Hey, who are these beggers? Not any of us here I hope? You all are all
doing
wonderfully well... then why are we calling ourselves, or even
indicating
towards ourselves as beggers!
Life is our choice, you are whatever you have chosen to be... so let us
first of all choose to be beggers! We all deserve the best! How are we
going
to convince the world that we are great human beings, when we are still
referring to ourselves as beggers? I think we need to begin at the very
beginning. Incidently, we have a major disability, on top of that we
go
ahead and subscribe to being beggers! Amazing! We first have to look at
ourselves as the true people we actually are! If we are still not able
to
do
this, how are we even expecting the non disabled society to look at us
differently? The world perceives you in the same way that you look at
yourself! Please remember, it is that simple! This is our world, and we
are
choosing to remain on the dark side of it, then why complain at the way
we
get treated? If you say your name is 'begger' then that is exactly
what
you
will be called as or refered to by others! This is what is meant by
conditioning.
Please do understand, all, each one of us is the very best and we have
equal right and equal duties by this world! Perform your duties to the
best
of your abilities, and your rights will come running after you!
Warmly
Preeti
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-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On
Behalf
Of Asudani, Rajesh
Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 2:24 PM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners
Well said Ishita.
Motivation is ok, but marriages between blind and sighted, without
compromise are rare..
Please remember beggars are not choosers....
-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On
Behalf
Of ishita kapoor
Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 2:10 PM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners
I have found the argument of bhavani sir more realistic.
Preety madam, if your aim is just to motivate us then your points are
valid.
I have 40 percent vision.
And if I lose it no sighted person will even think to marry me even in
dream unless he has social or economical problems.
In that case a guy will marry me if he won’t get proper match rather
any girl in able bodied world,
Or if I can offer him lots of money if he is poor
Or I have nice job and he has no earning capacity.
Otherwise no sighted person will marry me just for the sake of charity.
And I don’t have any bitter feeling for this belief.
Because everyone has right to choose a life partner who is equal in all
aspects
I can’t marry with the guy who doesn’t have both arms and both legs.
The same way I shouldn’t expect such charity from any able bodied man.
And yes I won’t get promotion if I ask my boss to touch his clothes by
saying: sir log kafi tariff kar rahe hai chalo mai bhi chhoo ke dekhu
to tariff kar saku.
I don’t have much experience but still I would like to advice all
youngsters that please don’t do this.
Don’t ask anyone that: sir ya madam mai apke kapde dekhna chahta hun
ya chahti hun.
On 7/2/14, Preeti Monga <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in> wrote:
You are very right!
Preeti
Preeti Monga
Director
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Landline: 011 22781446
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Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting.
Training
–Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting –
Corporate
; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including
demystifying
workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and
Marketing Data Mining / Refining..
We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete
customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along.
-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On
Behalf
Of Zoher Kheriwala
Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 11:44 AM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners
In the world we cannot expect every sighted person to get married to a
blind person, even we cannot expect every blind person to get married
to a blind person. Some of us might have rejected the proposal of
sighted person not because of he or she is sighted but many reasons
other vice. Or if we are rejected by sighted person, it might not be
related to our blindness.
Let me have the courage to make the statement, Many of we blind people
have the habit to relate our rejection (not only in marriages but also
in jobs and other sectors) to our blindness, but I am sure that if we
are appealing to the required party then our blindness should not be
of great concern. Yes having some doubt about our work efficiency is
quite natural in the case of sighted partner, this may not be the case
if we are engaged with blind partner. This is the time when we have to
show our ability (not only through talking but also through working).
Marrying to a sighted person or vice versa cannot guaranty of
successful married life. It has very little to do with our blindness.
I have married to a blind girl, We have not accepted each other
because we are blind, blindness is just is a coincidence. Let me put
in other words, My life partner happends to be a person with
blindness.
When we are in a hunt of life partner, we cannot over estimate the
ability of sighted person and we should not under estimate the ability
of blind partner.
On 7/2/14, Shadab Husain <shadab...@gmail.com> wrote:
Hey Bhawani bhai, nice quotes! The key point is that there has to be
some
"self-interest" for both the parties otherwise the friendship will
end.
A
person with financial poverty and emotional richness can provide
emotional
support to the emotionally poor but financially rich one and thus can
be
equal in status. Can we apply it on a blind marrying a sighted?
Disagree
with it, but I won't - especially after seeing so many examples on
Access
India.
-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On
Behalf
Of bhawani shankar verma
Sent: 02 July 2014 07:13
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and
issuesconcerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners
"Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status.
Such
friendships will never give you any happiness."
- Chanakya
"There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no
friendship
without self-interests. This is a bitter truth."
- Chanakya
both quotations should also be applied regarding partnership.
marriage
is
a
social partnership between to parties where they have joined each
other
to
satisfy their physical and emotional desires.
----- Original Message -----
From: "aditi shah" <shahaditi1...@gmail.com>
To: "accessindia" <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 6:24 PM
Subject: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are
normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners
Hi there everyone,
Have been reading this discussion since a few days, so felt like
expressing my views as well.
We are all humans blind or not, and we have our own set of skills.
There might be areas we are extremely good at or there might be
areas
we cannot do much, in case of us blind it may be because of our
disability whereas incase of sighted it might be due to other
reasons.
According to me, a happy married life demands a set of some basic
skills, like understanding, cooking, up bringing of kids, earning,
socializing, etc.
Again, these basic requirements differ depending on what kind of a
lifestyle one has.
So, in my view, it does not really matter whether we are marrying a
sighted or a blind, what matters is whether our's and our partner's
skills can meet those basic requirements or not.
Considering this, I disagree from the belief that if a blind has to
marry a sighted, he has to make compromises like marrying someone
economically or intellectually weaker than us.
If a blind who is earning well or is from a well-to-do family or may
be is extremely qualified marries a sighted from a weaker economic
background or qualification, it is not a compromise as far as both
partners together possess the required skills.
Even if a blind is marrying a blind, and both of them can manage to
do
the required things, may be in ways different than the normal world,
they can indeed have a successful married life.
So, it is not about being blind or sighted, it is always about
finding
that someone such that with understanding, you can both match up for
each other's shortcomings.
Life partners are like two pieces of a puzzle, one has to find the
other half that fits perfectly, lest we got to spend our entire life
filling the gaps.
Regards,
aditi
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