--- Julia Thompson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Deborah Harrell wrote: > > > So *please* tell how you would let a woman know > >that she looked like a "zombie potato chip" without > >being derogatory... <huge grin> > > Well, for starters, if the dress just didn't flatter > her coloring, I'd > just let her know that it's not her best color, and > maybe mention > another *specific* dress of a better color > (mentioning the color, of > course) I've seen her in that I like better on her. > > Or do the same sort of thing for the *line* of the > dress. > > Pick one little attribute like that and tell her > what would flatter > *her* better than what she's wearing, at least on > that attribute. > > Or if you were going to be very blunt, tell her it's > not to *your* > taste. That puts the problem on you, and not the > dress. :)
Oh, Julia, now you've gone and given the guys another example of how we females finesse our reactions! <VBG> How will they learn if they don't try first?! Debbi <cups ear to listen for distant snarling, and some Tim Allen-type "u-UNn?"> ;} __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? SBC Yahoo! DSL - Now only $29.95 per month! http://sbc.yahoo.com _______________________________________________ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l
