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From: "xponentrob" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "Killer Bs (David Brin et al) Discussion" <[email protected]>
Sent: Friday, November 07, 2008 4:54 PM
Subject: Re: Proud and relieved


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> From: "Deborah Harrell" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: "Killer Bs (David Brin et al) Discussion" <[email protected]>
> Sent: Friday, November 07, 2008 3:20 PM
> Subject: Re: Proud and relieved
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>>> Jon Louis Mann <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>>
>> <snip>
>>> I had obama on a redeye flight from d.c. to chicago two
>>> years ago, just before he declared.  he was in my section so
>>> we chatted for over a half hour.  he was very gracious and
>>> charismatic...
>>
>> Oh, cool - he appears to be a really interesting person to talk to, so I
>> think I'm envious...
>>
>> He's putting his team together quickly, as indeed he ought, given the
>> gravity of multiple problems we face.  Goodwill ought to help out a bit,
>> as Rob's cites suggest, but it will certainly call for more than us
>> 'shopping 'til we drop.' <snort>
>>
>> Debbi
>> World Relief Maru
>
>
> http://flickr.com/photos/barackobamadotcom/sets/72157608716313371/
>
> Lots of special comments for individual pics by viewers.
>
Answering to my own post again.<G>

http://change.gov/newsroom/entry/president_elect_obama_speaks_on_the_eve_of_this_election/

To all who opposed Obama, I invite you to watch his acceptance speech and 
then hold his feet to the fire if you detect any dissembling or variance 
from his stated goals.
After all, we all elected him based on his rhetoric and it is only fair that 
we expect him to live up to it.
I certainly would be disappointed and angry if he does not work to unify us 
and lead us to a better future.

Side stories I'd like to share:

I talked with my Mom the day after the election and she was deliriously 
excited about Obama's election and how it indicates a break from the past. 
In the course of our conversation she related several stories of her youth 
in which institutional racism played a role. Several of the stories were 
striking, but one made me very proud of her.

When my Mom was a teenager, her family went to the neighborhood Baptist 
church. One Sunday the preacher was railing about how "Niggers will never 
darken the door of this church". (An African-American family had moved into 
the neighborhood the week before.) My mother looked around and saw the 
church-goers nodding approval. So she gets up and leaves, and in the over 50 
years since has only entered a Baptist church one time, and that was for a 
family wedding.
The ironic twist is that the neighborhood is now all black and it is 
unlikely that any white people ever darken its door.
The 50's are regarded by so many as some kind of golden age, but for many 
Americans it was a dark time filled with danger. People of African descent 
could be killed for little reason and with small hope of justice.

And you know, it wasn't just bad for Blacks. This kind of xenophobic culture 
was harming anyone who was *not white*. It was how some were forced to live 
their lives, always wary of the white majority and their "unwritten rules".

My Mom used to ride the bus to work in downtown Houston. One day and old 
Black woman got on the bus, she was bent and gnarled, in more than just a 
little pain. My Mom stood up and offered her her seat. The woman glared at 
her with hatred and anger. It was several years before Mom understood, but 
the event stayed with her and came to mind often. My mom was sitting in the 
"white" section of the bus in the front (actually more like the middle), and 
her act of attempted kindness was no kindness at all. The old woman would 
likely been thrown off the bus had she accepted the seat.

Events like these illustrate the true reason why Obama's presidency is so 
historic. We have come a long way with a distance to go before all citizens 
of our nation are fully empowered as equals. Certainly under the law we are 
equal, but culturally we suffer with division and inequity. I note that even 
at my job, when I talk to an African American about the election result, we 
tend to be careful about who's presence we are in. I see their furtive 
glances towards other whites and I get the sense they are glad to find a 
kindred soul in me, a white guy. Other times, I get the feeling that Blacks 
are reserved, as if unsure they can safely speak their mind to a white guy. 
(Not that they feel the potential for harm, but that they are unwilling to 
suffer the burning glance of someone's prejudice. Such things don't always 
roll off your back and some people are not inclined to have their day ruined 
by dwelling on hurtful things.) We still have a distance to travel.

One of the things that appeals to me about Obama is that he is fearless in 
the face of these remaining prejudices and is determined to unite us in 
spite of them. Personally, I believe that even if Obama is just a mediocre 
president the majority of these "small prejudices" will starve away as 
people get used to the idea of an elected minority president who's election 
does not sway the government into some radical or polemic direction. That 
Obama plans to govern from the center (politically) gives such hope.

I'm probably rambling far too much (and we all know my penchant for unclear 
writing), so this is a good place to stop.<G>

xponent
Yes We Can Maru
rob 

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