In a message dated 11/17/2003 4:04:29 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
writes:

> Its certainly true that the actions taken by parents are in response to
> actions taken by kids.   But, I was thinking more of the structure of
> parenting, not the individual actions, once the if then 
> else structures are
> in place.

I am not sure I can explain this well but there are some studies that show that 
parenting style is an unconscious response to the childs "childing style". The point 
is that kids have their own agenda that is not that of their parents from the very 
beginning and that parenting style is really a dance.
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