First, I have to say that I feel your pain and am sorry for it. Sometimes,
you have to just gut through life till it gets better.

I wear my ring. When I conned I tried to remember to take it off. First
because it really wears a hole in your hand. Second because I didn't want
it hanging in something. Otherwise I never take it off. 32 years. Maybe
that is more a testament to the fact we are both too lazy to try and train
another companion than get happier. Actually pretty lucky someone will put
up with me.

Second, leave all your comms at home. You need the time and will be a
better employee after the time off. As an owner, while I spent a lot of
vacation time working on shit I never expected my employees to. In fact, I
used the opportunity to verify documentation was as good as it should be.
An organization that can't operate without one person for a week is too
fragile and that should be addressed. I am not talking about a one year old
startup.

On Sat, Jul 21, 2018, 11:43 PM Steve Jones <[email protected]>
wrote:

> This is super off topic, maybe really relevant to some. I note we have
> been infiltrated by list nazis this year so let me stress this  is very OT,
> unless it's not.
> You other wireless gimps may have noticed I've been a bit absent of late
> with my totally awesome insight and amazing commentary.
> Let me give a quick rundown. Last year I knocked the wench up, that thing
> didn't quite finish cooking, quite an unexpected bought  of those things
> real people have.. emotions I think they're called.
> The worthless tech, yet warm body broke his ankle in February or so, so I
> got to start doing my job and his since then (freaking awesome, let me tell
> you, who's my family again? Not sure, never see them)
> Picked up the two foster kids we had 6 years ago for a couple of years
> again because, well garbage cans shouldn't have kids, but they do.
> Found out the old bag was knocked up again right after we committed to
> adding the other two to the permanent mix.
> Got the joyous pleasure of watching the old ladies step mom go through
> pancreatic cancer and die in a few short months. Had made the prior mistake
> of her becoming one of my favorite people in the world... won't do that
> again.
> Dealing with the ball and chains mom going through stage 4 bone cancer,
> made the mistake of getting fond of this one too. (Historical note, I was
> an EMT-I here in illinois for 8 years who took that job way too serious, so
> I'm more aware of physiologic response to treatment than most, she's got
> near term croaks)
> I'm remodelling my house in all my spare time to fit all these tiny bodies
> in here.
> Decided to make a right woman out of this sow I've been with for 14 years,
> hammered that nonsense out in less than 30 days (was a nice wedding, if you
> like such things, I didn't cry, the preacher must have ate onions
> My old man appears to be catching a case of brain crickets, probably going
> to go south. Lucky for him he is declining slow enough to know exactly
> what's happening...what a spiteful God we have at times.
> The tech who broke his ankle has a lawyer, which is great, because
> incompetence should always get a settlement that could maybe bankrupt my
> employer for a decade and a half, right?
> My gardens full of weeds,  I lost all my habanero plants,  there's nothing
> tastier than a green habanero  and stores don't sell them.
> The junky dad of my two fosters is in jail, and the drug dealing stunt
> cock their mom is with is calling them from jail on visits with their
> mom... great parenting there, mother of the year.
> Oh yeah, I'm a like a top ten tier functional alcoholic.  Big shocker,
> right?
>
> Needless to say, I'm a bit stressed.
>
> I'm not an owner, I literally can walk away any time I want, no harm, no
> foul. I bring this up here because most of you jack bags are the same as
> me, you identify yourself by what you do, whether it's for yourself, or
> another guy. When you introduce people or talk about them, it's not John or
> mike, it's John the plumber and Mike the electrician.
>
> Two questions for the borg. The first being on topic.
>
> 1. This stupid ring that I am trying to wear since I bought the cow. Any
> of you wear it?, I figure it's getting me electrocuted  or 9 fingered. But
> it seems important to the milkbag.
>
> 2. When do you justify a blank disconnect. I'm going to the lake
> Shelbyville the first week of August (highly recomend this place, great
> fishing) we've gone there for a few years once a year with family, I've
> always made a point of bringing two separate service hotspots and two
> seperate service cellphones so I can be certain to connect back to the
> office. I have spent probably 50 percent of every prior vacation either
> dealing with or checking on on work for a decade. I'm burnt guys. I expect
> the usual "you gotta seperate" stuff. But really, from an owner perspective
> who has a right hand man, or a tech perspective who is too dumb to separate
> themselves, is that even realistic? What if SHTF? As an owner, you can't
> tell your right hand man to stay connected, but that's really what you
> want, isn't it? If you could answer a poll  anonymously.
>
> I missed you guys btw, even jaime
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