing! We first have to look at > ourselves as the true people
we actually are! If we are still not able to do > this, how are we even
expecting the non disabled society to look at us > differently? The world
perceives you in the same way that you look at > yourself! Please
remember, it is that simple! This is our world, and we are > choosing to
remain on the dark side of it, then why complain at the way we > get
treated? If you say your name is 'begger' then that is exactly what you >
will be called as or refered to by others! This is what is meant by >
conditioning. > > Please do understand, all, each one of us is the very
best and we have > equal right and equal duties by this world! Perform
your duties to the best > of your abilities, and your rights will come
running after you! > Warmly > Preeti > > Preeti Monga > Director > > > >
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> -----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia
[mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf > Of Asudani,
Rajesh > Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 2:24 PM > To: AccessIndia: a list
for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled. >
Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners > > Well said Ishita. >
Motivation is ok, but marriages between blind and sighted, without >
compromise are rare.. > > Please remember beggars are not choosers.... > >
> > -----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia
[mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf > Of ishita
kapoor > Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 2:10 PM > To: AccessIndia: a list
for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled. >
Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners > > I have found the argument
of bhavani sir more realistic. > Preety madam, if your aim is just to
motivate us then your points are valid. > I have 40 percent vision. > And
if I lose it no sighted person will even think to marry me even in > dream
unless he has social or economical problems. > In that case a guy will
marry me if he wonâ?Tt get proper match rather > any girl in able bodied
world, > Or if I can offer him lots of money if he is poor > Or I have nice
job and he has no earning capacity. > Otherwise no sighted person will
marry me just for the sake of charity. > And I donâ?Tt have any bitter
feeling for this belief. > Because everyone has right to choose a life
partner who is equal in all > aspects > I canâ?Tt marry with the guy who
doesnâ?Tt have both arms and both legs. > The same way I shouldnâ?Tt expect
such charity from any able bodied man. > And yes I wonâ?Tt get promotion if
I ask my boss to touch his clothes by > saying: sir log kafi tariff kar
rahe hai chalo mai bhi chhoo ke dekhu > to tariff kar saku. > I donâ?Tt
have much experience but still I would like to advice all > youngsters that
please donâ?Tt do this. > Donâ?Tt ask anyone that: sir ya madam mai apke
kapde dekhna chahta hun > ya chahti hun. > > > On 7/2/14, Preeti Monga
<[email protected]> wrote: >> You are very right! >> Preeti
>> >> Preeti Monga >> Director >> >> >> >> Mobile: +91 9871701646 >>
Landline: 011 22781446 >> E-mail: [email protected] >>
Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org >> Our
Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training
>> Motivation; Stresss Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting >>
Corpoorate >> ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including
demystifying >> workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive
Travel and >> Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. >> >> We assure high
quality service marked with excellence and complete >> customer centricity,
forming Synergies as we go along. >> >> >> >> -----Original Message----- >>
From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On >>
Behalf >> Of Zoher Kheriwala >> Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 11:44 AM >>
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning
>> the disabled. >> Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >>
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >> >
> In the world we cannot expect every sighted
person to get married to a >> blind person, even we cannot expect every
blind person to get married >> to a blind person. Some of us might have
rejected the proposal of >> sighted person not because of he or she is
sighted but many reasons >> other vice. Or if we are rejected by sighted
person, it might not be >> related to our blindness. >> Let me have the
courage to make the statement, Many of we blind people >> have the habit to
relate our rejection (not only in marriages but also >> in jobs and other
sectors) to our blindness, but I am sure that if we >> are appealing to the
required party then our blindness should not be >> of great concern. Yes
having some doubt about our work efficiency is >> quite natural in the case
of sighted partner, this may not be the case >> if we are engaged with
blind partner. This is the time when we have to >> show our ability (not
only through talking but also through working). >> Marrying to a sighted
person or vice versa cannot guaranty of >> successful married life. It has
very little to do with our blindness. >> I have married to a blind girl, We
have not accepted each other >> because we are blind, blindness is just is
a coincidence. Let me put >> in other words, My life partner happends to be
a person with >> blindness. >> When we are in a hunt of life partner, we
cannot over estimate the >> ability of sighted person and we should not
under estimate the ability >> of blind partner. >> >> >> On 7/2/14, Shadab
Husain <[email protected]> wrote: >>> Hey Bhawani bhai, nice quotes! The
key point is that there has to be some >>> "self-interest" for both the
parties otherwise the friendship will end. A >>> person with financial
poverty and emotional richness can provide >>> emotional >>> support to the
emotionally poor but financially rich one and thus can be >>> equal in
status. Can we apply it on a blind marrying a sighted? Disagree >>> with
it, but I won't - especially after seeing so many examples on Access >>>
India. >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: AccessIndia
[mailto:[email protected]] On >> Behalf >>> Of bhawani
shankar verma >>> Sent: 02 July 2014 07:13 >>> To: AccessIndia: a list for
discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning >>> the disabled. >>>
Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >>>
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >>>
>>> "Never make friends with people who are
above or below you in status. >>> Such >>> friendships will never give you
any happiness." >>> - Chanakya >>> >>> "There is some self-interest
behind every friendship. There is no >>> friendship >>> without
self-interests. This is a bitter truth." >>> - Chanakya >>> >>> both
quotations should also be applied regarding partnership. marriage is >> a
>>> social partnership between to parties where they have joined each other
>>> to >>> satisfy their physical and emotional desires. >>> >>> -----
Original Message ----- >>> From: "aditi shah" <[email protected]> >>>
To: "accessindia" <[email protected]> >>> Sent: Tuesday, July
01, 2014 6:24 PM >>> Subject: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >>>
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >>>
>>> >>>> Hi there everyone, >>>> Have been
reading this discussion since a few days, so felt like >>>> expressing my
views as well. >>>> >>>> We are all humans blind or not, and we have our
own set of skills. >>>> There might be areas we are extremely good at or
there might be areas >>>> we cannot do much, in case of us blind it may be
because of our >>>> disability whereas incase of sighted it might be due to
other reasons. >>>> According to me, a happy married life demands a set of
some basic >>>> skills, like understanding, cooking, up bringing of kids,
earning, >>>> socializing, etc. >>>> Again, these basic requirements differ
depending on what kind of a >>>> lifestyle one has. >>>> So, in my view, it
does not really matter whether we are marrying a >>>> sighted or a blind,
what matters is whether our's and our partner's >>>> skills can meet those
basic requirements or not. >>>> Considering this, I disagree from the
belief that if a blind has to >>>> marry a sighted, he has to make
compromises like marrying someone >>>> economically or intellectually
weaker than us. >>>> If a blind who is earning well or is from a well-to-do
family or may >>>> be is extremely qualified marries a sighted from a
weaker economic >>>> background or qualification, it is not a compromise as
far as both >>>> partners together possess the required skills. >>>> Even
if a blind is marrying a blind, and both of them can manage to do >>>> the
required things, may be in ways different than the normal world, >>>> they
can indeed have a successful married life. >>>> >>>> So, it is not about
being blind or sighted, it is always about finding >>>> that someone such
that with understanding, you can both match up for >>>> each other's
shortcomings. >>>> Life partners are like two pieces of a puzzle, one has
to find the >>>> other half that fits perfectly, lest we got to spend our
entire life >>>> filling the gaps. >>>> >>>> Regards, >>>> aditi >>>> >>>>
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