Lewis is right, if the company can't operate without one person for a week,
that's a problem that needs to be fixed - and it's better to find that out
when he''s on vacation than to wait until he gets hit by a bus or
something...

I have the same tendency to want to check on work stuff when I'm on
vacation (well, not exactly want to, but you know what I mean), but the
last couple of years, I've tried to force myself not to. If there's a major
catastrophe, that they absolutely need you for, I'm sure your boss can
always track you down and drag you back to work...

On Sun, Jul 22, 2018 at 7:57 AM, Lewis Bergman <[email protected]>
wrote:

> First, I have to say that I feel your pain and am sorry for it. Sometimes,
> you have to just gut through life till it gets better.
>
> I wear my ring. When I conned I tried to remember to take it off. First
> because it really wears a hole in your hand. Second because I didn't want
> it hanging in something. Otherwise I never take it off. 32 years. Maybe
> that is more a testament to the fact we are both too lazy to try and train
> another companion than get happier. Actually pretty lucky someone will put
> up with me.
>
> Second, leave all your comms at home. You need the time and will be a
> better employee after the time off. As an owner, while I spent a lot of
> vacation time working on shit I never expected my employees to. In fact, I
> used the opportunity to verify documentation was as good as it should be.
> An organization that can't operate without one person for a week is too
> fragile and that should be addressed. I am not talking about a one year old
> startup.
>
> On Sat, Jul 21, 2018, 11:43 PM Steve Jones <[email protected]>
> wrote:
>
>> This is super off topic, maybe really relevant to some. I note we have
>> been infiltrated by list nazis this year so let me stress this  is very OT,
>> unless it's not.
>> You other wireless gimps may have noticed I've been a bit absent of late
>> with my totally awesome insight and amazing commentary.
>> Let me give a quick rundown. Last year I knocked the wench up, that thing
>> didn't quite finish cooking, quite an unexpected bought  of those things
>> real people have.. emotions I think they're called.
>> The worthless tech, yet warm body broke his ankle in February or so, so I
>> got to start doing my job and his since then (freaking awesome, let me tell
>> you, who's my family again? Not sure, never see them)
>> Picked up the two foster kids we had 6 years ago for a couple of years
>> again because, well garbage cans shouldn't have kids, but they do.
>> Found out the old bag was knocked up again right after we committed to
>> adding the other two to the permanent mix.
>> Got the joyous pleasure of watching the old ladies step mom go through
>> pancreatic cancer and die in a few short months. Had made the prior mistake
>> of her becoming one of my favorite people in the world... won't do that
>> again.
>> Dealing with the ball and chains mom going through stage 4 bone cancer,
>> made the mistake of getting fond of this one too. (Historical note, I was
>> an EMT-I here in illinois for 8 years who took that job way too serious, so
>> I'm more aware of physiologic response to treatment than most, she's got
>> near term croaks)
>> I'm remodelling my house in all my spare time to fit all these tiny
>> bodies in here.
>> Decided to make a right woman out of this sow I've been with for 14
>> years, hammered that nonsense out in less than 30 days (was a nice wedding,
>> if you like such things, I didn't cry, the preacher must have ate onions
>> My old man appears to be catching a case of brain crickets, probably
>> going to go south. Lucky for him he is declining slow enough to know
>> exactly what's happening...what a spiteful God we have at times.
>> The tech who broke his ankle has a lawyer, which is great, because
>> incompetence should always get a settlement that could maybe bankrupt my
>> employer for a decade and a half, right?
>> My gardens full of weeds,  I lost all my habanero plants,  there's
>> nothing tastier than a green habanero  and stores don't sell them.
>> The junky dad of my two fosters is in jail, and the drug dealing stunt
>> cock their mom is with is calling them from jail on visits with their
>> mom... great parenting there, mother of the year.
>> Oh yeah, I'm a like a top ten tier functional alcoholic.  Big shocker,
>> right?
>>
>> Needless to say, I'm a bit stressed.
>>
>> I'm not an owner, I literally can walk away any time I want, no harm, no
>> foul. I bring this up here because most of you jack bags are the same as
>> me, you identify yourself by what you do, whether it's for yourself, or
>> another guy. When you introduce people or talk about them, it's not John or
>> mike, it's John the plumber and Mike the electrician.
>>
>> Two questions for the borg. The first being on topic.
>>
>> 1. This stupid ring that I am trying to wear since I bought the cow. Any
>> of you wear it?, I figure it's getting me electrocuted  or 9 fingered. But
>> it seems important to the milkbag.
>>
>> 2. When do you justify a blank disconnect. I'm going to the lake
>> Shelbyville the first week of August (highly recomend this place, great
>> fishing) we've gone there for a few years once a year with family, I've
>> always made a point of bringing two separate service hotspots and two
>> seperate service cellphones so I can be certain to connect back to the
>> office. I have spent probably 50 percent of every prior vacation either
>> dealing with or checking on on work for a decade. I'm burnt guys. I expect
>> the usual "you gotta seperate" stuff. But really, from an owner perspective
>> who has a right hand man, or a tech perspective who is too dumb to separate
>> themselves, is that even realistic? What if SHTF? As an owner, you can't
>> tell your right hand man to stay connected, but that's really what you
>> want, isn't it? If you could answer a poll  anonymously.
>>
>> I missed you guys btw, even jaime
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> --
>> AF mailing list
>> [email protected]
>> http://af.afmug.com/mailman/listinfo/af_af.afmug.com
>>
>
> --
> AF mailing list
> [email protected]
> http://af.afmug.com/mailman/listinfo/af_af.afmug.com
>
>
-- 
AF mailing list
[email protected]
http://af.afmug.com/mailman/listinfo/af_af.afmug.com

Reply via email to