Dilip-da:
No marriage can be saved by one side - particularly, the weaker side. Traditional
Indian women sacrifice their life and their wants to do that. That ought not to be the
case.
Santanu
-----Original Message-----
From: Dilip/Dil Deka [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: 10/2/2004 (å) 3:43 åå
To: Roy, Santanu
Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: RE: [Assam] Car Rally from Guwahati Is Not for Fun Alone
Santanu,
Thank you for your kind words on my intellectual ability and professional
experience. Coming from an academician, it is an honor for me.
Your statement below had a (hidden) message that did not come out completely.
What ship are you talking about and who is abandoning that ship?
I agree with you that the whole is not always the sum of the components, it
can be more or it can be less. Your note implies that the whole is less than the sum
in this case.
My earlier emails in this thread were not meant to spin anything, nor was
there any hidden agenda. I was simply trying to point out that there is no evil design
against Assam in New Delhi, in fact there have been political leaders who worked for
Assam's development. Yes, there are countless other factors including parts of the
Indian constitution that work contrary to Assam's interests.
Using your analogy to marriage, should Assam work at improving the marital
relations by re-establishing the conditions for a better marriage or should Assam
abandon the marriage? What is your opinion?
Dilipda
"Roy, Santanu" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Dilip-da:
I am astonished that someone with your intellectual ability and
professional experience in large organizations should say this. It is a fundamental
fact of social institutions that extremely well meaning people can, as a collectivity,
function in the most disastrous manner. A system is much more than the sum of best
intentions of the people it is composed of. Even a marriage of two great persons or a
family of affectionate parents and children attain states of intolerable suffocation
and mutual hurt - not because of the lack of best intentions - but because of the way
in which their interaction has taken place over time - the role of chance events, the
role of external factors - small, little things that don't amount to anything in
themselves, but that together acquire a monstrosity over time - so that nothing but
abandoning ship and starting on a fresh slate appears to be the way to go.
Santanu.
-----Original Message-----
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] on behalf of Dilip/Dil Deka
Sent: Fri 10/1/2004 12:23 PM
To: Chan Mahanta; Anjan K. Nath; ASSAMNETCOLORADO
Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: [Assam] Car Rally from Guwahati Is Not for Fun Alone
I am surprised at this talk that is delirious and single track minded.
If as a person ABV meant well, Dr. Singh means well, and so many other
leaders in Delhi mean well, then who is left who does not mean well? You will say it
is the system, but the system is made up of people like these.
If you don't respect others, others don't respect you- it is as simple
as that. Do you think ABV had some ethnic hatred towards the Assamese people when he
used the term "disloyal", if he used that term at all? There were twenty odd other
states about whom he could use the term but he didn't have to. When will you start
looking at the world without the bias and hatred towards other Indians? Whether Assam
is independent, autonomous, or stays as a state in India, Assam will have to learn to
live with India.
Dilip
Chan Mahanta wrote:
Anjan:
I know about Saikia, even though I don't know him or what he is all
about.
At any event that is beside the point.
It is not WHAT an individual politician thinks of Assam or views the
NE's angst as. I won't have any trouble believing that ABV means well. But that means
NOTHING. It has nothing to do with individual Indians' view of Assam or Nagaland or
Mizoram, or the Bodos or the Karbis.
What DOES matter however, is what, as a nation that is known as
India,has COLLECTIVELY done to our peoples, and will CONTINUE to do.
It is about positive change. It is about believing in democracy in all
its many
uncomfortable 'avatars', it is in believing in the need for making the
institutions of democracy WORK, it is about devolution of powers to the people, it is
about learning to accept dissent, it is about RESPECTING everyone, regardless of their
economic status, it is about RESPECTING people and their cultures, even if they are
NOT something you grew up with, it is about LETTING PEOPLEs BE as agreed to in a
FEDERAL democratic state as promised, at time of independence, It is ALL about all of
the above and more, that the Indian state has failed to live up to.
So I find the anecdotes of individuals' goodwill towards the people of
Assam or the other contiguous states, as PROOF of Indian goodness and the NE's
"disloyalty" ( as ABV told Bhuban Barooah kokaideu in London) patently ridiculous.
c
c
----- Original Message -----
From: Chan Mahanta
To: Dilip/Dil Deka ; ASSAMNETCOLORADO
Sent: Friday, October 01, 2004 6:54 AM
Subject: Re: [Assam] Car Rally from Guwahati Is Not for Fun Alone
>It looks like Guwahati and Assam were on Vajpayee's mind even when he
was >travelling abroad and NDA govt. was serious about opening the land route to the
>east through Assam.
Tonight I am going to rejoice at Assam's being in the forefront of
Vajpayee's mind, EVEN while traveling abroad. And lecture all those who complain of
being in the receiving end of 'step-motherly' treatment by the Center and their
'khai-paat-folaa' attitudes.
Come on Dilip :-) :-) :-) :-)!
At 3:31 PM -0700 9/30/04, Dilip/Dil Deka wrote:
From TOI.
It looks like Guwahati and Assam were on Vajpayee's mind even when he
was travelling abroad and NDA govt. was serious about opening the land route to the
east through Assam.
Dilip
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ASEAN for Guwahati to Indonesia car rally
timesofindia.indi/49F7D071.gif
ANI [ THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 30, 2004 01:48:53 PM ]
GUWAHATI/ NEW DELHI: The Ministry of External Affairs (MEA), the
Confederation of Indian Industry (CII) and the ASEAN Secretariat (Indonesia) are
jointly organising a car rally from November 22 to December 11 to promote trade
between the ten ASEAN nations.
The car rally is being held to demonstrate that there exists a land
route between the member countries to enable free flow of trade. This would be first
car rally of its kind.
Titled "Chalo ASEAN", the car rally would be flagged from Guwahati and
pass through Myanmar, Thailand, Laos PDR, Vietnam, Cambodia, Malaysia, and Singapore,
before concluding in Indonesia.
The beginning of the rally from Guwahati would be actually a
culmination of mini car rallies from across the north-eastern states to be flagged off
by the chief ministers of the 'seven sisters'.
The ral! ly would also fulfil former prime minister Atal Bihari
Vajpayee's wish for such an event to take place to foster regional unity.
On October 8 last year, Vajpayee, while attending ASEAN Summit in Bali
had said, "To draw dramatic attention to our geographical proximity we could consider
the idea of an India-ASEAN Car Rally. A possible routing could be from Guwahati in
North-east India, through Myanmar, Thailand and Cambodia to Hanoi in Vietnam."
"Such a rally would draw in commercial interest in infrastructure
along the route. It can promote tourism and development. There could be a long term
impact on the economic co-operation in the region," Vajpayee had said.
Giving details of the rally in New Delhi, Resident Commissioner at the
Assam Bhawan, Rajiv Yadav, said, "One of the purposes of the car rally is to let the
public know that there exists a land route between the ASEAN nations. Till now it was
a hidden fact from the general p! ublic's knowledge."
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